[Kazanne]

Originally Posted by Cherie

Good point, Micheal's was a light hearted thread, he posted in it himself, what is wrong with boosting a member who gets alot of negativity up, i think what should have happened is the negative comments should have been removed,. there have been threads about members before when they went awol and they went pages long with no penalities.

Dezzy I comment you for yoru comments in this thread I do think progress has been made across the great divide

Totally agree plus most people could see it was a positive thread,shame some have to spoil them.There is nothing wrong with being nice now and again.Plus I really don't care who sees my infractions bans etc,if I have been bad I will take a slap on the wrist.

[bots]

Originally Posted by Cherie

Good point, Micheal's was a light hearted thread, he posted in it himself, what is wrong with boosting a member who gets alot of negativity up, i think what should have happened is the negative comments should have been removed,. there have been threads about members before when they went awol and they went pages long with no penalities.

Dezzy I comment you for yoru comments in this thread I do think progress has been made across the great divide

But then, those that posted negatively will get pissed if their posts were deleted, and also, it projects a group mentality that i don't think is healthy personally as I already think there is far to much group mentality on display already.

[Cherie]

Originally Posted by bitontheslide

But then, those that posted negatively will get pissed if their posts were deleted, and also, it projects a group mentality that i don't think is healthy personally as I already think there is far to much group mentality on display already.

If someone makes a feel good thread, going into it to specifically say nasty things is against forum rules as it is insulting members so there should be no debate over their deletion

[Denver]

I'm a good girl so wouldn't affect my life #Noinfractions

[Kazanne]

Originally Posted by Adam.

I'm a good girl so wouldn't affect my life #Noinfractions

I didn't realize you were a girl Adam

[Amy Jade]

The Michael thread asked a question and people answered. I won't elaborate on my reply but it was my honest opinion. Why do people seek to censor only those who oppose their way of thinking?

[Kazanne]

Originally Posted by Amy Jade

The Michael thread asked a question and people answered. I won't elaborate on my reply but it was my honest opinion. Why do people seek to censor only those who oppose their way of thinking?

That's fine and no problem as long as those that do that can take the negativity back.

[Greg!]

Makes me crease that certain chicks act like they are so hard done by on this forum when I can guarantee that on 99% of other forums if you were to make constant threads moaning about mods and their decisions and whinging about 'bias', you'd be banned and that would be the end of that. Certain people just need to suck it up when they get infractions/warnings and take it on the chin like everyone else.

[Crimson Dynamo]

Originally Posted by Greg!

Makes me crease that so certain chicks act like they are so hard done by on this forum when I can guarantee that on 99% of other forums if you were to make constant threads moaning about mods and their decisions and whinging about 'bias', you'd be banned and that would be the end of that. Certain people just need to suck it up when they get infractions/warnings and take it on the chin like everyone else.

"when I can guarantee that on 99% of other forums if you were to make constant threads moaning about mods and their decisions and whinging about 'bias', you'd be banned"

do you have evidence for this or did you just make it up to have a dig at people you dont like?

[Greg!]

Do you have evidence to the contrary sis? Also don't make assumptions on who I do and don't like on here!

[Crimson Dynamo]

Originally Posted by Greg!

Do you have evidence to the contrary sis? Also don't make assumptions on who I do and don't like on here!

so that would be a no

[Greg!]

Originally Posted by LeatherTrumpet

so that would be a no

Well chick if you want to test out my theory then you are free to go on other forums and make threads moaning about being infracted for breaking the rules / moaning about the mods and see what happens. Go for your life!

[Crimson Dynamo]

Originally Posted by Greg!

Well chick if you want to test out my theory then you are free to go on other forums and make threads moaning about being infracted for breaking the rules / moaning about the mods and see what happens. Go for your life!

this thread is about making infractions for all members open and it seems have not read the thread and tried to take it off topic whilst at the same time having (another) pop at members who are not part of your social circle.

I think we can all see what your intentions are, as Kaz said. This is not a thread for you so dont feel you need to participate if you have nothing positive or helpful to add.

also calling me sis etc is what is commonly known as baiting and guess what..its against the rules you so cherish...

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[Greg!]

Originally Posted by LeatherTrumpet

this thread is about making infractions for all members open and it seems have not read the thread and tried to take it off topic whilst at the same time having (another) pop at members who are not part of your social circle.

I think we can all see what your intentions are, as Kaz said. This is not a thread for you so dont feel you need to participate if you have nothing positive or helpful to add.

also calling me sis etc is what is commonly known as baiting and guess what..its against the rules you so cherish...

