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Old 03-07-2009, 04:13 PM #26
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I've been to many gay clubs and never been asked what my sexuality is

Thats due to you being Female.
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I've been to many gay clubs and never been asked what my sexuality is

Thats due to you being Female.
Females can be homophobic too though. So it's sexist if they let straight females in, but not straight males?
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Clubs do what they want
but it is in order to not get fights
so it is Common Sense.


Unless you want punch Ups.


What a silly thread.
You can not change peoples views.

Erm it's not silly.

and I'm not trying to change people's minds.

I'm asking questions on people's thoughts. I've been to many Gay clubs and most of the trouble caused is by gay men/lesbians, not straight people.


Yes it is Silly
you are asking why they refuse straight folks?


Its because they do not want Fights.



Silly Thread
you have made.
then no offence don't bother posting it. Find somewhere else mate.


I can assure you most fights in gay clubs are caused by gay men themselves fighting with each other, not straight men.


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I can Post and Prove a Silly Thread.

I do not need to find some place else.
well arista i can't stop you posting, that your choice.

But I personally don't think this thread is silly.

One, it's generating a discussion (on something other than Freddie/Sree etc)

and two

it's interesting to see people's opinions on subject matters like this.
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I've been to many gay clubs and never been asked what my sexuality is

Thats due to you being Female.
ahhh right lol
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I've been to many gay clubs and never been asked what my sexuality is

Thats due to you being Female.
Females can be homophobic too though. So it's sexist if they let straight females in, but not straight males?
Exactly, thats just clubs in general, they have a right to turn you way for any reason they want too, it is their club. If they think someone is going to cause trouble they can turn you away.
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I've been to many gay clubs and never been asked what my sexuality is

Thats due to you being Female.
Females can be homophobic too though. So it's sexist if they let straight females in, but not straight males?
Exactly, thats just clubs in general, they have a right to turn you way for any reason they want too, it is their club. If they think someone is going to cause trouble they can turn you away.

But coming from personal experience it's gay guys who actually cause the most trouble in gay clubs.

When you get the camp ones bitching and having a fight, an ex seeing his ex with another guy and starting etc.
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I've been to many gay clubs and never been asked what my sexuality is

Thats due to you being Female.
Females can be homophobic too though. So it's sexist if they let straight females in, but not straight males?
Exactly, thats just clubs in general, they have a right to turn you way for any reason they want too, it is their club. If they think someone is going to cause trouble they can turn you away.

But coming from personal experience it's gay guys who actually cause the most trouble in gay clubs.

When you get the camp ones bitching and having a fight, an ex seeing his ex with another guy and starting etc.
Well do the math
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well arista i can't stop you posting, that your choice.

But I personally don't think this thread is silly.

One, it's generating a discussion (on something other than Freddie/Sree etc)

and two

it's interesting to see people's opinions on subject matters like this.

Wrong nothing like a Sree post
How Very Dare You.


And Of course you will not see your 'own thread' as Silly.


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yours is a Good Level, however.
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I've been to many gay clubs and never been asked what my sexuality is

Thats due to you being Female.
Females can be homophobic too though. So it's sexist if they let straight females in, but not straight males?

Yes It is Sexist out there
It is a Jungle.


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We were all born from a man and woman doing the dog. Dont that kind of make heterophobia impossible? Overused term IMO.
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I wouldn't go into a gay bar anyway, it's not my place IMO.
Also, I dont enjoy face to face talks with overly camp gay guys.
I have a cousin who is gay and he is one of those guys who when he says he's gay to people they are shocked because he always looks very straight. He has never been turned away for looking too straght.
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well arista i can't stop you posting, that your choice.

But I personally don't think this thread is silly.

One, it's generating a discussion (on something other than Freddie/Sree etc)

and two

it's interesting to see people's opinions on subject matters like this.

Wrong nothing like a Sree post
How Very Dare You.


And Of course you will not see your 'own thread' as Silly.


Every poster is at a Level
yours is a Good Level, however.


Is it not generating a discussion? Is not showing people's opinions? Is it not a topic that hasn't been discussed many times on here?

I admit some of my posts are silly, like the one about Kris vs a can of baked beans with the tiny sausages in, but to me this one isn't.

I'm getting to see people's opinions on things and I'm finding it interesting, even if nobody else does.
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We were all born from a man and woman doing the dog. Dont that kind of make heterophobia impossible? Overused term IMO.


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I'm getting to see people's opinions on things and I'm finding it interesting, even if nobody else does.

Nothing Wrong with that.
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We were all born from a man and woman doing the dog. Dont that kind of make heterophobia impossible? Overused term IMO.




ha ha ha, I did not need to be seeing that.

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ha ha ha, I did not need to be seeing that.



It will do no harm
and helps Young Stu's Post.
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ha ha ha, I did not need to be seeing that.

lol same, I refreshed the page and was like "ugh!"
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ha ha ha, I did not need to be seeing that.



It will do no harm
and helps Young Stu's Post.
A picture of a dog boning another dog helps my posts? What did I tell you about wishful thinking and keeping your fantasies away from here?
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I've never seen a gay club turn away a straight person? How can they tell anyway?
Same, although I've only ever been to one gay club and it was with my Religion class (loong story). But I've never heard of it happening.
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you not think it will have something to do wih fighting, letting straight homophobic people in a gay club will lead to many fights where as letting gay people in a straight club isnt like that. well thats what i think anyway.
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you not think it will have something to do wih fighting, letting straight homophobic people in a gay club will lead to many fights where as letting gay people in a straight club isnt like that. well thats what i think anyway.

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Gay clubs and so on are meant to be safe spaces for gay/lesbian couples who even today would get **** in a lot of hetero-orientated places, and the best way to do that is to try to ensure that it's gay/lesbians only.

(And by hetero-orientated places, I mean everywhere that isn't specifically gay-orientated).
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How would you classify the fairly uniform feeling of disgust that blokes feel for the sexual practices of gay men?

is that homophobic or just a natural reaction to what seems a very unnatural act?
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What I want to know is how do clubs distinguish between gay people and straight people? I know you could decide by camp/straight acting but not all gays are camp...
Do they ask you or something?
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