[alex_front2]

Is this a guy or Geordie saying for rampant sex with a woman or is it from Jay himself?

[Suze]

Was slightly coming round to not liking Jay, but thinking he was at least a worthy housemate in that he kept us talking about him. Now gone completely off him again, and hope he is evicted Thursday now. He seems nothing but an overrated disgusting, thug/lout.

[MeMyselfAndI]

What? He said that

[Pyramid*]

Whoa whoa whoa ......

Let's play fair here folks.

As much as I myself had a toyful play on words...... he didn't say he was going to punch her lungs in.... not quite.

it was referring to him gagging for sex ... I'm sure I don't need to be explicit about what he meant.

I'm pretty sure it's not an uncommon phrase amongst men in describing pretty rampant sex..... was it a nice thing to say? No. Should he have said it to a woman? No, not imo.

I can't stand the guy, but let's not start tarring every Geordie with this kind of brush, let's play fair.

[alex_front2]

Originally Posted by Pyramid*

Whoa whoa whoa ......

Let's play fair here folks.

As much as I myself had a toyful play on words...... he didn't say he was going to punch her lungs in.... not quite.

it was referring to him gagging for sex ... I'm sure I don't need to be explicit about what he meant.

I'm pretty sure it's not an uncommon phrase amongst men in describing pretty rampant sex..... was it a nice thing to say? No. Should he have said it to a woman? No, not imo.

I can't stand the guy, but let's not start tarring every Geordie with this kind of brush, let's play fair.

Oh so that's OK then

Your attitude to plead clemency for Jay beggers belief. There are loads of euphemisms to describe sex or a strong yearning for sex but Geordie Ronnie Kray likens sex with women in violent terms. Is Jay's mind so warped that he can't just say 'I really want to ***** XXXX' or simply 'I am gagging for a shag, way-eye' etc


It's unacceptable and he ought to be kicked out. It's on par with BB8 Emily Parr's racial comments (no pun) or Alex BB9's gun comments.

[Pyramid*]

Originally Posted by chuff me dizzy

Did you hear his vile sex talk on BBBOTS ? one of his chat up lines is "Do you want me to kick you in the ****" obviously Louise laughed and maybe thought it was "Dead romantic"

Originally Posted by alex_front2

Oh so that's OK then

Your attitude to plead clemency for Jay beggers belief. There are loads of euphemisms to describe sex or a strong yearning for sex but Geordie Ronnie Kray likens sex with women in violent terms. It's unacceptable and he ought to be kicked out. It's on par with BB8 Emily Parr's racial comments (no pun) or Alex BB9's gun comments.

It's well documented my thoughts on Jay. But I do object to the way in which this has been put over in the opening post in respect of that particular comment.

I happen to know Geordie lads, and they could not be further removed from the likes of Jay.

No I am not sticking up for Jay - as I say, it's well documented on here, but I'm damned if I'm not going to say something when it seems like it's being thrown out of all perspective - and in rather poor attempt at tarring Geordie men while at it.

[chuff me dizzy]

Originally Posted by Pyramid*

It's well documented my thoughts on Jay. But I do object to the way in which this has been put over in the opening post in respect of that particular comment.

I happen to know Geordie lads, and they could not be further removed from the likes of Jay.

No I am not sticking up for Jay - as I say, it's well documented on here, but I'm damned if I'm not going to say something when it seems like it's being thrown out of all perspective - and in rather poor attempt at tarring Geordie men while at it.

I agree ,im a northerner and this is nothing to do with "Up north" this is one thugs disrespect for women

[alex_front2]

Originally Posted by Pyramid*

It's well documented my thoughts on Jay. But I do object to the way in which this has been put over in the opening post in respect of that particular comment.

I happen to know Geordie lads, and they could not be further removed from the likes of Jay.

No I am not sticking up for Jay - as I say, it's well documented on here, but I'm damned if I'm not going to say something when it seems like it's being thrown out of all perspective - and in rather poor attempt at tarring Geordie men while at it.

I apologise, but I haven't heard this phrase for sex with a woman before and (for once) was trying to understand Jay and why Jay says it eg if it were a Newcastle saying then I'd be disgusted, but it wouldn't entirely be his fault ie he's a product of his local dialect.

