[MisterCool]

Ok, let's get one thing straight: if your so-called 'boyfriend' gets into an argument with someone (even a friend) you do not, repeat, DO NOT side with the friend.

Anyone who'd side with a friend over their partner/spouse is an awful investment and should be dumped immediately.

When John James and Corin were arguing the other night, Josie kept defending Corin and siding with her over her 'boyfriend'.

As a so-called partner, she should have either kept silent or sided with John James.

She showed herself to be incredibly DISLOYAL and any REAL MAN would have dumped her on the spot!

Anyone who'd take sides against their partner makes for an awful investment. No loyality=weak relationship.

[Saph]

you created an account just to say that?

Maybe its to do with the fact that the man she's with is a complete wanker!

[Ramsay]

bros before hos braw

[MisterCool]

Originally Posted by Karl.

bros before hos braw

No, partner before 'friends'. The reason the divroce rate is so high btw is because too many people have their priorities wrong.

You wouldn't take sides with your friends over own mother would you? Or your kids?

So the same should be true of your partner!

[MisterCool]

Originally Posted by SaphLiike

you created an account just to say that?

Maybe its to do with the fact that the man she's with is a complete wanker!

You clearly are also quite disloyal. I feel sorry for any boyfriend you might have. I bet you'd side with your 'friends' too. Pitiful.

[Saph]

Originally Posted by MisterCool

You clearly are also quite disloyal. I feel sorry for any boyfriend you might have. I bet you'd side with your 'friends' too. Pitiful.

Anyone would side with freinds lol whats more important?

John James and Josie are a terrible matching and I feel sorry for Josie having to put up with that waste of air for the whole summer.

[Lee.]

Originally Posted by SaphLiike

Anyone would side with freinds lol whats more important?

John James and Josie are a terrible matching and I feel sorry for Josie having to put up with that waste of air for the whole summer.

Yeah, but regardless of your feelings towards John, he has been the closest to Josie from day 1 in the house.

[Lee.]

Originally Posted by MisterCool

Ok, let's get one thing straight: if your so-called 'boyfriend' gets into an argument with someone (even a friend) you do not, repeat, DO NOT side with the friend.

Anyone who'd side with a friend over their partner/spouse is an awful investment and should be dumped immediately.

When John James and Corin were arguing the other night, Josie kept defending Corin and siding with her over her 'boyfriend'.

As a so-called partner, she should have either kept silent or sided with John James.

She showed herself to be incredibly DISLOYAL and any REAL MAN would have dumped her on the spot!

Anyone who'd take sides against their partner makes for an awful investment. No loyality=weak relationship.

Yeah, I kinda agree with this.. I was quite surprised that she sided with Corin so vocally too. I think, even if she agreed with Corin it woiuld have been better for her just to stay out of it rather than turn on John..

[rusticgal]

Totally agree mistercool.... its called loyalty.If you dont have loyalty and trust in a relationship...its doomed.
John is totally loyal to her... he will be very upset when he sees what a bitch she has been behind his back.

[Angus]

Originally Posted by rusticgal

Totally agree mistercool.... its called loyalty.If you dont have loyalty and trust in a relationship...its doomed.
John is totally loyal to her... he will be very upset when he sees what a bitch she has been behind his back.

Wasn't she pissed because he sided with Sam against her? Ain't karma a bitch?

[MisterCool]

Rustic and Happyland understand good to see SOME morals exist here!

Pity Saphlike doesn't 'get' what a real relationship is meant to be about lol.

[Saph]

Originally Posted by MisterCool

Rustic and Happyland understand good to see SOME morals exist here!

Pity Saphlike doesn't 'get' what a real relationship is meant to be about lol.

more like pity your another dilusional John James fan Wonder how long it will take before you get your permaban

[HBB1508]

I think it says more about their relationship or lack of one to be honest.

[WOMBAI]

Originally Posted by MisterCool

Ok, let's get one thing straight: if your so-called 'boyfriend' gets into an argument with someone (even a friend) you do not, repeat, DO NOT side with the friend.

Anyone who'd side with a friend over their partner/spouse is an awful investment and should be dumped immediately.

When John James and Corin were arguing the other night, Josie kept defending Corin and siding with her over her 'boyfriend'.

As a so-called partner, she should have either kept silent or sided with John James.

She showed herself to be incredibly DISLOYAL and any REAL MAN would have dumped her on the spot!

Anyone who'd take sides against their partner makes for an awful investment. No loyality=weak relationship.

I have heard some bull in my time - but this has to be up there with the worst!

You don't back your 'partner' simply because they are your partner - if you disagree - you are fully entitled to say so! What an archaic point of view!

[MisterCool]

Originally Posted by WOMBAI

I have heard some bull in my time - but this has to be up there with the worst!

I've read some of your posts here. You are the most stupid member on here and I've read Fingers' posts!

You don't back your 'partner' simply because they are your partner

Yes you do.

if you disagree - you are fully entitled to say so! What an archaic point of view!

If you disagree, you say so in private. To do otherwise is grossly disloyal. Your opinion on this is worthless btw but to show everyone else how your reasoning is flawed, I felt it appropriate to respond.

[Julie10]

Originally Posted by MisterCool

I've read some of your posts here. You are the most stupid member on here and I've read Fingers' posts!



Yes you do.



