[Kizzy]

I think there's a point where it works and then not... I was 17 when I met the kids dad he was 25. Then when I was 23 and he was 31 it felt odd.

[GoldHeart]

That's why people's intentions are really important.

Sometimes the gap can be far too big ,but other times it could be fine. Depends on the age difference. also they might not have much in common. Everyone is different.

Another weird example I just thought of aswell is if the person use to be their babysitter , that would be a red flag I would say.

[Crimson Dynamo]

Only if it's been ages since you last did it