[MrGaryy]

Why don't you invite someone else to go with you. I do that sometimes if I think I'll end up alone.

Oh and make sure you don't come across too, "Waheyyyy lets parrrrtayyyyy!" drink in hand wobbling about kind of stuff, you'll just end up looking like a skins reject.

[*mazedsalv**]

Originally posted by Iceman
Just have a couple of drinks before-hand not too many, and bring some drink with you, if you feel you've had too much at the party don't drink anymore. I agree with the rest don't leave your drink down for the reason stated above and also you don't know these people and they may put something in your drink. Can i ask do you know if these guys do drugs?

I agree exactly with you , dont put your drink down, there may be dodgy people at the party that you dont know.

[Iceman]

[quote]Originally posted by MrGaryy
Why don't you invite someone else to go with you. I do that sometimes if I think I'll end up alone.

Listen to MrGaryy he talks sense!

[Iceman]

Originally posted by *mazedsalv**

I agree exactly with you , dont put your drink down, there may be dodgy people at the party that you dont know.

I learned that lesson the hard way and ended up in hospital!

[*mazedsalv**]

Originally posted by Iceman

I learned that lesson the hard way and ended up in hospital!

Wow really?? its never happened to me, but I hear stories from older cousins at that, so ive learnt the lesson never to put my drink down.

[Iceman]

Originally posted by *mazedsalv**

Wow really?? its never happened to me, but I hear stories from older cousins at that, so ive learnt the lesson never to put my drink down.

Yes it was nearly the same situation described above i was at a party and only knew 2 people there and i left my drink down on the kitchen table, i didn't leave it there for long. When i drank it about 20 minutes later i felt really weird and went out and asked what they did, they told me they put two tabs in it so i had a fight with them and ended up with stitches above my eye wasn't good! But it's a learning curve!

[LemonJam]

Right:

If you're really scared, have a drink or two before you go, it will boost your confidence, but don't turn up drunk, just a bit buzzed, it'll make you warm to people quicker.

Secondly, and probably most importantly IMO, know when to stop drinking, tipsyness is fun, drunkness is fun, but past drunkness isn't.

Thirdly, stick with your friend but also find a couple of other people you can stick to, make conversation. I'm a really shy person but after a couple of drinks even I'm talking.

Don't mix drinks loads, I had a Whiskey-Smirnoff-Strongbow-Carlsberg mix and it didn't go too well.

Finally, just enjoy yourself, if theres music and everyones drunkenly dancing, just join in and have some fun.

[Corkie]

You'll be fine, Alcohol is good social lubricant.

That's what I said on friday whilst drunk I thought it was quite clever myself

[Iceman]

Originally posted by Corkie
You'll be fine, Alcohol is good social lubricant.

That's what I said on friday whilst drunk I thought it was quite clever myself

Im definately stealing that line to say to my mates!

[*mazedsalv**]

Originally posted by Iceman

Yes it was nearly the same situation described above i was at a party and only knew 2 people there and i left my drink down on the kitchen table, i didn't leave it there for long. When i drank it about 20 minutes later i felt really weird and went out and asked what they did, they told me they put two tabs in it so i had a fight with them and ended up with stitches above my eye wasn't good! But it's a learning curve!

thats horrible!! weird that they were completely honest and said what they did to it... were these 2 of the people you knew that did it??

[Hugo]

Thanks so much everyone. I think I dare say....I'm looking forward to it now? LOL

[andyman]

Things always seem worse before it happends, soon as your at the party you will feel ok.
Plus this is good for building your social skills around unknown faces.

[Hugo]

Wow a constructive post
Thanks!

[Iceman]

Originally posted by *mazedsalv**

thats horrible!! weird that they were completely honest and said what they did to it... were these 2 of the people you knew that did it??

No they were a group of people at the party, it was like 5 or 6 years ago i would of only been 13 -14 at the time. I still know one of them now, they thought it would be funny, it wasn't!

[Emzy-!!]

Just get talking to other people, dance, drink (but don't get too drunk lol)

I hope you have a good time!!!

xxx

[*mazedsalv**]

Originally posted by Iceman

No they were a group of people at the party, it was like 5 or 6 years ago i would of only been 13 -14 at the time. I still know one of them now, they thought it would be funny, it wasn't!

well at least you know what could happen. If that happened to me.... my god, would be horrible.

[Iceman]

Well back on point have a few drinks, socialise, make new friends, you'll be fine and the next party you'll know what to do!

[Loukas]

Originally posted by Satisfaction

I DO THAT.
It's like a comfort thing? If I don't know what to do, if I'm on my own for a few seconds or if conversation dies, I just sip it really slowly. lmffao.

YEP! + you dont want to put your drink down, come back to it drink it, WHO KNOWS WHAT KIND OF **** PEOPLE PUT IN IT. Don't want to get spiked its not pretty.

[Fom]

Originally posted by DoubleTrouble

YEP! + you dont want to put your drink down, come back to it drink it, WHO KNOWS WHAT KIND OF **** PEOPLE PUT IN IT. Don't want to get spiked its not pretty.

Lmao, a party of 15 year olds, I don't think it will matter that much. I have been spiked, I ended up in hospital after having a fit. Not nice.

Wether its a party or bar or club, you should always keep your eye on your drink, I am a fool for putting my drink down in a club.

[30stone]

I agree with David on this.

Have like the friend your going with come round or go to ones of theirs...

Have a few drinks you will be fine confidence will be higher.

Not like your expected to do anything at a party, just relax, n have fun.

[Tom]

ask for a +1 and once you're half drunk you'll be fine because you'll speak to anyone

[Loukas]

Originally posted by Fom

Lmao, a party of 15 year olds, I don't think it will matter that much. I have been spiked, I ended up in hospital after having a fit. Not nice.

Wether its a party or bar or club, you should always keep your eye on your drink, I am a fool for putting my drink down in a club.

Trust me you never know that, i have seen someone spit in someones drink and then the person drunk it, i have seen someone be spiked and both were under 16. You never know Tom..

[*mazedsalv**]

Yeahh, just invite one of your best friends if you can, and if you need to put your drink down for some reason eg. going to the toilet, give the drink to your friend as you will know he/she wont do anything to it.

[Shaun]

I'm not the person you want to ask advice from when it comes to drinking in moderation.

[Harry!]

Have Madonna music. Your party will rock then.