[leema]

sorry if i am emailing you but you are so rude plears can you say it nicely

[Lance]

What am I being rude about?Nothing all I said was that its hard for Kemal to come out priobably because of the strict religious rules.

Now if you find that rude then...

[leema]

Originally posted by Lance
you me too asnd I cant understand what you are e-mailing me about either..

god sake no need to be so ruuuuuude

[leema]

yes but you said that i always email you and the way you wrote it its just rude i my opinion

[Lance]

I never said u always e-mail me I said you e-mailed me,past tense which is once...something that happend and is over.

Now if i used the imperfect tense it would mean that you e-mailed me on a continous basis...and Im not gonna get all technical or get any firther with this becaus eits against TiBB rules and I aint getting kicked out because of this.

[Kaz]

I respect your opinion, leema - but i honestly don't think Lance was being rude by asking why you had e-mailed him.

Can we let this drop now please, so that thread can get back on topic. If not, it will be locked.

[Lance]

Ya I have dopped it Kaz.

[Razmataz]

right Kemal is not out of order for not telling his parents its his choice not yours not Roberto's who was out of ****ing order the other day and also i dont believe the GB public should vote for him because of what religion he supports and the way he chooses to express himself

[jt]

In fairness, I don't think that coming out on national television was the only reason that Kemal went into the house. Also, when someone is coming out/trying to come out, you have to understand that it's a really difficult thing to do, regardless of the expected response from people. I think the fact that he put himself into a situation where there were 12 complete strangers, and where he could be himself from the very get-go, may mean that he saw this as a way to come out. You must also consider that he would have been (and I say this with empathy) in a very selfish mode at the time, because coming out is such a personal thing, and it really is all about you at the time.
Hope that made sense. hmm.

[lilmissnaughty]

What right do you have to judge him? It's his choice, no one elses.

[jt]

Exactly, nobody has the right to judge him. But, then again. He's gone on national television, and is the point of the whole show not to judge the contestants? After all, despite what some might say, it's really just a glorified popularity contest, isn't it? Hmm?

(I'm totally on Kemal's side here though)

[lilmissnaughty]

Yeah, I suppose so, but its all easy enough for people to say what Kemal should do, but they aren't in that situation.

[jt]

Yup. Roberto had a point to make, I think, but he was a little bullish and heavy handed about it. I think really, all he wanted to do was ask Kemal a little more about where he's coming from (in terms of coming out on the show), and maybe wanted to explore Kemal's intentions. Or, I could be totally wrong, maybe Roberto was just provoking an argument, which he did in spectacular fashion if this was the case

p.s. Is there any particular reason why the word gay is written as GAY in the title to this post? It's not a swear word you know. Tsk.

[Razmataz]

The point roberto made was wrong and inconciseive its not his problem so why should he worry

[Aimee]

It was a bit like Nadia last year, she went in as a woman to be herself, to see if she was accepted as such, He has gone in as bi-sexual [he is not gay] and hopes to be accepted as such.

I do feel sorry for his family on one level but their reaction to him now will be the final judgement on them, if they accept him good on them, if not, stuff 'em.

[Razmataz]

im up for a bit but not much ok my arguement is that i dont understand why the hell it effect you what Kemal does why people try to break in to the house and kill Kemal its against my thinking and i dont understand whatsoever and for me to not believe that it effects you would be Gastley and if it does why

[babylon]

If Kemal didn't want anyones opinions about going in the house, without telling his parents about his sexuallity, why make a point of telling BB and the housemates.
I feel sorry for his parents, i'm sure they still love him, and must've had a pretty good idea already anyway, but for the nation to find out at the same time is cruel, I think I would be more upset with him for the way he did it, a bit heartless I think.

[Razmataz]

if thats the way he wanted to do it fair play to him

[jt]

This argument is just going around in circles

[babylon]

I wasn't aware anyone was arguing, just giving our own opinions, I thought

[Lance]

Kemal's dad was just on BBLB supporting him so I dont think he has any problem with Kemal's sexuality.

[Ruth]

Originally posted by Lance
Kemal's dad was just on BBLB supporting him so I dont think he has any problem with Kemal's sexuality.

I've missed a couple of BBLB's (sadly not the one with Alicia Duvall on it though), so I didn't see that, but it's good to hear that his father appears to be supportive of him. To be honest, Kemal really annoys me, as I find him very loud and OTT, but his religion and his sexuality are his business.

[xxxrachelxxx2045]

he ios soo ott (over the top)

[jt]

Originally posted by babylon
I wasn't aware anyone was arguing, just giving our own opinions, I thought

Arguing, Discussing, whatever.