[Santa's NaughtiNess]

I ain't saying she's a gold-digger, but she ain't messing with no broke!

[bananarama]

Originally Posted by DemolitionRed

I suspect Harry has wealthy parents too and from her accent I also suspect she was privately educated. We know she was homeless and that could of been self inflicted or because she fell out of favour with her parents. I certainly don't think her house and her horse/horses is being paid for by herself, I think mummy and daddy have dipped heavily in their pockets to ensure she's safe....to ground her.

If she comes from the same sort of world as Nick then its Nick she's going to feel comfortable with. Many kids that are privately educated have parents with high expectations. I doubt Nick or Harry have lived up to those expectations and so are bound to find comfort in each other.

I quite like Harry but I do think she has 'Snow White' Syndrome. She's not going to financially bleed Nick dry but emotionally I think she will. In the link that was posted she calls herself a 'princess'. I don't for one moment believe that's an act.

Good well thought out post. A pleasure to read. Personally I think emotionally Nick is stronger than he may first appear. He is I think quite capable of cutting someone off quite ruthlessly to preserve his own sanity.

I like Harry too but she does somewhat emotionally drain herself.

[Pupuka]

Originally Posted by DemolitionRed

I suspect Harry has wealthy parents too and from her accent I also suspect she was privately educated. We know she was homeless and that could of been self inflicted or because she fell out of favour with her parents. I certainly don't think her house and her horse/horses is being paid for by herself, I think mummy and daddy have dipped heavily in their pockets to ensure she's safe....to ground her.

If she comes from the same sort of world as Nick then its Nick she's going to feel comfortable with. Many kids that are privately educated have parents with high expectations. I doubt Nick or Harry have lived up to those expectations and so are bound to find comfort in each other.

I quite like Harry but I do think she has 'Snow White' Syndrome. She's not going to financially bleed Nick dry but emotionally I think she will. In the link that was posted she calls herself a 'princess'. I don't for one moment believe that's an act.

So basically you make a speculation, and then create a whole story based on the speculated premise that she has wealthy parents. Begin making certain that the premise is true, and then I can take the rest of what you said seriously. Until then, you could have literally wrote a whole load of false garbage. At least with my speculation that she's a gold-digger, I provided some evidence to back up my theory, regardless of whether it's true or not.

However, if what you said is true, her self-entitled, spoilt brat syndrome makes sense. But if the latter is true, in that her parents are not in her life (regardless of wealth), her behavioural response to that circumstance also makes sense as she displays very poor and maladaptive relationship skills and displays some really challenging behaviour stemming from negative self-perception. She hides and secludes herself exponentially when she feels upset, as a child who lives in a maladaptive household does because they haven't learned how to express and understand emotions in a healthy manner, she displays very needy and possessive behaviour towards Nick, and when she doesn't receive what she's pursuing, she resorts to emotional manipulation via victimisation. She's very self-destructive, and destructive to others. She reminds me of Succubus.

**** I need to get out more.