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Liam- · 02-05-2019, 02:44 PM

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Originally Posted by LeatherTrumpet

she punished the kids with her financial neglect

No, she did something and the school decided to lay the repercussions at the feet of the children, they used them as pawns to make a point to their mother, they’re children, they shouldn’t be involved in an establishments battles I’m afraid, the mother is wrong for not paying what she owes, but the school is just as bad for not feeding the kids properly to make a point.

chuff me dizzy · 02-05-2019, 02:54 PM

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Originally Posted by LeatherTrumpet

Its HER fault

nowt to do with the school

The responsibility to look after YOUR kiddies starts and ends with the parents no one else's responsibility

arista · 02-05-2019, 02:36 PM

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Originally Posted by Liam-

I mean yeah, she should be paying for their lunches, but that’s not the fault of the kids, to ‘punish’ the kids and single them out in front of everybody and not feed them a proper meal is cruel and unusual, take it up with the mother, not the kids, awful behaviour from the school

The Schools nowdays must get money for Foods
The Mother is the Problem

arista · 02-05-2019, 03:15 PM

She is a Care Worker with 6 kids
and her phone run out, so she did not get all the updates
which means she now can pay it,
no need to take it to the local newspaper

From a Ch5HD AM debate

Alf · 02-05-2019, 03:23 PM

It does say that this is a School law, which does allow you to get £10 in debt. You start making exceptions for one, and they all want it.

I know if I was a dinner lady, I'd have give the kids some grub on the sly, would at least put something inside the bread and butter and make it a sandwich. But the mother is the one at fault here, hopefully she made a few bob from the story and settled her debts with the school.

arista · 02-05-2019, 03:44 PM

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Originally Posted by Alf

It does say that this is a School law, which does allow you to get £10 in debt. You start making exceptions for one, and they all want it.

I know if I was a dinner lady, I'd have give the kids some grub on the sly, would at least put something inside the bread and butter and make it a sandwich. But the mother is the one at fault here, hopefully she made a few bob from the story and settled her debts with the school.

Those days are long gone
there is a line
you can not cross it these days

Liam- · 02-05-2019, 03:48 PM

Bread and butter isn’t enough to sustain a child through a 6 hour school day

they were given a subpar ‘meal’ because there was an issue with their mother, yes it’s their job to teach kids, but that doesn’t mean they shouldn’t be taking care of their students, a school allowing children to not have a proper meal through the school day, because of a small debt, is in my eyes barbaric and lacks any compassion that a school should show

Livia · 02-05-2019, 03:50 PM

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Originally Posted by Liam-

Bread and butter isn’t enough to sustain a child through a 6 hour school day

they were given a subpar ‘meal’ because there was an issue with their mother, yes it’s their job to teach kids, but that doesn’t mean they shouldn’t be taking care of their students, a school allowing children to not have a proper meal through the school day, because of a small debt, is in my eyes barbaric and lacks any compassion that a school should show

Oh please Liam... I do feel a bit sorry for the kids, but women like their mother rely on soft touches to get them through life, let them off a debt, provide stuff for free.... The one and only person responsible for those kids eating only bread and butter is their mother.

Liam- · 02-05-2019, 03:53 PM

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Originally Posted by Livia

Oh please Liam... I do feel a bit sorry for the kids, but women like their mother rely on soft touches to get them through life, let them off a debt, provide stuff for free.... The one and only person responsible for those kids eating only bread and butter is their mother.