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No need to patronise me hon, I did read the thread. And it doesn't take a rocket scientist to realise that it is yet another attempt to try and bring attention to a 'bias' that doesn't exist. I wouldn't be opposed to making all penalties public FYI if it meant people stopped constantly moaning.

[Twosugars]

Originally Posted by Greg!

Well chick if you want to test out my theory then you are free to go on other forums and make threads moaning about being infracted for breaking the rules / moaning about the mods and see what happens. Go for your life!

LT is no chick no more

[Greg!]

And I would say I don't really dislike anyone on here actually, just getting a bit sick and tired of seeing the same old threads moaning and unfairly attacking the mods day in day out!

[Kazanne]

Originally Posted by Greg!

And I would say I don't really dislike anyone on here actually, just getting a bit sick and tired of seeing the same old threads moaning and unfairly attacking the mods day in day out!

We are having a debate which might clear some things up,no one is forcing you to read any of it and no one is attacking anyone, we are trying to get things in the open in an adult way.

[Jordan.]

Originally Posted by Kazanne

We are having a debate which might clear some things up,no one is forcing you to read any of it and no one is attacking anyone, we are trying to get things in the open in an adult way.

I think an adult would simply log out and have bigger things to be concerned about than the moderating of a reality tv forum

[Kazanne]

Originally Posted by Jordan.

I think an adult would simply log out and have bigger things to be concerned about than the moderating of a reality tv forum

I never hardly log out of Tibb even if I am not using it,I really don't know why that comment was aimed at me, but I suppose if it makes you feel better.

[Crimson Dynamo]

Originally Posted by Jordan.

I think an adult would simply log out and have bigger things to be concerned about than the moderating of a reality tv forum

another rather dissapointing baiting dig...

[Livia]

How about giving us a thread where we can post the infractions we get, and the reasons for them, so people can see they're not the only ones to get infractions for bugger all. Infractions because the mod took the conversation out of context. Infractions because the mod just doesn't like you. Infractions because the mod is having an argument in the thread and you're going against them...

Some of my infractions have been justified, but a lot have not. They've been for next to nothing, less than I see moderators get away with day after day. If we could post them up and we can all see that I was infracted for, say, asking someone to stop baiting me. Which has been done... and is stupid. All this, we can infract you, you have no comeback and you're not allowed to talk about it... casts the mods in a very sinister light when they're just ordinary people with no special skills or comprehension. And to say that all infractions are discussed by a group of mods makes me despair, because I know they're not all petty, like some of my infractions clearly have been.

[Tom4784]

Originally Posted by Livia

How about giving us a thread where we can post the infractions we get, and the reasons for them, so people can see they're not the only ones to get infractions for bugger all. Infractions because the mod took the conversation out of context. Infractions because the mod just doesn't like you. Infractions because the mod is having an argument in the thread and you're going against them...

Some of my infractions have been justified, but a lot have not. They've been for next to nothing, less than I see moderators get away with day after day. If we could post them up and we can all see that I was infracted for, say, asking someone to stop baiting me. Which has been done... and is stupid. All this, we can infract you, you have no comeback and you're not allowed to talk about it... casts the mods in a very sinister light when they're just ordinary people with no special skills or comprehension. And to say that all infractions are discussed by a group of mods makes me despair, because I know they're not all petty, like some of my infractions clearly have been.

This is the kind of post that makes me really want this to go ahead.

If you were to make your infractions public, I'd be willing to bet that most people would find them justified.

[Livia]

Originally Posted by Dezzy

This is the kind of post that makes me really want this to go ahead.

If you were to make your infractions public, I'd be willing to bet that most people would find them justified.

Dezzy, with respect, please stop replying to me and I'll extend to you the same courtesy. The only reason you're not on ignore is because I can't put mods on ignore.

[Tom4784]

Originally Posted by Livia

Dezzy, with respect, please stop replying to me and I'll extend to you the same courtesy. The only reason you're not on ignore is because I can't put mods on ignore.

Now this is a good example of baiting so everyone listen up. Telling someone that they are on your ignore list is considered baiting because it serves no purpose other than to draw a reaction from them. If someone is on your ignore list, continue to ignore them or choose to respond to their posts in a way that isn't baiting.

Telling someone that they are being ignored is baiting and will likely net you a few infractions if you do it enough.

[Crimson Dynamo]

Originally Posted by Dezzy

This is the kind of post that makes me really want this to go ahead.

If you were to make your infractions public, I'd be willing to bet that most people would find them justified.

great then that would surely help?