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Originally Posted by rusticgal
Jason obviously had a good relationship with the girls before Charlie went in the house. The girls saw him as a father figure.
His whole personae changed when Charlie walked in...he became withdrawn and couldn't mess around with the girls because Charlie watched his every move....and the shirt incident proved that.
Now the bunny boilers gone he is back to his old self...but despite explaining to Evelyn and Emma they are so thick...they didn't get it.
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i don't know if it's because they're shallow as puddles with the ability to think beyond themselves comparable to a dust mote, or they're playing uber thick just to have the excuse for their reason to target him. i'm hoping for the second but expect the first.
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Originally Posted by GiRTh
Exactly, he changed but why and are we seriously blaming her for that change? I say again, he's a grown adult and I didnt see her do anything that he couldnt stop or control. If the girls dont like him then he needs to stop blaming the easy target
No she didnt watch his every move.
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dear lord, she was like a flaming hawk!
he did what most decent people would do in that situation - not make a huge fuss, not cause dramas, but quietly step back in order to cause as little upset to the house AND charlie whilst trying to prevent his own head from exploding because he knows what's she's capable of. it's testimony to his strength of character that he didn't shout and scream in her face when she just wouldn't leave him alone.
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Originally Posted by Kazanne
he was a bloke aswell wasn't he 
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Originally Posted by rusticgal
He was rarely out of her sight. Do you not understand how a person with a controlling and obsessive dis order like Charlie can intimidate and suppress someone.
I know people that act completely different when their partners are around...it's sad to watch. Charlie was obsessed with Jason...she couldn't take no for an answer...she still believes she and he are in with a chance.
Look how she carried on after Jason gave Evelyn the shirt... You say there was nothing he couldn't stop or control?....did you not see him tell her many times that they were no longer a couple....every time she said "so long as I know where I stand"....and the very next day she was off again.
You can see in Jason's body language how chilled and relaxed he is since Charlie left....perhaps if Laura and Evelyn paid more attention to their friends situation instead of throwing themselves around anyone that's 'fit' and breathes they might have understood why he was the way he was.
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you're asking a lot there
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Originally Posted by rusticgal
So had Jason been 'strong enough' and on the 6th occassion told her to just " **** off and leave me alone...I don't want you in my life anymore"....you think that would make him a stronger person and in control???
Jason, by keeping it together and keeping his dignity and behaving like a gent he took complete control and showed an amazing strength of character.
We all clearly saw what a bunny boiler Charlie was.Jason, by keeping it together and keeping his dignity and behaving like a gent he took complete control and showed an amazing strength of character.
We all clearly saw what a bunny boiler Charlie was...we could all see how her presence suppressed Jason...you must be blind if you didn't see it. He s right to blame Charlie for his change of behaviour....we saw it..and he knows it and he admits it...we could all see how her presence suppressed Jason...you must be blind if you didn't see it. He s right to blame Charlie for his change of behaviour....we saw it..and he knows it and he admits it. What's wrong with that?
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