[Vanessa]

Originally Posted by Madlyaddicted

Well said. Anyone that doesn't like him will says its a game plan. I like him and want him to win. Most entertaining without being really nasty to anyone, unlike gina.

They all have a gameplan, but only Dexter is considered nasty for it.

[Tozzie]

Originally Posted by Simple Minds

Come on Taz I don't think they are that harsh on him, especially compared to week 2 or 3 where they pretty much ostracised him from the collective.

I'm not sure where I stand on this 'break him' thing though because yes I haven't seen him burst into tears over housemates not talking to him but the moment you tell him he's not actually evicted and he can go back in the house he's crying his eyes out like a little child. He really confuses me.

he doesn't cry his eyes out, stop exaggerating Simps LOL.
He gets emotional about it.

I feel Dexter has not got much self esteem and when he realises the public have saved him yet again he feels overwhelmed, I can understand that. We all like to be liked. While I know you and a lot won't agree with me and that is your/their prerogative I feel his tears are genuine. I've always been a person who gets upset when I see people 'ganging up' and this is what I perceive the other housemates to be doing. Dexter has continually tried to have fun in the house, he's been a really fun person, basically just trying to enjoy the experience of Big Brother but the others have all tried so hard to destroy his time in there. I wish I were in that house, I would have looked out for him. I've said it many times on here but I'll say it again, if Dexter doesn't win the show it won't matter to me because he has been my winner from start to finish.

[Vanessa]

Originally Posted by Tozzie

he doesn't cry his eyes out, stop exaggerating Simps LOL.
He gets emotional about it.

I feel Dexter has not got much self esteem and when he realises the public have saved him yet again he feels overwhelmed, I can understand that. We all like to be liked. While I know you and a lot won't agree with me and that is your/their prerogative I feel his tears are genuine. I've always been a person who gets upset when I see people 'ganging up' and this is what I perceive the other housemates to be doing. Dexter has continually tried to have fun in the house, he's been a really fun person, basically just trying to enjoy the experience of Big Brother but the others have all tried so hard to destroy his time in there. I wish I were in that house, I would have looked out for him. I've said it many times on here but I'll say it again, if Dexter doesn't win the show it won't matter to me because he has been my winner from start to finish.

Everyone in the House keep putting him down. He doesn't deserve it at all. I think he'll have the shock of his life when he realises how loved he really is.

[Kyle]

Originally Posted by Tozzie

he doesn't cry his eyes out, stop exaggerating Simps LOL.
He gets emotional about it.

I feel Dexter has not got much self esteem and when he realises the public have saved him yet again he feels overwhelmed, I can understand that. We all like to be liked. While I know you and a lot won't agree with me and that is your/their prerogative I feel his tears are genuine. I've always been a person who gets upset when I see people 'ganging up' and this is what I perceive the other housemates to be doing. Dexter has continually tried to have fun in the house, he's been a really fun person, basically just trying to enjoy the experience of Big Brother but the others have all tried so hard to destroy his time in there. I wish I were in that house, I would have looked out for him. I've said it many times on here but I'll say it again, if Dexter doesn't win the show it won't matter to me because he has been my winner from start to finish.

Did you not seem him when Emma told him he was going back in? If he is that secure with his emotions he wouldn't have slipped up like that. He's also struggled to keep them in check when he's been saved from eviction.

He looks like a guy screaming for affection, not some playboy hard man he reckoned he had going for himself.

Gina handled it better and she's a loaded gun

[Tozzie]

Originally Posted by Vanessa

Everyone in the House keep putting him down. He doesn't deserve it at all. I think he'll have the shock of his life when he realises how loved he really is.

especially when he finds out about my facebook group for him hehe

[Vanessa]

Originally Posted by Tozzie

especially when he finds out about my facebook group for him hehe

He'll be chuffed to know he's the new DS favourite.

[Tozzie]

Originally Posted by Simple Minds

Did you not seem him when Emma told him he was going back in? If he is that secure with his emotions he wouldn't have slipped up like that. He's also struggled to keep them in check when he's been saved from eviction.

He looks like a guy screaming for affection, not some playboy hard man he reckoned he had going for himself.

Gina handled it better and she's a loaded gun

I'd gladly give him a cuddle, I'm old enough to be his mum and I feel really protective of him, thats the motherly instinct in me I guess hehe.

[Tozzie]

Originally Posted by Vanessa

He'll be chuffed to know he's the new DS favourite.

is he? awwwww thats fab news for us Dexter fans.

[Vanessa]

Originally Posted by Tozzie

I'd gladly give him a cuddle, I'm old enough to be his mum and I feel really protective of him, thats the motherly instinct in me I guess hehe.

Me too! He's so sweet!

[Vanessa]

Originally Posted by Tozzie

is he? awwwww thats fab news for us Dexter fans.

He is! DS want him to win now! Amazing ! They hated him before!

[Tozzie]

Originally Posted by Vanessa

He is! DS want him to win now! Amazing ! They hated him before!

: hello: phew, I'm buggered now, the minds willing but the body aint up to all that dancing hahaha

[Vanessa]

Originally Posted by Tozzie

: hello: phew, I'm buggered now, the minds willing but the body aint up to all that dancing hahaha

They have a very dedicated Dexter appreciation thread. They're determined to make Dexter the winner.

