[~Kizwiz~]

Originally posted by nodisharmony

Thanks for your honesty, kizwiz.

I have done this thread, as I am sure that this is a debate worth addressing and hopefully lessons can be learnt and we can come to a brighter future.

I just wanted to find out what members and moderators and Admins think about my presence here.

It gets things out in the open.

It is better to debate this problem and then it can hopefully get sorted, before it get's worse.

Can you tell me your vote please!

What side of the fence are you on?

All the best, nodisharmony

I am sitting right on the fence and I am staying there. I am not voting in the charade and find it rather childish

[Siouxsie]

im not voting

[nodisharmony]

Originally posted by andybigbro
Yeah ok i want you to stay because you have as much of a right to be here as i do

Thanks for your support, andybigbro.

I agree with what you say and like to debate the subjects I feel passionate about and I am sure if someone started to attack you on a highly moderated forum and nothing got done about it.

You would like to understand why.

I know a friend who Admins a site and asked her to look at these personal attacks all over this forum and she couldn't believe how these could be just left there, lying within such recent topics too.

Anyway, thanks again

nodisharmony

[nodisharmony]

Originally posted by mansi

I have to agree with you, he's being pathetic Dr43%er...

....whatever you're doing is pointless...you want attention and sadly you're getting attention from people like myself...i'm trying to refrain myself from posting on your threads but at times you just irritate the shyt out of me...

Thankyou for your honesty, Mansi.

I knew your opinion of me, even before you posted it on this topic.

I was actually being nice to you in a debate the other day. Next minute, you said some nasty comments, which were uncalled for.

Maybe this is what you are like in true life?

I know that you do like Shilpa Shetty and the thought of anyone coming on this forum and debating so passionately in Jade, Jo & Danielle's defence must horrify you.

(How dare anyone, should side with these girls)

You must think?

Anyway, regardless of disagreements of opinion.

Is it a stay or go vote for me, Mansi?

nodisharmony

[Red Moon]

Originally posted by nodisharmony
I know a friend who Admins a site and asked her to look at these personal attacks all over this forum and she couldn't believe how these could be just left there, lying within such recent topics too.

Clearly your not happy about how we moderate the board.... from this moment I will moderate the board by the letter of the law.

Any insults on this or any other thread and I start dishing out the warnings don't say you haven't been warned.

Red

[nodisharmony]

Originally posted by Red Moon

Clearly your not happy about how we moderate the board.... from this moment I will moderate the board by the letter of the law.

Any insults on this or any other thread and I start dishing out the warnings don't say you haven't been warned.

Red

Thankyou for your honesty, Red Moon.

I am not picking on any particular Admin or Moderator.

All I am trying to do, is get things out in the open, without constant arguing and past fall-out's from defunct forums.

I would rather get this sorted, so all of us can get back into a debate, some of which can be very friendly sometimes.

If I see a personal attack on myself, all I want to do is click "report" and a moderator or Admin, remove it, as it has nothing to do with any single topic on these boards at all. and give that member a warning or a threat of a warning.

A ban, whether 24 hour or not, is not usually necassary, if the original blasphemor behaves from that warning on.

I never want to say anything bad to anyone. I actually just want to debate, but two members have a free pass to cause havoc, time & time again and my UTU's get ignored or questioned.

If I did say a personal nasty comment to a member tomorrow, or beyond, I would deserve the warning or the threat of it. But I would like to be treated, no more or no less than anyone else.

That is all..

Please don't lock this topic. Give it a slight chance. Many other members haven't even seen it yet, or had their say.

If an argument breaks out? I certainly won't be joining in and as you are a good moderator, you would sort it out, without locking everything up, which makes it appear to the real troublemakers, that they run the forum, when they actually don't.

I needed to say these things and sorry if it has offended anyone.

nodisharmony

p/s. The_Hitman has sent me two UTU's and has asked me to e-mail him, as he says he can sort all this out for me. This was just before I started this topic.

I am not on his side and don't need his help, he won't be hearing from me..

I am not part of corruption and The_Hitman has nothing that interests me.

Just thought I'd tell you....

[Red Moon]

Originally posted by nodisharmony
I actually just want to debate, but two members have a free pass to cause havoc, time & time again and my UTU's get ignored or questioned.

[b]Well they don't now nobody does and to anyone wants to push me on this they will get a warning.

I only post in bold and marron when I mean it for those that don't know me!

Red

[Sunny_01]

You see Nodis I am pretty sure you see me as the enemy but I have to say I'm not.

It is very rare that I allow a member to get to me in any shape or form and bravo you managed to do it. I would however be unhappy for you to feel as if some kind of witch hunt had been launched against you and left because of it.

Your friend who is a MOD on another site has a different interpretation of the rules to mine, Red has a different slant on them to James etc, etc.. we all look at things differently.

When you click report that doesnt mean we jump and remove posts etc.. what it does mean is we review them and see if they are within the limits of what is acceptable to post on this forum. If they are then no action is taken. We look at them from a general point of view not a personal one.

Also like Red I plan now to MOD to the letter so anyone that decides to overstep the mark will be cooling their heels for 24 hours.

[andybigbro]

Are you not trying to just get people to vote you to stay Nodis

because somehow there are only people for you

i change my mind Nodis

[Lauren]

No-one should leave.

But no-one should have their own thread where people discuss them - especially amongst world topics such as AIDs, wars, and animal rights.

[Mrluvaluva]

Exactly Andy. Anyone that says "go" will be seen as the bad person.

[mansi]

there's no point in having this thread anymore...Nodish I think you have your answer, 6 people have already voted for you to stay

[Siouxsie]

erm wots this all about anyway is someone seeking attention

[Mrluvaluva]

Yep

[Mrluvaluva]

And I am not being influenced before it is said.

[Sunny_01]

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