[montblanc]

Originally Posted by Babayaro.

[Maru]

This isn't a debate, this is a poll. Mmmmm, polls.

Also no, I don't think it is unfaithful. Maybe immoral, but not even just for couple's reasons. I actually used to be in a girl's pin-up digital painting group, and I would sometimes make my husband custom art... he seems to prefer that actually.

[Morgan.]

Originally Posted by Maru

This isn't a debate, this is a poll. Mmmmm, polls.

Also no, I don't think it is unfaithful. Maybe immoral, but not even just for couple's reasons. I actually used to be in a girl's pin-up digital painting group, and I would sometimes make my husband custom art... he seems to prefer that actually.

The poll was just to gauge the general consensus, but the subject is up for debate as I understand there are contrasting views.

[Maru]

Originally Posted by Blurryface

The poll was just to gauge the general consensus, but the subject is up for debate as I understand there are contrasting views.

I know, I'm teasing.

[montblanc]

Originally Posted by Maru

This isn't a debate, this is a poll. Mmmmm, polls.

Also no, I don't think it is unfaithful. Maybe immoral, but not even just for couple's reasons. I actually used to be in a girl's pin-up digital painting group, and I would sometimes make my husband custom art... he seems to prefer that actually.

[Marsh.]

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Originally Posted by Maru

This isn't a debate, this is a poll.

[Oliver_W]

Originally Posted by Maru

This isn't a debate, this is a poll. Mmmmm, polls.

Also no, I don't think it is unfaithful. Maybe immoral, but not even just for couple's reasons. I actually used to be in a girl's pin-up digital painting group, and I would sometimes make my husband custom art... he seems to prefer that actually.

The combination of your husband jacking it to digital art and the Asian influence of your sigpic and avatar makes me wonder if you're a hentai artist?

[Maru]

Originally Posted by Oliver_W

The combination of your husband jacking it to digital art and the Asian influence of your sigpic and avatar makes me wonder if you're a hentai artist?

No, significantly more painterly/realistic than that.

[GoldHeart]

I've clicked "other" because it depends what you mean by "porn" . If the person is just watching it and it doesn't affect their life and there's no obsessive addiction then i don't think it would cause problems.

However if they would rather spend time watching it than spending time with their partner then that's a BIG PROBLEM! . Also anything that just involves watching is not cheating , however if it's interactive with cam models etc then yes that's cheating ! especially if it's done behind the partner's back. Or if they have porno images of someone they know/ or ex partner on their phone etc then yes that's wrong if they're already in a relationship.

[user104658]

No to all of the above, however, I personally find porn bleak as **** and have various moral issues with it. Really just a horrible, exploitative industry full of addicts and desperation and frankly if I wanted to see some poor smack addict getting slammed I could just set up CCTV in the alleyway behind the shop. But I really don't.

[montblanc]

Originally Posted by Toy Soldier

if I wanted to see some poor smack addict getting slammed I could just set up CCTV in the alleyway behind the shop.

[Twosugars]

Porn is fine, we do that with my bf. Watch separately or together
Pics/vids send from somebody you know only online is borderline. Depends where it leads. If it leads to sex chat then it is cheating. If it's just for a laugh, comparing etc, then it's fine, no different to a locker room.

Originally Posted by Toy Soldier

No to all of the above, however, I personally find porn bleak as **** and have various moral issues with it. Really just a horrible, exploitative industry full of addicts and desperation and frankly if I wanted to see some poor smack addict getting slammed I could just set up CCTV in the alleyway behind the shop. But I really don't.

This view of porn is a bit outdated. Big studios are losing to amateur porn where real people do it for fun and extra income. It's better, not as robotic and chances of exploitation are lower.

[GoldHeart]

Originally Posted by Twosugars

Porn is fine, we do that with my bf. Watch separately or together
Pics/vids send from somebody you know only online is borderline. Depends where it leads. If it leads to sex chat then it is cheating. If it's just for a laugh, comparing etc, then it's fine, no different to a locker room.



This view of porn is a bit outdated. Big studios are losing to amateur porn where real people do it for fun and extra income. It's better, not as robotic and chances of exploitation are lower.

Yeah anything interactive and sexting is cheating /borderline . And obviously keeping rude videos and photo's of someone they know on their computer or phone is also immoral & weird .

[Maru]

Originally Posted by Twosugars

Porn is fine, we do that with my bf. Watch separately or together
Pics/vids send from somebody you know only online is borderline. Depends where it leads. If it leads to sex chat then it is cheating. If it's just for a laugh, comparing etc, then it's fine, no different to a locker room.