[Vicky.]

Originally Posted by Simple Minds

Did you not seem him when Emma told him he was going back in? If he is that secure with his emotions he wouldn't have slipped up like that. He's also struggled to keep them in check when he's been saved from eviction.

He looks like a guy screaming for affection, not some playboy hard man he reckoned he had going for himself.

Gina handled it better and she's a loaded gun

I am actually glad that someone who dislikes him has pointed this out. As usually those who don't like him reckon any emotion he shows, and his eviction reactions, are fake and part of this neverending gameplan.

[Kyle]

Originally Posted by Vicky.

I am actually glad that someone who dislikes him has pointed this out. As usually those who don't like him reckon any emotion he shows, and his eviction reactions, are fake and part of this neverending gameplan.

I have no idea where he is with his emotions as I said earlier he confuses me when he doesn't seem to care about housemates ganging up on him but save him from eviction and the floodgates open.

[Vicky.]

Originally Posted by Simple Minds

I have no idea where he is with his emotions as I said earlier he confuses me when he doesn't seem to care about housemates ganging up on him but save him from eviction and the floodgates open.

This is exactly why I like him so much

I imagine the emotions thing is because its easier to hold in your emotions when you arent under pressure. When the housemates are going at him, I would bet hes upset/angry about it but can control it (usually, he has got angry a few times)

But on an eviction night the stress must be immense. Even just the thought of leaving to the crowd that tends to boo everyone.

[Delightful]

Originally Posted by Ellen

I think Dexter shot himself in the foot from the moment he went into the house with the Mr big i am which went down like a lead balloon with the other HM's.
He didnt help himself with the going bk & forwards from person to person putting doubts in their minds, he was not trusted from the start, that has followed him throughout....

There is no evidence that he ever did this and no housemate has ever given examples, which they would if there were any.

[Kyle]

Originally Posted by Vicky.

This is exactly why I like him so much

I imagine the emotions thing is because its easier to hold in your emotions when you arent under pressure. When the housemates are going at him, I would bet hes upset/angry about it but can control it (usually, he has got angry a few times)

But on an eviction night the stress must be immense. Even just the thought of leaving to the crowd that tends to boo everyone.

Well I suppose what they say about you women is true, you like a man you have to unravel and work out!

Dexter certainly has many layers, ill give him his due on that. It would be like pass the parcel

[Ammi]

Originally Posted by Vicky.

This is exactly why I like him so much

I imagine the emotions thing is because its easier to hold in your emotions when you arent under pressure. When the housemates are going at him, I would bet hes upset/angry about it but can control it (usually, he has got angry a few times)

But on an eviction night the stress must be immense. Even just the thought of leaving to the crowd that tends to boo everyone.

..maybe he expects/is used to rejection so he finds it easier to accept but when he support he becomes emotional because he didn't expect it..?...

[jet]

Originally Posted by Vanessa

Dexter is still being picked on, but he's dealing with it very well. Thank god for Gina. She really helped him when everyone was slagging him off on live feed. Dexter to win! He's a lovely guy. So what if he has a gameplan? Aaron had a gameplan and we still loved him to bits!

Speak for yourself!

[Vicky.]

Originally Posted by Ammi

..maybe he expects/is used to rejection so he finds it easier to accept but when he support he becomes emotional because he didn't expect it..?...

This would make sense too actually

[Vicky.]

Originally Posted by Simple Minds

Well I suppose what they say about you women is true, you like a man you have to unravel and work out!

Dexter certainly has many layers, ill give him his due on that. It would be like pass the parcel

This is why I found Sams nomination of him quite funny. When he said something about onions.

As I kind of view Dexter as an onion

[Vanessa]

Originally Posted by Ammi

..maybe he expects/is used to rejection so he finds it easier to accept but when he support he becomes emotional because he didn't expect it..?...

Yes. He has worked as a pap, so he's used to criticism i guess.

[Kyle]

Originally Posted by Vicky.

This is why I found Sams nomination of him quite funny. When he said something about onions.

As I kind of view Dexter as an onion

Your a genius, you have inspired a new topic!

Which vegetable is which housemate!

[jet]

I fail to see where in the last 6 weeks Dexter has been picked on. He had that thing with Callum (and I was rooting for Dexter there btw) - but so did Hazel with Gina, and Wolfy with Gina, and Callum with Jackie and Charlie with Hazel etc etc. Very few have escaped with no conflict or being talked about.
Gina has been nasty and spiteful to many of the HM's, but not with Dexter.
Where are all these examples of people being awful to Dexter? I think the HM's don't trust him at all but they have been pretty accepting of him considering that fact.

[Kyle]

Originally Posted by jet

I fail to see where in the last 6 weeks Dexter has been picked on. He had that thing with Callum (and I was rooting for Dexter there btw) - but so did Hazel with Gina, and Wolfy with Gina, and Callum with Jackie and Charlie with Hazel etc etc. Very few have escaped with no conflict or being talked about.
Gina has been nasty and spiteful to many of the HM's, but not with Dexter.
Where are all these examples of people being awful to Dexter? I think the HM's don't trust him at all but they have been pretty accepting of him considering that fact.

The only thing I can honestly think of that would constitute proper bullying would be early on in the show with the face to face noms where everybody laid into him. That was harsh.