[mrflibble]

Originally Posted by MarcusMel

Could 'creepy' be the same as socially awkward around people?

Probably, I get called creepy sometimes because I'm quiet and socially awkward. I do tend to watch people, but it's not in a creepy way it's just in a 'trying to understand' or 'find you interesting to watch' way. I can't read people very well and I'm a bit paranoid so I tend to be suspicious of people and watch them to ensure they're being honest or whatever with me. I see a lot of these similarities with Chris as well.

[Livia]

Chris is not creepy. But hey, if that's all people have to throw at him it shows how desperate they are for something to criticise.

[erinp5]

Chris has been a great Hm often saying what I am thinking .What he said to Pav's face (something they all claim to do) was what he had been told by ex Hms. Chris has told Pav what other know and speak of behind his back .
BB have put the word creep out there and some have picked it up and ran with it ...hilarious.
I will not be surprised if this time next week Helen is being hailed as the next Mother Teresa

[chuff me dizzy]

Originally Posted by erinp5

Chris has been a great Hm often saying what I am thinking .What he said to Pav's face (something they all claim to do) was what he had been told by ex Hms. Chris has told Pav what other know and speak of behind his back .
BB have put the word creep out there and some have picked it up and ran with it ...hilarious.
I will not be surprised if this time next week Helen is being hailed as the next Mother Teresa

Bots started turning Helen into a victim weeks ago ,but the public are not fools, but even on here Chris is now called creepy ,why can't people think for themselves?

[erinp5]

Originally Posted by chuff me dizzy

Bots started turning Helen into a victim weeks ago ,but the public are not fools, but even on here Chris is now called creepy ,why can't people think for themselves?

No clue Chuff but gutted for Chris .
I do hope BB have kept the 'duty of care' rule and realise what Chris told us in the girl power task.
I would hate to have him go back to not caring if he woke up mind set.

[Achilles]

Originally Posted by erinp5

No clue Chuff but gutted for Chris .
I do hope BB have kept the 'duty of care' rule and realise what Chris told us in the girl power task.
I would hate to have him go back to not caring if he woke up mind set.

I am hoping Ashleigh can help save Chris through diary room chats and 1 on 1 chats with Chris. But then if she does, the question is "will BB show it?"

[erinp5]

[QUOTE=Achilles;7110346]I am hoping Ashleigh can help save Chris through diary room chats and 1 on 1 chats with Chris. But then if she does, the question is "will BB show it?"[/QUOTE]

Not a chance
Steven is on BBBOTS tonight and his mother has been spewing **** about Chris on her twitter, you would think she was an ex Hm .

[lostalex]

nobody would;d be saying he is creepy if he wasn't fat. just saying. the black guy that was evicted was way more creepy. kim had to deal with that creep.

[user104658]

I think he probably has a little platonic crush on Ashleigh but... So what? They're both adults, he knows she wouldn't be interested and he's not trying anything on.

No one would find it "creepy" if he looked like Ash. And really, if you think about it, that's quite sad.

It reminds me of an article I read a while ago surveying girls in clubs. Basically, the findings were that they get dressed up (or, rather, down) because they want to look attractive. If they see an attractive man looking at them, they are flattered / that's the intention... But if a short bald guy looks at them, he's sleazy / slimy / creepy and making them feel uncomfortable.

That's basically what's going on here. People see a guy who looks like Chris getting close to a girl who looks like Ashleigh, maybe with a bit of a crush on her, and the immediate reaction is "EW! YUCK! WHO DO YOU THINK YOU ARE?? CRAWL BACK UNDER YOUR ROCK!!"

[mrflibble]

Originally Posted by Toy Soldier

I think he probably has a little platonic crush on Ashleigh but... So what? They're both adults, he knows she wouldn't be interested and he's not trying anything on.

No one would find it "creepy" if he looked like Ash. And really, if you think about it, that's quite sad.

It reminds me of an article I read a while ago surveying girls in clubs. Basically, the findings were that they get dressed up (or, rather, down) because they want to look attractive. If they see an attractive man looking at them, they are flattered / that's the intention... But if a short bald guy looks at them, he's sleazy / slimy / creepy and making them feel uncomfortable.

That's basically what's going on here. People see a guy who looks like Chris getting close to a girl who looks like Ashleigh, maybe with a bit of a crush on her, and the immediate reaction is "EW! YUCK! WHO DO YOU THINK YOU ARE?? CRAWL BACK UNDER YOUR ROCK!!"

It's really sad. The way people are reacting is absolutely disgusting. She's an adult. He's an adult. She doesn't feel uncomfortable, who cares if YOU feel uncomfortable? And I do feel creeped out if an unattractive person is looking at me but not in a way that I think they're doing anything wrong. If they started harassing me then that's another story. Looking is harmless (and this goes for Pav too).

