[Ithinkiloveyoutoo]

there's a group on tumblr called rock groupies and I...I..have no words

anonymous asked:

I want to sleep with a musician, but he is married. I can't help but think doing anything other than talking with him would be immoral, even though I think we both want to do it. Any advice?

Hi

If you don’t think it would be right to go any further, then don’t do it - never do what you’re not comfortable doing! I do think it would be a good idea to talk to him about what he thinks/feels though, it may help you decide what to do next. Lots of people have different ideas when it comes to what is moral or immoral, and they can be quite different when it comes to touring musicians - I bet you’ve heard of MAHSOR: Married at Home, Single on the Road.

What I can say is never judge people on their morals, and never accept judgement from other people on your beliefs. There’s no absolute right and wrong, it’s all relative to who is involved.

Rachel xx

What Rachel said!
Morals are different for every single person, we aren’t here to tell you what yours should be.

Here’s a post I wrote a while ago that might interest you:
http://rockgroupies.tumblr.com/post/...are-subjective

- Sofia x

[Ammi]

Originally Posted by Ithinkiloveyoutoo

there's a group on tumblr called rock groupies and I...I..have no words

..for me, morals don't come into it..I think that a couple who are committed can choose their own boundaries of what they think is acceptable and that could be anything in that it could be agreed that the rockstar could be with other people while he was on the road..?..but if he's the only one who has agreed it and it betrays what their commitment is to each other and goes beyond whatever boundaries they have as a couple then it's just cheating and nothing more or nothing less...or am I overthinking your post lol....

[Z]

I've got my job interview at 12, wish I had more confidence in myself - interviews don't bother me, I just don't believe that I'm good enough to get this job :/

[Ammi]

Originally Posted by Zee

I've got my job interview at 12, wish I had more confidence in myself - interviews don't bother me, I just don't believe that I'm good enough to get this job :/

..well, that's how much you know.....

[Z]

Originally Posted by Ammi

..well, that's how much you know.....

The entire interview was in German

[Ammi]

Originally Posted by Zee

The entire interview was in German

.....that's even more impressive then, Zee...

[Z]

Originally Posted by Ammi

.....that's even more impressive then, Zee...

I did a lot of nodding but I got through it

[Jessica.]

Not being able to find anywhere that sells lemongrass tea in Ireland.

[Ammi]

Originally Posted by Jessica‪

Not being able to find anywhere that sells lemongrass tea in Ireland.

..where did you buy it before, Jess..?...

[BigSister]

When you get loads of cold callers i dont mind one it annoys me but when 3 or 4 ring within an hour

[Ithinkiloveyoutoo]

god damn you curly sue always make cry trying to be grown

[King Gizzard]

when you make dream topping but it doesn't set right and it's all runny and liquidy :'(

[Ammi]

...Dream Topping....it's still taste lovely though...

[Jessica.]

Getting randomly emotional for no reason.

[Ammi]

Originally Posted by Jessica‪

Getting randomly emotional for no reason.

.....

[Z]

I'm annoyed at my lack of motivation. Need to email my adviser some dissertation work and I've lazily just pasted work in and can't even be bothered reading over it or adding to it and just want to send him stuff I wrote ages ago...

[Ammi]

Originally Posted by Zee

I'm annoyed at my lack of motivation. Need to email my adviser some dissertation work and I've lazily just pasted work in and can't even be bothered reading over it or adding to it and just want to send him stuff I wrote ages ago...

..I don't want to nag but I think maybe you'll be happier with yourself if you read over it and you're happy with everything..?...thinking, oh, I wished I had....etc ..is a bit of a rubbish feeling but then it's out of your control to do anything about it....

[Z]

Originally Posted by Ammi

..I don't want to nag but I think maybe you'll be happier with yourself if you read over it and you're happy with everything..?...thinking, oh, I wished I had....etc ..is a bit of a rubbish feeling but then it's out of your control to do anything about it....

I sent him stuff about an hour and a half ago... I edited some of the stuff I'd written and wrote up some new stuff, it's for my dissertation, I've recycled info I used for another essay and I'm not even sure if it's okay for me to do that but it's just so he can see my progress and point out where I'm going right/wrong with things... I have so much work to do, being ill over the holidays was the worst possible timing :/

[Ithinkiloveyoutoo]

oh god can I please stop hearing i've felt something with you that i've never felt before in films.

[Ithinkiloveyoutoo]

that I have to go to manchester next friday instead of spending the day off in bed.

[Ithinkiloveyoutoo]

when the security guard for your local sainsburys casually follows you everytime. **** off you're making me uncomfortable. If you feel you have seen me enough times that you or i should say hello, then ****ing say it don't just follow me whilst a real thief is on the otherside.

[Ithinkiloveyoutoo]

death looks good. I'd rather die then continue this dissertation.

just **** it man what's the point. ain't nobody getting their dream jobs based on degrees nyhow

[Ithinkiloveyoutoo]

my head is just not in it. it's complete torture.

[Ammi]

Originally Posted by Ithinkiloveyoutoo

my head is just not in it. it's complete torture.

..if you break it down though Ceecee, there won't be anything in it that you don't know or can't do, it's just the thought of these things and knowing how to start it but maybe try not to think of the whole thing because that seems too huge and scary, so just break it all down into little bits that you feel comfortable with and then do each one of them at a time...you can do it, I know you can do it and you know that as well...and try to remember the reasons why you wanted to do it why it was important to you ..

[Ithinkiloveyoutoo]

don't think I can actually watch 12 years a slave. 30 mins in nothing but disgust and pain at how slaves were treated then. fine, it's all very well filmed and story well written etc, but is it necessary to bring out a film about slavery every 2 years. it's ****ing painful!! **** sake. it's not a bloody game. why not bring out a film every 2 years about something that was painful for another race. grrr so painful