[Legend killer]

Originally Posted by Raph

really? I know you haven't specified what you're getting at with threads like this but I really think questions like this are extremely offensive to the gay community. I was really thinking about this yesterday - why should it matter? Or more importantly, why should a person have to even consider which the identify with?

I think the main problem with this is that 'top' and 'bottom' often come with a connotation of the masculine versus the feminine role. This really frustrates me because the whole point of being in a relationship with another guy is to be with another GUY, and therefore I think these stereotypical identifications are extremely shallow and unnecessary.

Not to mention this is in effect a rather personal question, as well as a gross question which shouldn't be brought up per say on a big brother forum - but i'm totally not in the position to articulate that so I wont.

I know you didn't specify what you were getting at with the question, but answers such as that of Lucas and others really put me off ahhhhhhh

[Smithy]

Originally Posted by Raph

I got so mad when I watched this music video -.-

why

[Brother Leon]

Da fuq?

[Novo]

Can't believe Raph has been forced to read such Filth

[GypsyGoth]

Originally Posted by Raph

really? I know you haven't specified what you're getting at with threads like this but I really think questions like this are extremely offensive to the gay community. I was really thinking about this yesterday - why should it matter? Or more importantly, why should a person have to even consider which the identify with?

I think the main problem with this is that 'top' and 'bottom' often come with a connotation of the masculine versus the feminine role. This really frustrates me because the whole point of being in a relationship with another guy is to be with another GUY, and therefore I think these stereotypical identifications are extremely shallow and unnecessary.

Not to mention this is in effect a rather personal question, as well as a gross question which shouldn't be brought up per say on a big brother forum - but i'm totally not in the position to articulate that so I wont.

I know you didn't specify what you were getting at with the question, but answers such as that of Lucas and others really put me off ahhhhhhh

This thread is about bunk beds.

[Raph]

Originally Posted by Novo

Can't believe Raph has been forced to read such Filth

Yeah I know

No like I never really feel frustrated with threads, but on this rare occasion I do just because I really don't like the whole 'top' and 'bottom' labeling. It's really superficial to me and I hate how in homosexual intercourse it has to be an issue. I see people think i'm being silly and that's okay, I just wanted to articulate my view on the matter. I'm sure you meant no harm by the thread Caitlin, it's just my personal issue with the whole 'top' and 'bottom' nonsense. Love is love and positions shouldn't matter

If I had more time I would put more effort into responding to this, so I might do it later

[Locke.]

Bit sick and twisted this thread can it be removed please mods

[Black Dagger]

Oh Raph lolol

[Raph]

Originally Posted by GypsyGoth

This thread is about bunk beds.

Well I know Caitlin said that in her second post, but it wasn't initially implied, nor were the responses necessarily focussed on 'bunk beds'. That is why I responded to the thread in the manner that I did.

[Glenn.]

I'm a power both

[Raph]

Originally Posted by Glenn

I'm a power both

same

[Raph]

Originally Posted by Locke.

Bit sick and twisted this thread can it be removed please mods

It is though It's thread like this and the sex threads that Conzors post that really get to me. No wonder the likes of Rachel and Hira are my BB favs..

[Ninastar]

I'm sorry if you got offended by this but really? Sex is sex... You can do all different kinds of things

[Black Dagger]

Originally Posted by Glenn

I'm a power both

Oh answer this now bitch, you ignored when I asked you that the other day

[Redway]

Originally Posted by Raph

Well I know Caitlin said that in her second post, but it wasn't initially implied, nor were the responses necessarily focussed on 'bunk beds'. That is why I responded to the thread in the manner that I did.

No offense but why are you making such a big deal out of it? It's a harmless thread and I don't see the merit in going to great lengths to make sure that certain groups aren't offended. We all know what this thread is about and I dare say the intention of it is clear to everyone.

You're right about sex being what it is but can people not have preferences? Just like there are sexual preferences?

[Glenn.]

You didn't ask me?

[Raph]

Originally Posted by Ninastar

I'm sorry if you got offended by this but really? Sex is sex... You can do all different kinds of things

Aw no need to apologize Caitlin I was just articulating my view on it but that's what threads are for, it's totally ok that you created it!

[Black Dagger]

Originally Posted by Glenn

You didn't ask me?

Oh my god I so did ask you if you were a power top or power bottom the other day and you ignored me. I know these things.

[Glenn.]

Actually I think you'll find I said both the other day.

It's not my fault you didn't see it

[Black Dagger]

OMG, YOU TAKING THE PISS BECAUSE I WEAR GLASSES????!!!!??? RUDE BITCH s0b

[Glenn.]

You should if gone to specsavers Lucas

[Raph]

Originally Posted by Redway

You're right about sex being what it is but can people not have preferences? Just like there are sexual preferences?

You're right people can have preferences. What gets to me more is this notion of 'having to have a preference' which seems to be quite prevalent in the gay community. I'm only new-ish to that community so i'm not that knowledgeable on the matter but I just think it's sad that it has to be an issue in the first place. I think what i'm getting at is that it would be really nice if 'top or bottom' didn't have to be a choice in homosexual intercourse like it isn't in heterosexual intercourse. I'm jealous of that

[Glenn.]

Damn ****ing autocorrect ruined that

[Black Dagger]

Originally Posted by Glenn

You should if gone to specsavers Lucas

So should you, can't see your I's and O's =(

[Jake.]

What vile filth have I walked in to