[Achilles]

The worst part of it in my opinion is that Ashleigh and Chris are such good friends in the house. All the people judging Chris on how he looks and how he an awkward person completely ignore the fact that Ashleigh herself thinks nothing like they do. She has not judged Chris has she? I think that shows a very nice quality of Ashleigh and their FRIENDSHIP is much more real than Kimberly and Steven's BS showmance. Not only does Ashleigh have no issue with their friendship, but Ashleigh's boyfriend doesn't either. He is the only one with the right to say anything as well.

[jet]

Originally Posted by Achilles

The worst part of it in my opinion is that Ashleigh and Chris are such good friends in the house. All the people judging Chris on how he looks and how he an awkward person completely ignore the fact that Ashleigh herself thinks nothing like they do. She has not judged Chris has she? I think that shows a very nice quality of Ashleigh and their FRIENDSHIP is much more real than Kimberly and Steven's BS showmance. Not only does Ashleigh have no issue with their friendship, but Ashleigh's boyfriend doesn't either. He is the only one with the right to say anything as well.

Well said Achilles!

[Marsh.]

Originally Posted by Achilles

The worst part of it in my opinion is that Ashleigh and Chris are such good friends in the house. All the people judging Chris on how he looks and how he an awkward person completely ignore the fact that Ashleigh herself thinks nothing like they do. She has not judged Chris has she? I think that shows a very nice quality of Ashleigh and their FRIENDSHIP is much more real than Kimberly and Steven's BS showmance. Not only does Ashleigh have no issue with their friendship, but Ashleigh's boyfriend doesn't either. He is the only one with the right to say anything as well.

It also wasn't Chris's right to make Pav so uncomfortable concerning Ashleigh when it was Ashleigh's position to say something and apart from being creeped out by Danielle's bullish*t comments she hadn't said anything.

[Beso]

he's a twat.

[Ruffle]

I do think Chris is an ok guy thy are friends and hav been since the start I do hope people leave them alone if Chris goes she will be in trouble next week I don't want to see that happen

[Dia]

Also Toya(link to tweet), Matthew, and Danielle have all said that Chris is protective over Ashleigh. These are people who consider Ashleigh a friend and are invested in her well-being. I think they would be the first to criticize Chris if they truly thought there's something weird going on

[Shaun]

ah because they were so rational when it came to Pav & Zoe

[Ruffle]

Originally Posted by Shaun

ah because they were so rational when it came to Pav & Zoe

I thought this post was about Chris at least Chris has sat and talked to pav that's more than most in the house have done Chris is a nice guy if he had not been up with pav it would have been whoever was up that would have reserved the negativity

[bots]

Originally Posted by Dia

Also Toya(link to tweet), Matthew, and Danielle have all said that Chris is protective over Ashleigh. These are people who consider Ashleigh a friend and are invested in her well-being. I think they would be the first to criticize Chris if they truly thought there's something weird going on

So trust worthy that they lied and told Ashleigh that Pav was a perv which is what has caused Chris to be in this position in the first place

[Achilles]

Originally Posted by bitontheslide

So trust worthy that they lied and told Ashleigh that Pav was a perv which is what has caused Chris to be in this position in the first place

Danielle said Pav was infatuated with Ashleigh, not the other 2. Danielle had reason to dislike the 2 newbies AND she never liked Chris. Remember how she acted like a snake and told the whole house about their private conversation?

[erinp5]

Chris handled the questions well tonight ,the Hms agree he is not creepy around Ashleigh .Ashleigh does not think it and regarding Pav Chris took ownership of what was said and Pav himself agreed that Chris had been fair to him .

[Denver]

Originally Posted by erinp5

Chris handled the questions well tonight ,the Hms agree he is not creepy around Ashleigh .Ashleigh does not think it and regarding Pav Chris took ownership of what was said and Pav himself agreed that Chris had been fair to him .

You can tell a guilty person by there red face

[MojoNixon]

Originally Posted by adamski94

You can tell a guilty person by there red face

Adamski, please quit your pointless, nonsense propaganda. Ok we get it, you hate Chris. But do not lie.

[erinp5]

Originally Posted by adamski94

You can tell a guilty person by there red face

or they might have had to much sun .
OMG Ash's face was very red the other night ...what could he be guilty of..mmm,
You might be on to something ... Helen said hers face was red tonight!!!

[jscoo47]

Stephen really put the knife into Chris on BBOTS tonight. Nasty piece of work.

I still like Chris and he was clearly mortified to think that he was perceived in that way.