[Ninastar]

Originally posted by 30stone

I was joking my love!

I would love to get married

Lol same. None of my friends want marrige and I am like errmmm your kidding me right????
It would be one of the things in life I would have to do lol x

[Shaun]

Originally posted by Tom
Marriage is like a hurricane ... once all of the sucking and blowing stops you lose the house

ie ... DON'T DO IT!!!

And who said 'romance is dead'?

[Annie]

Maybe you should say that you are too young to think about it just now but you do think about marriage for the far future. Dont mention if you think of it with her or not.

[hannah.]

tell her that you're not ready yet but that doesn't mean you're not serious about your relationship with her
go on about how much you love her etc
and that way if she gets all upset/shouts at you she has no ammunition

[M X]

Tell her that you are just not ready

[Jayson]

Luckily she hasn't mentioned it again, next time she does ill just say im not ready yet.

[Annie]

My good mate's bird kept talking about marriage for AGES like all the time. They are now engaged and he seems happy although he didnt think he was ready either.

[Lauren]

Thing to do is not make her think you don't want to marry her, just say RIGHT NOW you don't want it.

If you say you don't wanna marry her, it'll seem like you seen an inevitable end to the relationship and so don't want to commit to it.

Whereas if you just explain it's marriage you don't want just yet, you're leaving the option open for the future so she knows you aren't just seeing an inevitable end.

If, however, you don't ever want to marry her ever, and see your future marrying someone else - don't lead her on with that haha.

[Sophii3x]

I may be getting married either next year or the year after and I'm 18. We both feel ready for it and it's what we want.

If you're definately not ready or never want to get married, you do need to tell her sooner rather than later.