[Kazanne]

[QUOTE=tonyface;4693377]

Originally Posted by Cromwell1900

Aaron shakes all the time, when he talks, because he is like an old grandma.

In our house whenever he goes into one of his diatribes or pompous speeches in the diary room, our whole family start rolling our eyes and put on that silly Rigsby like head wobble that he does....

The scallywag is working aaaaawwfully hard to win though, and it would be aaaaaahhbsolutely apppppppaaaaaaallling if he did'nt make the final...

Well aint your whole house silly billies

[LivT]

Sure Cromwell That is an interesting question, and one I am happy to try and answer, personally, the best way I can...

We are all complex people....but I find Aaron's complexities a little too over-whelming..this in itself can lead to a multitude of sins...but even with this... I think some would relish it and see it as a challenge. I don't find his reticence in applying support when it involves defending his friends appealing. This is different to withdrawal of conflict when it is a personal issue. I can, no doubt, come up with other examples, given some time, but I think people can feel conflicted or ambivalent towards others, meaning that they simultaneously possess both positive and negative attitudes toward the person in question. I think I kind of broached on the subject when I stated it was all about balance, and deciding which attributes, both good and bad, out-weigh one another

[LivT]

Originally Posted by InOne

They just deal with their emotions in different ways. I think it's been pretty balanced really...

How very dare you not share my views, InOne. You're supposed to be my partner in crime !!

[Cromwell1900]

[QUOTE=kazanne;4693575]

Originally Posted by tonyface

Well aint your whole house silly billies

You appear to of made a mistake there Kazanne My name is in some one elses Quote. Oopsi.

[Cromwell1900]

Oh well i don't know wtf is going on with the quotes then.

[LivT]

Originally Posted by Cromwell1900

Oh well i don't know wtf is going on with the quotes then.

*laughing*

Oh, do pick up after yourself Cromwell...you are making a dreadful mess in here!!!

[fruit_cake]

Originally Posted by LivT

Well, I can only speak for myself when I state that a man can look like an Adonis ..but if he didn't posses the qualities and attributes that i find appealing....then he would no longer be attractive to me.

I'm not saying because a man looks like an adonis you are instantly going to like him but it certainly helps. It's a lot easier to like a good looking man than it is one who is not good looking because we are more likely to turn a blind eye to his faults and highlight his virtues. It feels like we like them for who they are but the reality is that it is a mixture of who they are and what they look like in my view at least.

Aaron has a bit of a weird personality, but he's good looking so he gets away with it.

[InOne]

Originally Posted by LivT

How very dare you not share my views, InOne. You're supposed to be my partner in crime !!

It's Faye all the way for me baby

I think the whole thing is blown out of proportion though

[Cromwell1900]

@ LivT

I'd Agree with all of that.

His complexities are what makes him such a great Hm, and why his name dominates here at Tibb i guess. Just to complete the picture.

I suppose Judgementalism can be a fault or a strength to me in Aarons case it's a fault. Sulking rather than facing issues at least side ways on is a charactaristic of a person who tends to find other, less likeable ways of releasing there grievances, and i merely suspect Aaron has been guilty of that.

The fact that i can't separate Aaron from his game, or less likely to me he dropped the game ages ago, leaves me questioning so much about him.

[LivT]

Nicely redeemed, InOne

Absolutely, Cromwell

Most attitudes are the result of either direct experience or observational learning from the environment. The latter being the viewers position, of course. I am sure many are affected or influenced by the apprehension/qualms they feel when faced with someone or something they don't understand.