[Mrluvaluva]

Originally posted by Captain.Remy

I never said someone did on that topic. But generally people say that. I don't find it right since they do the contrary.

And I agree with you, it's a balance, but do not deny it has a significant part in your choice. And I also said that 'then personality when you go deeper.' because unless the contrary, you don't the personality before knowing how this person looks like.

I have never denied that looks are part of the deal.

I have to disagree on one part though. You may meet someone and not be attracted to them. As you get to know them over time, your feelings may grow, and this can change your feelings and bring you to be attracted to that person.

[Sam!]

I think looks matter but thats me. Like I might see a girl and say, omg she is hot. Its not like I'm going to say, oh she looks nice. So yeh they matter.

[Captain.Remy]

Message original : Mrluvaluva

I have never denied that looks are part of the deal.

I have to disagree on one part though. You may meet someone and not be attracted to them. As you get to know them over time, your feelings may grow, and this can change your feelings and bring you to be attracted to that person.

Of course, when you go deeper than the look. I mean, it's obvious lol But still, before you know someone, you find them unattractive. But that does not mean you cannot talk to them.

[Mrluvaluva]

Originally posted by Captain.Remy

Of course, when you go deeper than the look. I mean, it's obvious lol But still, before you know someone, you find them unattractive. But that does not mean you cannot talk to them.

Hmmm. I am not sure you are understanding me correctly.

I am not talking about people you find unattractive. Impartial really. I am saying you may neither find them attractive or unattractive. After you get to know them, you find you have things in common and enjoy their company. This can change the way you feel and lead to a physical attraction. Basically, personality can have an effect on the way you are attracted to someone and change your feelings.

In this case, looks are not the defining factor as there was no physical attraction there at the beginning.



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[Captain.Remy]

Message original : Mrluvaluva

Hmmm. I am not sure you are understanding me correctly.

I am not talking about people you find unattractive. Impartial really. I am saying you may neither find them attractive or unattractive. After you get to know them, you find you have things in common and enjoy their company. This can change the way you feel and lead to a physical attraction. Basically, personality can have an effect on the way you are attracted to someone and change your feelings.

In this case, looks are not the defining factor as there was no physical attraction there at the beginning.



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You just repeated my point lol 'Of course, when you go deeper than the look. I mean, it's obvious'

[Tom]

Originally posted by Mrluvaluva

Basically what I'm trying to say that is in every day situations we avoid people based on how they look.

As for relationships, you want someone who people can be jealous of that you're with them but if you've got ten tonne Tanya as a girlfriend then people are just going to laugh at you. You want someone who you aren't embarrassed to be seen or associated with.

Personality counts, but IMO looks count even more.

[Nicky.]

Sort of..

Like coz if you see someone.. and they look like theyve been hit by the back end of a bus or somthing.. you aint gonna look twice at em ..

But If there in your school or in a club your in and they aint got the best of looks but you know them from around and about and you know there personality.. then maybe thats an exception.

Also, if you get meet someone online, you get to know their personality before you get to see them properly ( In person ) - even though you can see them on webcam.. sometimes its not the same.. x

[xDramatick]

Looks matter to me.
A LOT.
&this is coming from a male.
I won't leave the house unless I look good, my hair's decent, and i've got eyeliner on.
&that's a routine I've gotten into.
It literally takes me half an hour to get ready.
Looks give off first impressions, and can sum up a person so well.
I feel that the way I look and dress tells a person a lot about myself so I always make an effort.

[Harry!]

No it dosnt, Who wants a beautiful girl with a horrible mouth. I rather have a not so pritty girl who is kind and gentle.

[Nicky.]

Originally posted by Darenn
Looks matter to me.
A LOT.
&this is coming from a male.
I won't leave the house unless I look good, my hair's decent, and i've got eyeliner on.
&that's a routine I've gotten into.
It literally takes me half an hour to get ready.
Looks give off first impressions, and can sum up a person so well.
I feel that the way I look and dress tells a person a lot about myself so I always make an effort.