This view of porn is a bit outdated. Big studios are losing to amateur porn where real people do it for fun and extra income. It's better, not as robotic and chances of exploitation are lower.

Ha. Yeah, that's definitely a more masculine POV. "What are you doing with a picture of your friend's t!ts on your phone!?" "Oh, that was only for the lulz, honey..."

[user104658]

Originally Posted by Twosugars

This view of porn is a bit outdated. Big studios are losing to amateur porn where real people do it for fun and extra income. It's better, not as robotic and chances of exploitation are lower.

I don't mean to assume here 2S but I'm not sure how much "straight porn" you've actually watched? The main problems lie within amateur porn and that's where the vast majority of exploitation occurs. Studio porn was a career. Yes there were obviously addiction problems etc. in that industry too but the stars were paid very well and there were strict hygiene and health standards. In grainy amateur porn, most of the girls who are being ****ed on camera whilst looking a bit sad and uncomfortable and being paid a couple of hundred dollars at most for it are spending that cash on drugs, and often come from backgrounds of serious abuse. There are no regulations and its almost always without condoms.

[Redway]

Originally Posted by Toy Soldier

No to all of the above, however, I personally find porn bleak as **** and have various moral issues with it. Really just a horrible, exploitative industry full of addicts and desperation and frankly if I wanted to see some poor smack addict getting slammed I could just set up CCTV in the alleyway behind the shop. But I really don't.

You got any hard statistics to verify that statement?

[user104658]

Originally Posted by Redway

You got any hard statistics to verify that statement?

To verify my personal opinion? Yes actually I've just done an exhaustive poll. Every Toy Soldier from TiBB was asked to verify that this is Toy Soldier from TiBB's personal opinion, and 100% of respondents said "Yes" . Pretty conclusive stuff there doc.

[Redway]

Originally Posted by Toy Soldier

To verify my personal opinion? Yes actually I've just done an exhaustive poll. Every Toy Soldier from TiBB was asked to verify that this is Toy Soldier from TiBB's personal opinion, and 100% of respondents said "Yes" . Pretty conclusive stuff there doc.

You don’t seem to have an issue doing that everyone else. According to you people’s views on parenting are meaningless without hard statistics

[user104658]

Originally Posted by Redway

You don’t seem to have an issue doing that everyone else. According to you people’s views on parenting are meaningless without hard statistics

Oh so you're carrying a snippy personal vendetta over from another thread. No, we won't be doing that, I'm not even slightly interested.

[Marsh.]

I would say no, but then if it was pictures/videos of someone they'd met on grindr/tindr then it would be a little weird. Porn/nudes are all such a weird mix.

[Mokka]

Originally Posted by Marsh.

I would say no, but then if it was pictures/videos of someone they'd met on grindr/tindr then it would be a little weird. Porn/nudes are all such a weird mix.

That isn't porn though... pics sent back and forth of individuals in a personal way. Porn is more media used for a wider audience. What you are describing is a form of cheating... at least that's what I believe.

[Marsh.]

Originally Posted by Mokka

That isn't porn though... pics sent back and forth of individuals in a personal way. Porn is more media used for a wider audience. What you are describing is a form of cheating... at least that's what I believe.

Yeah but that's what I mean. It depends on your perspective of a partner enjoying the videos/images of a stranger having sex.

[JerseyWins]

Originally Posted by Marsh.

I would say no, but then if it was pictures/videos of someone they'd met on grindr/tindr then it would be a little weird. Porn/nudes are all such a weird mix.

Originally Posted by Marsh.

Yeah but that's what I mean. It depends on your perspective of a partner enjoying the videos/images of a stranger having sex.

Eh it's kinda close but different. That would mean the person actually knows the one sending them nudes and has/had been talking to them in some form. Plus in porn it's acting out a script for media/entertainment as well - in a non-personal/non-private way.

[Marsh.]

Originally Posted by JerseyWins

Eh it's kinda close but different. That would mean the person actually knows the one sending them nudes and has/had been talking to them in some form. Plus in porn it's acting out a script for media/entertainment as well - in a non-personal/non-private way.

Well, no both are stranger.

Swapping nudes on an app doesn't mean you know them.

[Smithy]

Originally Posted by Marsh.

I would say no, but then if it was pictures/videos of someone they'd met on grindr/tindr then it would be a little weird. Porn/nudes are all such a weird mix.

Why would it be someone from GRINDR marsh?