[Mumbles]

Originally Posted by alex_front2

There are loads of euphemisms to describe sex or a strong yearning for sex but Geordie Ronnie Kray likens sex with women in violent terms. Is Jay's mind so warped that he can't just say 'I really want to ***** XXXX' or simply 'I am gagging for a shag, way-eye' etc

This particular phrase, and others like them are the sort of things lads say when they're in the pub with their (male) mates. Jay's mistake, as it has been many times this series, is that he's failed to tailor his behaviour to the environment. There's lots of things I'm sure we all say when out with friends that we wouldn't repeat in other situations, and this appears to be a life lesson Jay is yet to learn.

It's unacceptable and he ought to be kicked out. It's on par with BB8 Emily Parr's racial comments (no pun) or Alex BB9's gun comments.

I'd rather this sort of thing was shown to the public (as it has been) and let them decide if it is aceptable behaviour or not through their votes.

[alex_front2]

Added my bits in bold

Originally Posted by Mumbles

This particular phrase, and others like them are the sort of things lads say when they're in the pub with their (male) mates. Jay's mistake, as it has been many times this series, is that he's failed to tailor his behaviour to the environment. There's lots of things I'm sure we all say when out with friends that we wouldn't repeat in other situations, and this appears to be a life lesson Jay is yet to learn.

But why should you be speaking disrespectfully about sex with women down the pub? Don't these men have mothers? It's like racism, is it OK if the race you are insulting is not present - see Carol Thatcher on One Show


I'd rather this sort of thing was shown to the public (as it has been) and let them decide if it is aceptable behaviour or not through their votes.

So someone can be racist, sexist, aggressive and we should decide if it is acceptale? Should this be applied to life. Someone makes a racial comment and if no-one complains then it's OK?????

[Mumbles]

It's not a phrase I've ever heard, and I've heard a lot of phrases for rampant sex.

[alex_front2]

He said it in week 1 when he was talking about all the women he slept with to Maisy. And I thought I misheard him

The he said it to Louise a couple of week's back when he was telling her how much he wanted to sleep with her. Then he said it on sofas last night HL show to a clearly horrified and disgusted Alex (Loo was there).

He used other vile dysphemisms to describe sex with women too, but I don't want to iterate them here. Aaron - who's clearly bit of a male feminist -was absolutely disgusted with the constant sexist sex talk and reported in DR what Jay was saying .

[chuff me dizzy]

Did you hear his vile sex talk on BBBOTS ? one of his chat up lines is "Do you want me to kick you in the ****" obviously Louise laughed and maybe thought it was "Dead romantic"

[Patricia4]

Originally Posted by chuff me dizzy

Did you hear his vile sex talk on BBBOTS ? one of his chat up lines is "Do you want me to kick you in the ****" obviously Louise laughed and maybe thought it was "Dead romantic"

She think's everything is romantic that Jay say's.

[Angus]

Err, he also said she would need a lung transplant after he'd finished with her.

[Pyramid*]

Originally Posted by angus58

Err, he also said she would need a lung transplant after he'd finished with her.

Did he say lung transplant? I'm sure he said she'd need new lungs.

(the message was the same though)

[Vicky.]

I have never heard that term before and I have lived in the northeast all my life.

The one I do hear quite often though(which I dislike intensely) is 'I'm going to smash her til she cant walk'

[fredmeneedle]

Originally Posted by Vicky.

I have never heard that term before and I have lived in the northeast all my life.

The one I do hear quite often though(which I dislike intensely) is 'I'm going to smash her til she cant walk'

You can't lay all the blame at the doors of thuggish yoof though...Leigh Francis (a.k.a. Keith Lemon) frequently refers to "smashing the back doors in" of Holly or Fern on his show

[Pyramid*]

Originally Posted by fredmeneedle

You can't lay all the blame at the doors of thuggish yoof though...Leigh Francis (a.k.a. Keith Lemon) frequently refers to "smashing the back doors in" of Holly or Fern on his show

True. But we can lay all the blame at the doors of thuggish gits...... like Jay.

[alex_front2]

Originally Posted by Pyramid*

True. But we can lay all the blame at the doors of thuggish gits...... like Jay.

Agree - Jay is not a youth. He's 30 in about just over 2 1/2 years

[alex_front2]

I've been told that is actually not said in the North East

[alex_front2]

It's called new misogyny disguised as sexual banter when it's really designed to put women in their sexual place.

[goldielox]

yup lets be clear here. His talk about women and sex is nothing to do with being from the North East.

Keith Lemon has a lot to answer for with his smash her back doors in, it's started a whole new way in which men talk about women.