[Ammi]

Originally Posted by reece(:

The problem with that then is people need to get with the times, we are not in the dark ages any more. In addition, many different walks of life are going to come together in that house, if you don't like it - don't go in. She's from a totally different walk of life and that should be recognised, as well being totally drunk.

But why is Charlotte from GS loved for her behaviour yet Jasmine is totally bashed?.... And Charlotte wasn't even drunk when she'd talk about that around the likes of Carol McGiffin who'd also talk about crude subjects such as queefing.

..I do agree with you that I didn't find Jasmine offensive in any way..what I dislike in a housemate is nasty spiteful behaviour, not that she uses certain terminology whether she had been drinking alcohol or not, it was the same with Charlotte..I thought she was a very sweet girl but she was quite open in how she said things and the terms she used...but BB always attracts a wide range of people and of different ages and opinions etc so it'll always be divided on things like this...if everyone thought the same then BB forums wouldn't really have anything to talk about...

[Lee.]

Originally Posted by reece(:

The problem with that then is people need to get with the times, we are not in the dark ages any more. In addition, many different walks of life are going to come together in that house, if you don't like it - don't go in. She's from a totally different walk of life and that should be recognised, as well being totally drunk.

But why is Charlotte from GS loved for her behaviour yet Jasmine is totally bashed?.... And Charlotte wasn't even drunk when she'd talk about that around the likes of Carol McGiffin who'd also talk about crude subjects such as queefing.

I am with the times thank you very much.. And I have a very large circle of friends, family, acquaintances and colleagues if both sexes and ranging from teenagers to the elderly and I honestly don't know ANYBODY who'd offer to finger a strangers arsehole... It's never been socially acceptable (even in the dark ages) and never will be.

[GiRTh]

Originally Posted by reece(:

The problem with that then is people need to get with the times, we are not in the dark ages any more. In addition, many different walks of life are going to come together in that house, if you don't like it - don't go in. She's from a totally different walk of life and that should be recognised, as well being totally drunk.

But why is Charlotte from GS loved for her behaviour yet Jasmine is totally bashed?.... And Charlotte wasn't even drunk when she'd talk about that around the likes of Carol McGiffin who'd also talk about crude subjects such as queefing.

Doubles standards and a bit of sexism.

[reece(:]

Originally Posted by Lee.

I honestly don't know ANYBODY who'd offer to finger a strangers arsehole...

She obviously did not mean literally, she was bantering with Dappy... there's the misconception.

[rionablue]

Originally Posted by GiRTh

Drunken antics have been a part of BB since the first series. If you dont like them why do you keep watching?

Very very good point GiRTh

[rionablue]

Originally Posted by Jemal

No..
I respect her for gettig where she is right mow without the baxking of her parents and through all the adversity shes been through she still manages to create a good career/life for herself. Thats what i respect her much more for.

Heres a tip for you: before you try and bring other things into this, did you see me saying thats alright?
So please know what your talking about before you start putting things in peoples mouths.

Thanks..

I loveeeeeeeeee you Jemal x

[Jack_]

Isn't it funny how on the first night we had two maybe three multiple page threads about Jasmine's conduct and yet there's barely been any talk about Dappy's actions tonight? I understand Evander-gate has overshadowed it potentially but still, do people on here not think that Ollie instigating a conversation about Dappy's cock and then him demonstrating to Jasmine how big it was also in front of Lionel (who actually spoke up and said 'do I really want to be hearing this') was so disgusting and foul?

What about him then poking her back with his throbbing boner in bed? And commenting on how tight her ass is? Is this all acceptable conduct for a man? This is exactly the kind of thing I pointed out last night, how it seems to be one rule for men and a completely different one for women.

I know there's been a couple of threads on Dappy tonight, but no such discussion like this one...

[reece(:]

^ Backs up my claim

[Mystic Mock]

Originally Posted by Kizzy

No he wasn't, he made one or two comments due to being a little socially inept in quite an adolescent fashion is all.

"My winkie is expanding" and "show me your boobies" and perving over Hazel when she used to sit by him.

After all I wasn't bothered by Sam's sexual nature, but if people are gonna attack Jasmine for the same thing then Sam needs to be attacked also.

[Mystic Mock]

Originally Posted by Kazanne

Same could be said that just because you think she's attractive she can do no wrong,If Lionel had sat back and relished in her sex talk he'de have been branded a dirty old man! because he found it distasteful, he is branded 'old and boring'

I've gotta be honest if Lionel did what Jasmine did on the first highlight show then I would have found it hysterical.

