[Boothy]

Originally Posted by Jords

I have not used violence and solved my bully problems piece of piss, they dont like it when you can take it and look unbothered and especially when you can give them sh!t back.

It's different when it's you though, I think. If someone was bullying me, no way would I resort to violence, I wouldn't need to. I know how to handle myself. If an older lad started bullying my sister though to the point where she was crying and was afraid to tell my mum, different story.

[Jords]

Originally Posted by Boothy

It's different when it's you though, I think. If someone was bullying me, no way would I resort to violence, I wouldn't need to. I know how to handle myself. If an older lad started bullying my sister though to the point where she was crying and was afraid to tell my mum, different story.

Id be the same about my bro but they have to learnt to stick up for themselves, and because they are younger as Ben said, wed look like the bullies.

[King Gizzard]

Don't blame you for wanting to kick this dick in though

What kind of mug bullies a girl? Seriously? Bullying a guy is bad enough

[Urban Cragou]

Go comfront him to get to lay off. If that doesn't work, if you're solid enough, beat the crap out of him. If you're not solid enough, get someone solif enough to beat the crap out of him.

[Pyramid*]

Originally Posted by Redway

Go comfront him to get to lay off. If that doesn't work, if you're solid enough, beat the crap out of him. If you're not solid enough, get someone solif enough to beat the crap out of him.

yes, great idea. And when does it stop then ..... when the fathers end up getting involved, then the next biggest largest uncle then they all get done for street brawls and assault etc.

[Urban Cragou]

Originally Posted by Pyramid*

yes, great idea. And when does it stop then ..... when the fathers end up getting involved, then the next biggest largest uncle then they all get done for street brawls and assault etc.

It's just my opinion - which I'm allowed.

[Pyramid*]

Originally Posted by Redway

It's just my opinion - which I'm allowed.

Didn't say you weren't. I inferred it was a lousy bit of advice - didn't say a word about you not being allowed an opinion.

[Ninastar]

I wish that schools were okay about victims fighting back against bullies. I think that humiliation or pain is the only way to wake them up from their behaviour, but it can only be from the person that is being bullied. I think a lot of the time victims are afraid of what will happen to them trouble wise.

[Ramsay]

My brother was once getting bullied so i told the guy if he goes near him again i'll break his legs...i get in deep deep **** because he told aload of teachers that i said i'd stab him..but he left him alone after that so maybe you should try that...teachers tried to make me say sorry to him and i actually told them to **** off

[King Gizzard]

it depend though..not every bully is going to walk off and cry if they're given some back, it could intensify

it depends on what kind of person this guy is

[Jords]

Could fancy your sister?

[Maia]

Urgh I really do not understand why people like that feel the need to bully others, it's just unnecessary.

I dunno what to suggest. As others have said, don't resort to violence as that could spring up a whole load of other problems, and all I can say is I've been through what your sister has been through in the past and it really crushes you inside, I had to manage it on my own by cutting myself off completely from those people. I could've done with support but when you go through it you just feel too scared to tell anyone so you keep it to yourself. It's a nightmare.

[Ninastar]

Teachers should be able to embarrass bullies. I think if they feel like an idiot when they pick on someone in class, it would stop them. Certain teachers deal better with it than others. The ones that ignore it are the worst

[Jords]

Originally Posted by Ninastar

Teachers should be able to embarrass bullies. I think if they feel like an idiot when they pick on someone in class, it would stop them. Certain teachers deal better with it than others. The ones that ignore it are the worst

Thing is the bully friends will just snigger with them whilst they are being 'embarrassed' and they think theyre being really clever.

[Ninastar]

Originally Posted by Jords

Thing is the bully friends will just snigger with them whilst they are being 'embarrassed' and they think theyre being really clever.

I think that they know deep down that their behaviour is stupid. They think it makes them look all big and macho but calling them out and calling them immature is what they hate.

Detention doesn't work, I think you have to use mind games with them

[bbfan1991]

Counselling would be a good idea if she wanted to after having the courage to speak out.

A few people I know from the College I used to go to had personal issues and it really helped them out.

[Pyramid*]

Originally Posted by Ninastar

I think that they know deep down that their behaviour is stupid. They think it makes them look all big and macho but calling them out and calling them immature is what they hate.

Detention doesn't work, I think you have to use mind games with them

Worse is when you are put in detention along with the bully in the same enclosed space.

KA... I have to say, I have total respect for you and the way in which you are looking out for your little sister. It's heartwarming to hear under pretty awful circumstances.

[bbfan1991]

Some bullies are sly e.g. if they are bullying someone and they know that the person has older siblings then they will suck up to the sibling to annoy the victim, especially if the victim has not got the courage to speak out.

[Brother Leon]

Thanks for the replies. You cleared my mind abit at least.

Love you guys man.


The annoying thing is that it is Easter, So I would have to wait more than a week to have a meeting with a teacher. I might have to persuade her to be brave enough to at least tell mum. Or tell her some ways to try make him back off.


I'm 19 to the people that asked.

[Kizzy]

Originally Posted by King_Anton

Thanks for the replies. You cleared my mind abit at least.

Love you guys man.


The annoying thing is that it is Easter, So I would have to wait more than a week to have a meeting with a teacher. I might have to persuade her to be brave enough to at least tell mum. Or tell her some ways to try make him back off.


I'm 19 to the people that asked.

Its nice she told you or you noticed ...at 19 im sure you have your own stuff to do.
Its good its the holidays you can talk and plan how she wants it to go without any pressure. Get the FB/phone evidence, and then maybe she could write a sealed letter to her head of year about the rest?
If she thinks your mam would freak out you could speak to her first?

[The Human Santapede]

No worries KA. Hope all works out for her, bless her.

[King Gizzard]

In the meantime I'd just spend alot of time with her..make sure she has someone to turn to so she doesn't feel she's alone at any stage..do lots of stuff with her so she has something to look forward to

[Boothy]

Yeah, good luck KA. Hope you manage to get it sorted.

[Jords]

Good luck pal.

[Z]

I had one great teacher who was really friendly to us less popular kids, the ones who actually tried in class, compared to the dicks who would sit at the back and throw **** around the classroom.. and this boy in my class had an older sister who was also a bit of an oddball and there was some ridiculous story floating around that she'd had a sexual encounter with two guys and a hockey stick... anyway, these girls were speaking about it really loudly and obviously embarrassing the poor guy and the teacher just cut them down in class so badly and asked them how they'd feel if the whole class spoke about their sex lives in such graphic detail right there and then, and it shut the whole back row up and they didn't say a thing for the rest of the lesson, nor did they ever say anything about that boy or his family ever again in class.

That's maybe just a rare example but I will never forget that lesson, I don't know if it was professional or not but I certainly respected my teacher even more so after that and I'm sure that the boy appreciated it more than anything.