If you disagree, you say so in private. To do otherwise is grossly disloyal. Your opinion on this is worthless btw but to show everyone else how your reasoning is flawed, I felt it appropriate to respond.

Pot, Kettle. Black!

[WOMBAI]

Originally Posted by MisterCool

I've read some of your posts here. You are the most stupid member on here and I've read Fingers' posts!


Yes you do.



If you disagree, you say so in private. To do otherwise is grossly disloyal. Your opinion on this is worthless btw but to show everyone else how your reasoning is flawed, I felt it appropriate to respond.

Excepting you of course!

Nah - I have a mind of my own thanks - and you don't sacrifice your belief in right and wrong for the sake of loyalty! It is overrated - and often used as an excuse to exert control over someone! You earn loyalty, you don't demand it - not even from a partner!

[jtalh2003]

according to the logic of the op you should side with a partner of a couple of months over a friend of several years because you should always side with your partner

loyalty is earned over time not given just because your partner thinks you should

[Lee.]

Originally Posted by WOMBAI

I have heard some bull in my time - but this has to be up there with the worst!

You don't back your 'partner' simply because they are your partner - if you disagree - you are fully entitled to say so! What an archaic point of view!

Womnai, I have to say I kinda disagree with this. I do agree she should have a right to disagree, but when it's your closest friend/partner, some loyalty should be shown no?

I think she would have been better staying out of it and then telling John on her own that she disagreed with him, rather than turning on him in quite an aggresive manner on national televeision

[WOMBAI]

Originally Posted by happyland

Womnai, I have to say I kinda disagree with this. I do agree she should have a right to disagree, but when it's your closest friend/partner, some loyalty should be shown no?

I think she would have been better staying out of it and then telling John on her own that she disagreed with him, rather than turning on him in quite an aggresive manner on national televeision

I respect your opinion - but on something like this - I think she did the right thing standing up for Corin!

Firstly they are hardly a 'couple' in the proper sense of the word - and, as he was clearly behaving in his usual innappropriate way - she did the right think calling him up on it - although may not of handled it as well as she might!

Couples may back each other up in significant, important matters - but on less important things - having opposing opinions is healthy and, I believe, should be encouraged - and they should be able to agree to disagree! I don't think anyone should blindly support their partner - if they strongly believe them to be wrong!

[Chickie]

To start with I think you got the topic wrong. Should have been John James: Awful Boyfriend Material.

So let me get this straight. Just because she is close to him she should abide by everything he says and not have an opinion is that right?
She should just be a good little women who nods and says yes John James, I totally agree with everything you say John James... Pfffff

What world do you live in? Do women in relationships not have the right to speak their mind where you come from?

I will stand by my man in pretty much any situation. But if he is making a twat of himself, is out of line, or is just being a argumentative dick, be dammed I will just sit there listen and nod. I would tell him so. And if he really loves you/her he will listen and take on board what you say. I am not saying he will change over it, but he should take it on board. John James doesn't, he just continues to argue and be a dick.

As an Aussie I am embarrassed by this twat. Sure he does have a few nice qualities that come to the surface on a rare, rare occasion, but overall he is a bully and a *****. My god, when he argues he doesn't even make sense, it's cringe worthy to watch.

My advise to Josie would be: Josie run... Run like you have never run before and don't look back.

I really hope he does move to the UK when this is over, (sorry to lumber him with you guys, I'm sure you don't want him either...lol).

[OnlySamShouldWin]

Originally Posted by Chickie

What world do you live in? Do women in relationships not have the right to speak their mind where you come from?

I believe the OP said this applies to everyone in relationships. And I agree with the OP.

I will stand by my man in pretty much any situation. But if he is making a twat of himself, is out of line, or is just being a argumentative dick, be dammed I will just sit there listen and nod. I would tell him so. And if he really loves you/her he will listen and take on board what you say. I am not saying he will change over it, but he should take it on board. John James doesn't, he just continues to argue and be a dick.

You would clearly be a nightmare girlfriend. If you sided with someone else (regardless if he's in the wrong) then he should dump you on the spot. If you disagree then say so in private, not in public.

[Angus]

Originally Posted by happyland

Womnai, I have to say I kinda disagree with this. I do agree she should have a right to disagree, but when it's your closest friend/partner, some loyalty should be shown no?

I think she would have been better staying out of it and then telling John on her own that she disagreed with him, rather than turning on him in quite an aggresive manner on national televeision

How can people not see exactly WHY she sided with Corin? It was payback for JJ1 siding with Sam when he was having a go at her. Josie fans are all praising this fake cow for sticking with the sisterhood, when all it was really about was malicious payback by the spiteful bitch. Do you seriously think Josie gives a flying ***** about the orange one? Lol.

[Lee.]

Originally Posted by angus58

How can people not see exactly WHY she sided with Corin? It was payback for JJ1 siding with Sam when he was having a go at her. Josie fans are all praising this fake cow for sticking with the sisterhood, when all it was really about was malicious payback by the spiteful bitch. Do you seriously think Josie gives a flying ***** about the orange one? Lol.

Ahh.. I see.I've missed quite a lot recently and did not see John doing this. So it was more of a revenge tactic you think? Hmm.. that makes it even worse I think.

[Livia]

I would never have a boyfriend who's as big an ar5ehole as John James, so the problem would never arise.