[Mystic Mock]

Originally Posted by Jack_

Isn't it funny how on the first night we had two maybe three multiple page threads about Jasmine's conduct and yet there's barely been any talk about Dappy's actions tonight? I understand Evander-gate has overshadowed it potentially but still, do people on here not think that Ollie instigating a conversation about Dappy's cock and then him demonstrating to Jasmine how big it was also in front of Lionel (who actually spoke up and said 'do I really want to be hearing this') was so disgusting and foul?

What about him then poking her back with his throbbing boner in bed? And commenting on how tight her ass is? Is this all acceptable conduct for a man? This is exactly the kind of thing I pointed out last night, how it seems to be one rule for men and a completely different one for women.

I know there's been a couple of threads on Dappy tonight, but no such discussion like this one...

Am I sick for finding it all funny?

[Jack_]

Originally Posted by The Mockinator

Am I sick for finding it all funny?

Nope, I found Jasmine funny and parts of Dappy's behaviour I find amusing but in no way was I offended by it, nor was I offended by Jasmine's either

It's either an all or nothing thing, either you are offended by such behaviour by both men and women, or you're not offended by that type of behaviour at all. But that doesn't happen as I and some others pointed out last night, people are up in arms about it if a woman dares to act that way but if a man does it it's brushed under the carpet or ignored because it's seem as a 'laddy' thing to do and it's just normal. Just sexist double standards.

[Mystic Mock]

Originally Posted by Jack_

Nope, I found Jasmine funny and parts of Dappy's behaviour I find amusing but in no way was I offended by it, nor was I offended by Jasmine's either

It's either an all or nothing thing, either you are offended by such behaviour by both men and women, or you're not offended by that type of behaviour at all. But that doesn't happen as I and some others pointed out last night, people are up in arms about it if a woman dares to act that way but if a man does it it's brushed under the carpet or ignored because it's seem as a 'laddy' thing to do and it's just normal. Just sexist double standards.

I do agree with you on this, hence Sam winning BB14, and Anthony Hutton winning BB6.

The only time I find crude to be really horrible is when contestants like Charlotte come on, they take it way too far imo it's uncomfortable to watch.

[Kizzy]

Originally Posted by The Mockinator

"My winkie is expanding" and "show me your boobies" and perving over Hazel when she used to sit by him.

After all I wasn't bothered by Sam's sexual nature, but if people are gonna attack Jasmine for the same thing then Sam needs to be attacked also.

I wasn't offended by either example, however there is not much that links the two other than they were both considered inappropriate comments, the intention behind jasmines was to cause controversy I don't believe sams intention was to cause offence.

[reece(:]

I really don't believe Jasmine had any intentions of devious manner tbh, was all drunkness.

[JTM45]

Originally Posted by reece(:

I really don't believe Jasmine had any intentions of devious manner tbh, was all drunkness.

Yeah, i think she's got the "cause a bit of a fuss" bug because that's how she's made a career (if you can call it that!) for herself and she was definitely steaming on the first night so i think it was just a bit of both.
British people are generally a bit more reserved too and i don't think she's spent any time here so she's just a bit out of her normal element.

As you say, i really don't think her intentions were bad at all.

[lime]

Discussing Jasmine now on loose women

[Razor]

Originally Posted by Brother Leon

Charlotte was even worse and Sam spoke about his winky expanding infront of women all the time. Let's not act like she needs to be vilified now when the last two winners were disgusting themselves.

Agreed Charlotte was a total embarrassment and never should of won BB.

[Niamh.]

Originally Posted by Lee.

I think she's as embarrassing as Charlotte was

^ This

the difference is Charlotte had a b/f and she never shagged anyone in the house (granted she probably does it on Geordie shore but that's not what the viewers are watching) I think the fact that A Jasmin is American and B she's probably going to shag Dappy (yuk) on TV is what separates the two

[chuff me dizzy]

Originally Posted by Kizzy

I wasn't offended by either example, however there is not much that links the two other than they were both considered inappropriate comments, the intention behind jasmines was to cause controversy I don't believe sams intention was to cause offence.

Sam was a lovely young lad, very naive,and flattered that the"cougar"fancied him (or pretended she did)Jasmine and Dappy are completely different ,he has children for God sake ,bet they are so proud of Daddy ,and shes a homewrecker, hardly Hansel and Gretel

[Kazanne]

Originally Posted by lime

Discussing Jasmine now on loose women

LOling at Kaye calling her vulgar and Jane Moore not impressed either.