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Stephanie · 14-04-2010, 08:42 PM

more arguing. fun.

WOMBAI · 14-04-2010, 08:45 PM

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Originally Posted by Stephanie

more arguing. fun.

No it isn't Stephanie - the ones involved in this one can keep it civil, I'm sure! So go find your kicks elsewhere!

Rob · 14-04-2010, 08:46 PM

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Originally Posted by Stephanie

more arguing. fun.

tell me about it!

Beastie · 14-04-2010, 08:51 PM

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Originally Posted by Stephanie

more arguing. fun.

It is the norm Steph! Would not be a normal day on TIBB without arguing! It is like a life without breathing.

Lewis. · 14-04-2010, 08:59 PM

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It is the norm Steph! Would not be a normal day on TIBB without arguing! It is like a life without breathing.

I just wish the arguing was about something constructive.. not all of this nonsense about cliques and friendship groups.

Certain members have certain friends on the forum.. that's just the way it is and that is fine. consider a fair few members to be friends. As I have said before, I just think that a certain few selection of members take the forum way too seriously and when an argument does crop up they find it hard to let it go as this forum is like real life to them. I just find that if you ignore it and just not bother with it, then the members who aren't as obsessed with their online friendships will stand out to you and you can chat to them instead. A few members may seem like they are quite popular.. but a lot of that is because they have been on the forum a lot longer and everyone has gotten to know who they are.. 99% of them are lovely members. There will always be a big group of members who seem to be more popular as-well because they are members who regularly post so people get used to who they are and find out more about them as they see their posts more. Most popularity isn't exaggerated by members themselves.. it is just something that comes to them over time. It's just a shame that certain members seem to take this popularity personally and as you said in the OP.. it is a bit silly.

Raph · 14-04-2010, 09:00 PM

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Originally Posted by Lewis.

I just wish the arguing was about something constructive.. not all of this nonsense about cliques and friendship groups.

Certain members have certain friends on the forum.. that's just the way it is and that is fine. consider a fair few members to be friends. As I have said before, I just think that a certain few selection of members take the forum way too seriously and when an argument does crop up they find it hard to let it go as this forum is like real life to them. I just find that if you ignore it and just not bother with it, then the members who aren't as obsessed with their online friendships will stand out to you and you can chat to them instead. A few members may seem like they are quite popular.. but a lot of that is because they have been on the forum a lot longer and everyone has gotten to know who they are.. 99% of them are lovely members. There will always be a big group of members who seem to be more popular as-well because they are members who regularly post so people get used to who they are and find out more about them as they see their posts more. Most popularity isn't exaggerated by members themselves.. it is just something that comes to them over time. It's just a shame that certain members seem to take this popularity personally and as you said in the OP.. it is a bit silly.

wonderfully said, Lewis. And you have an amazing signature!

Stacey. · 14-04-2010, 08:45 PM

i dont mind jedward_fever. not a bad member tbh.

Jords · 14-04-2010, 08:45 PM

I dont think MMI is a peado at all, when she asked for msn's randomly I was a bit weary but nah I think she is who she says she is.

I mean I have her on msn and she seems fine imo.

Mrluvaluva · 14-04-2010, 08:46 PM

Maybe Steph was being sarcastic? Lol.

Rob · 14-04-2010, 08:47 PM

or maybe she's fed of the constant bickering between certain people, i know i am!

Mrluvaluva · 14-04-2010, 08:49 PM

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or maybe she's fed of the constant bickering between certain people, i know i am!

That's what I meant really.

Stacey. · 14-04-2010, 08:48 PM

whats to stop people having discussions though?

i dont see a problem with it!

Rob · 14-04-2010, 08:49 PM

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whats to stop people having discussions though?

i dont see a problem with it!

it's when insults start getting thrown around or an arguement breaks out that it's a problem, and there's been alot of that lately, you know that

Stacey. · 14-04-2010, 08:50 PM

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it's when insults start getting thrown around or an arguement breaks out that it's a problem, and there's been alot of that lately, you know that

yes, all the false **** being said.
people being falsely accused of things, which is always going to happen here.

Rob · 14-04-2010, 08:51 PM

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yes, all the false **** being said.
people being falsely accused of things, which is always going to happen here.

yup, but you don't exactly difuse the situation

Raph · 14-04-2010, 08:55 PM

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yes, all the false **** being said.
people being falsely accused of things, which is always going to happen here.

way to be subtle, Stacey. You falsely accused me of being my brother.
You falsely accused that I 'bullied' MMAI.
You falsely accused that I was 'trying to fit in'.
You falsely accused that I was 'fake, and not 'sweety_samy'.

I had enough and said you might be the same person as MMAI.

I'm so sick of the pleasure you get out of targeting someone and arguing!

Mrluvaluva · 14-04-2010, 08:59 PM

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way to be subtle, Stacey. You falsely accused me of being my brother.
You falsely accused that I 'bullied' MMAI.
You falsely accused that I was 'trying to fit in'.
You falsely accused that I was 'fake, and not 'sweety_samy'.

I had enough and said you might be the same person as MMAI.

I'm so sick of the pleasure you get out of targeting someone and arguing!

Urgh. I give up.

Stacey. · 14-04-2010, 09:07 PM

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Originally Posted by Samy

way to be subtle, Stacey. You falsely accused me of being my brother.
You falsely accused that I 'bullied' MMAI.
You falsely accused that I was 'trying to fit in'.
You falsely accused that I was 'fake, and not 'sweety_samy'.

I had enough and said you might be the same person as MMAI.

I'm so sick of the pleasure you get out of targeting someone and arguing!

and Im not backing down from that Samy.
i still believe there was something funny going on with that whole lot of your familys accounts!!!
You were getting to the stage of bulling, yes. by making her want to leave the forum.
you were agreeing with everything others said which was rude about Jess, so i defended her - but then you accused me of bullying you! which was just a complete turn-around!
i dont 'target' here at all. i can see what youre doing though, and others are falling into believing what your game is.
i have something to pick at you for, it is NOT targeting.

Jack_ · 14-04-2010, 08:50 PM

I think this is a civil argument to be fair.

AlexBigBrother · 14-04-2010, 08:52 PM

sorry for sounding thick but can someone explain what a troll is in this context?

Rob · 14-04-2010, 08:54 PM

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sorry for sounding thick but can someone explain what a troll is in this context?

no-one is a troll in this context

Mrluvaluva · 14-04-2010, 08:57 PM

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sorry for sounding thick but can someone explain what a troll is in this context?

Ther are 2 versions of trolls for me. One creates an account just to provoke people into an argument. The other likes to create an imaginary persona for themselves and become accepted as a "real person" on an internet forum.

Jack_ · 14-04-2010, 09:00 PM

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Originally Posted by Mrluvaluva

Ther are 2 versions of trolls for me. One creates an account just to provoke people into an argument. The other likes to create an imaginary persona for themselves and become accepted as a "real person" on an internet forum.

I concur.