No-one is saying to let the woman off of her debt, but to take her debt out on her children was morally wrong imo, is £17 really worth allowing kids to go without a proper meal? This school clearly cares more about money than their students

Denver · 02-05-2019, 03:56 PM

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No-one is saying to let the woman off of her debt, but to take her debt out on her children was morally wrong imo, is £17 really worth allowing kids to go without a proper meal? This school clearly cares more about money than their students

If they didnt charge people they wouldnt afford ingredients and would have to make the dinner staff redundant not everything in life comes for free and everything had consequences

Denver · 02-05-2019, 03:56 PM

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Originally Posted by Liam-

No-one is saying to let the woman off of her debt, but to take her debt out on her children was morally wrong imo, is £17 really worth allowing kids to go without a proper meal? This school clearly cares more about money than their students

If they didnt charge people they wouldnt afford ingredients and would have to make the dinner staff redundant not everything in life comes for free and everything had consequences

Ammi · 02-05-2019, 03:53 PM

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Originally Posted by Livia

Oh please Liam... I do feel a bit sorry for the kids, but women like their mother rely on soft touches to get them through life, let them off a debt, provide stuff for free.... The one and only person responsible for those kids eating only bread and butter is their mother.

...the people responsible for a child eating Livia is everyone, I’m sorry...and while those children were at school...?...the responsibility for them to have a healthy and adequate meal belonged with the school staff...

Livia · 02-05-2019, 03:57 PM

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...the people responsible for a child eating Livia is everyone, I’m sorry...and while those children were at school...?...the responsibility for them to have a healthy and adequate meal belonged with the school staff...

You think that the parent should be able to take those kids to a restaurant and have them eat for free? No, neither should they expect to at school. We already provide free meals for eligible children, if these children were eligible then they would presumably be getting free meals.

You're quite wrong about everyone being responsible. If the mother can't take responsibility for feeding her own children, then maybe Social Services should be looking into it.

Ammi · 02-05-2019, 03:58 PM

...she lives with her partner btw according to the article...so I’m not sure why it would only be the mother who had a responsibility...

Ammi · 02-05-2019, 04:01 PM

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Originally Posted by Livia

You think that the parent should be able to take those kids to a restaurant and have them eat for free? No, neither should they expect to at school. We already provide free meals for eligible children, if these children were eligible then they would presumably be getting free meals.

You're quite wrong about everyone being responsible. If the mother can't take responsibility for feeding her own children, then maybe Social Services should be looking into it.

..a restaurant and restaurant staff don’t have a duty of care over a child...a school and school staff do...they have a duty of care, which is why they gave the children bread and butter...but I refuse to believe they didn’t throw food out...perfectly fine food that those two boys could have had some of...absolutely awful and a policy that should be thrown out of the window...

Livia · 02-05-2019, 03:51 PM

Maybe just give everyone the option of paying? I mean, let those who always pay, pay.... and those who never do, well just give them stuff for free! Sounds fair.

Denver · 02-05-2019, 03:54 PM

As a parent your first thought should be sorting it out with the school not sell it to the papers for a tenner to buy veggies and a scratch card

Crimson Dynamo · 02-05-2019, 04:19 PM

Can you just imagine what kind of feral mother she is, those poor children

chuff me dizzy · 02-05-2019, 04:20 PM

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Originally Posted by LeatherTrumpet

Can you just imagine what kind of feral mother she is, those poor children

Publicly humiliated by their mother

arista · 02-05-2019, 04:22 PM

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Originally Posted by LeatherTrumpet

Can you just imagine what kind of feral mother she is, those poor children

At least she has a Part Time Job
as a care worker

Crimson Dynamo · 02-05-2019, 04:24 PM

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At least she has a Part Time Job
as a care worker

yes she works in a care home and haivng spent the last 6 years in and out of them

i know just the type....

Crimson Dynamo · 02-05-2019, 04:23 PM

"The headteacher said the 'bread and butter' rule was brought in so that children are denied a school lunch whenever a family owes more than £10."

So a stated rule was flouted by this "woman" and she has the audacity to contact the media??. What a piece of work, her poor kids

"She said she did not recall receiving any other text messages from the school prior to Monday."

LukeB · 02-05-2019, 04:24 PM

I don't know this mothers income situation but since she isn't entitled to free meals what is she spending her money on? surely you should make sure have money for lunches or she could do pack lunches.

She should stop whining to the papers and pay the bill and not risk her children from being hungry. Bread and Butter is better than nothing but if you want your child to have a bigger meal then pay.