[Nicola]

I'm quite shy in groups and when I don't know new people that well. I lack confidence in myself and think that if people got to know me they won't like me - if I get on with someone and really like them as a friend then it doesn't seem to last that long. Once I get confident in new situations then I'll feel at ease and relate well in groups, often I find myself drawn to one person in particular as I find one-to-one friendships easier to deal with and can open up to one person alone.

[~Kizwiz~]

Originally posted by Nicola
The fact that I cry easily and people seem to be nasty and hate me because of it!

I cry so easily too.... if I am upset, I cry, if I am angry I cry and sometimes I cry just because!!!!!!! Its horrid

Apart from the obvious physical things, that all women hate about themselves, I am like Retro, I cant do small talk, if I meet someone new, nothing comes out of my mouth. My brain freezes and I get clammy if I have to talk to someone I dont know. I avoid it at all costs.

[supernoodles!]

I think im too trusting and i always take people as they come then im usually let down.

[Captain.Remy]

I can belive everything you tell me. Sometimes I'm like "OMG is that true ?" and finally people were just joking. I comes with my "serious side"

[Ann]

theres one thing i hate is my blooming hair i cant style it and if i perm it the perm falls out as my hair is so thin like my mums hair plus i do get a bit annoyed with myself when i'm too soft with people at times and i hate it when i get very stubborn if someone is arguing with me i just sit there and ignore them if they think they are right lol i don't like being a big person but thats how life is isnt it really as it does run in my family alot lol

[Shaun]

I have a really big head. Both literally and metaphorically.

[supernoodles!]

I am the opposite ann, my hair is too thick!
lol

[KKBL]

my voice.i sound like a girl lol.its annoying knowone cant take me serious and i think it holds me back alot.

[flavaflav66]

not being funny

[Ann]

would you like a swap haha

[supernoodles!]

we should have a 'what is the thing you like best about yourself' thread,try and cheer ourselves up a bit instead of insulting ourselves ha ha

[flavaflav66]

good call

[supernoodles!]

i see flavaflav`s back

[Retroman]

Originally posted by ~kizwiz~
Apart from the obvious physical things, that all women hate about themselves, I am like Retro, I cant do small talk, if I meet someone new, nothing comes out of my mouth. My brain freezes and I get clammy if I have to talk to someone I dont know. I avoid it at all costs.

I get the same...
Though I don't think it's due to nerves/shyness or anything like most people would assume. I sometimes get clammy because I feel im being pressured into talking/saying something interesting to someone I really don't feel a need to talk to.

It's like im being forced to make a choice between being really rude and ignoring them, or humouring them against my will lol, and it's usually the latter since I don't want to go looking for trouble/awkward situations.

And again, the brain freezes, but usually because there's nothing that comes to mind that I actually want to say. Plenty of things such as "Hey, you alright? what you been upto?" and similar enter my head, but I really don't want to know if they're ok or what they've been doing.

Of course if they're friends it's a different matter.

Anyhow, im going for a bath, then im going to come back and try to reply to supernoodles "what do you like about yourself?" thread lol, as soon as I think of something.

[XxShortyxX]

Originally posted by flavaflav66
not being funny

Don't worry, you ent

[Dan_]

I'd have to say getting overly nervous when starting something new.I like to be set into a routine but it takes me a while to settle into new situations.I wish I was different but it's not something I can change.

[Lauren]

I back away from situations if I think they're gonna go wrong - then I never know if they would have gone right or not. I am my own worst enemy.

[Retroman]

Originally posted by Dan_
I'd have to say getting overly nervous when starting something new.I like to be set into a routine but it takes me a while to settle into new situations.I wish I was different but it's not something I can change.

That's one I missed actually...

It's mostly pre nerves, building upto whatever the new thing is.

And occasionally nerves when the new thing starts.

I know deep down pretty much all new situations turn out ok, you adjust, become familar with them, and before you know it you feel really comfortable there.

But still, doesn't stop being really nervous beforehand.

[Sunny_01]

I am to forgiving if there is such a thing. It kind of means I accept it eventually when people behave badly towards me, I just cant help it.

I also have a vile temper when the right buttons are pushed and I really dont like that.

Oh and I hate my bum

[~Kizwiz~]

Originally posted by Dan_
I'd have to say getting overly nervous when starting something new.I like to be set into a routine but it takes me a while to settle into new situations.I wish I was different but it's not something I can change.

I am exactly the same, I feel like I will be sick if I am starting something new. I am a creature of habit

Oh and Sunny..... It makes to of us that hate our bums!!!!!!!

[Red Moon]

Originally posted by ~kizwiz~
Oh and Sunny..... It makes to of us that hate our bums!!!!!!!

But you have a nice bum

[Ann]

Ooh red LMAO

[supernoodles!]

I dont mind my bum but i hate my hips there a nightmare

[Z]

I hate that I hold grudges. I hate that when I don't feel like speaking, people assume something is up. I hate that I find lots of people irritating for just trying to be friends with me (like someone will speak to me on MSN and I'll just close the conversation because I can't be bothered.) I hate that people think that because I'm normally very witty, I either have no problems in my life or I must be really depressed. I hate that my family are all really sarcastic and when I'm feeling down and don't say very much, they try to wind me up. I hate that if I'm feeling down, my mum asks me what's wrong, and if I don't want to tell her she gets angry at me - like I deserve to feel this way. I hate having asthma. I hate my hands. I hate that my nails grow really long quickly and I have to cut them at least once a week or I start to look like I frequent nail parlours. I hate it when I think I've got something seriously wrong with me (recently I've been wondering if I have diabetes - I keep needing to pee lots) and I'm too scared to do anything about it. I hate that I have no privacy in my house, I once kept a diary and my whole family read it. I hate it when I ask to have a friend round for the night and my parents act like I'll have a house party. I hate how my parents don't trust me and act like I'm about to go out and do drugs, smoke, have sex, drink alcohol and kill people every time I go out. I hate how my parents are really snobby and ask what school my friends go to. I hate when people bring up the subject of "So, who do you fancy?" or "Why haven't you got a girlfriend?" I get embarrassed about those types of questions in front of adults. I hate it when people leave me hatemail on my bebo page or e-mail me when whatever they're annoyed about isn't even directed at me, it's to one of my friends. I hate spending the entire weekend not seeing friends. I hate it when life throws bad luck at me for weeks on end.



..That kind of went on a bit..

[supernoodles!]

About the privacy thing Z I know where your coming from.Its really hurtfull isnt it and people dont even realise how hurtfull it is.I once went on a weekend away with ym boyfriend and I came back and found out my mam had gone through all my draws,cupboards etc and found loads of stuff i basically diddnt want her to see.It wasnt harmfull thing or anything not like it was drugs or something but I wa embarrased and it was hurtful and i felt really hmm whats the word exploited i guess.I know that may sound a little dramatic but it felt that way at the time.