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Eye liner? lol x

In the morning i get up at 7.20.. i get dressed, brush my hair, then i wolf my brekkie down.. and im out the door by 7.45 lol x

[Magic]

Originally posted by Mrluvaluva

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It aint goin through. It says all lines are busy

[Tom]

Originally posted by Darenn
Looks matter to me.
A LOT.
&this is coming from a male.
I won't leave the house unless I look good, my hair's decent, and i've got eyeliner on.
&that's a routine I've gotten into.
It literally takes me half an hour to get ready.
Looks give off first impressions, and can sum up a person so well.
I feel that the way I look and dress tells a person a lot about myself so I always make an effort.

I agree. I'm the same (except for the eyeliner bit) although I'm not like that 100% of the time. I either come in 2 forms, one being that I've got ready properly and I make sure I look as good as I could do and put effort in and the other way is complete tramp where I won't make any effort at all, just a quick shower then throw on jogging bottoms and other clothes then just go out. I don't ever look like one of those people who still looks quite bad yet looks like they've made an effort.

[xDramatick]

Originally posted by Sky-Tay-Tasha-x

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Eye liner? lol x

In the morning i get up at 7.20.. i get dressed, brush my hair, then i wolf my brekkie down.. and Im out the door by 7.45 lol x

lol!
I love eyelinerr.
Seriously, I won't leave home without it on.
&that's coming from a male?

&wow. I wake up at half six, have breakfast, and I'm out the door at half past seven. xD

[Sam!]

I only leave if Im wearing decent clothes, no shite ugly things cept uniform haha and my hair looks good and is straightened. Oh yeh and im sad so I carry around my sunnies with me in my bag cept at school. Haha I look better in shades.

[Sam!]

And I really want a tan. Looks are important to me, especially in first impressions.

[Xander]

Looks are important as they give off first impression, and is the first thing a person notices. Personality is also important as well but you can't look at personality can you? you can only find that out by getting to know someone.

[Harry!]

I would leave if I wasnt perfect befor I go to school (Do usail stuff) comb my hair sort out my face with germaline (Good cream for teanage spots) and thats about it. Of corse I clean my teeth/Face,Get dresed & eat. Other than that Im not realy obsesed of what I look like. Im not into fashion at all (I cant beer clothes shops (Mum byes my clothes)) so as long as Im clean Im fine...

Ps looks ARE NOT inportant, personality comes first.

[Sam!]

I have to buy my clothes haha as Im really fussy. And I agree with Xander. There both important but looks at first.

[Magic]

Originally posted by Scampi
And I really want a tan. Looks are important to me, especially in first impressions.

Lol I want to tan a bit more to, I'm planning on tanning a bit more this weekend, like I did in the hols!

Um yeah, I like to look ok. I always am clean, and like to wear nice clothes.

In the oppostite sex, image is good for first impressions, but I suppose personality does come in to it.

[MrGaryy]

See I'm the exact opposite. Call me shallow but looks mean alot to me thats why I hate my brace so much. I have 101 different products, I blow dry my hair every morning. I've been lucky that I haven't ever had many spots but besides from just having good skin that can be put down to drinking nothing but water for weeks, face masks and cleanser. I would be seriouly upset if I didn't look the best that I could. No one ever buys me clothes because they know that I will probably exchange it. lol

[Nicky.]

Originally posted by Darenn

lol!
I love eyelinerr.
Seriously, I won't leave home without it on.
&that's coming from a male?

&wow. I wake up at half six, have breakfast, and I'm out the door at half past seven. xD

Lol!

I dont even care if i aint got any make up on what soever!

If i do remember i will just put on some eye shadow!

Wow - your an early bird lol x

[Sam!]

Originally posted by Magic

Lol I want to tan a bit more to, I'm planning on tanning a bit more this weekend, like I did in the hols!

Um yeah, I like to look ok. I always am clean, and like to wear nice clothes.

In the oppostite sex, image is good for first impressions, but I suppose personality does come in to it.

I didnn't go on holiday though this hols, Ill need to sunbathe in spain.

[Arneldo]

Yes

I dont want no fugly man.

[Xander]

Most people I hear say personality is more important which is very true because ifor instance if you have some sterotypical blonde that looks great and everything but has the personality as a wet fish, could you put up with her personality?

[Tom]

Originally posted by Scampi
And I really want a tan. Looks are important to me, especially in first impressions.

Get a spray tan

Me & a friend went and got one today on a free at college

I'm a little orange atm but it will settle