[alex_front2]

Alot of people have said 'Ohh, I feel Aaron is messing with Faye etc'. 'I get the impression he's using Faye' 'Aaron will dump Faye' etc. Forget the guess work and conjecture, can someone specifically give clear examples.

Bare in mind Faye nominated Aaron 3 times, slags him off behind his back, slags him off to his face, never let's him forget the fact that as a single man not then with Faye he kissed Maisy, and she draped herself all over Anton on evening and said 'have you got a semi Anton?'.

Thanks

[JTM45]

He hasn't! In fact she's messed with his head waaaaay more!!!!
BB has gone so far beyond being a joke now i don't think it can possibly be saved.

[crocs]

This is a good question and I'm waiting to hear those examples as well.

[alex_front2]

Anyone?

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[Cromwell1900]

Originally Posted by alex_front2

Anyone?

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Well Aaron non Fans are a rare bread around here be patient, were like the no 49 bus, one will turn up eventually.

[Kazanne]

Faye is messing with his head,she is so needy,the whole family is puddled,and gem,don't even go there!!

[Vicky.]

Seems to be the other way round to me.

Though I still like Faye and think shes just highly emotional rather than doing it on purpose.

[Niamh.]

Originally Posted by Vicky.

Seems to be the other way round to me.

Though I still like Faye and think shes just highly emotional rather than doing it on purpose.

It's no wonder she's such an emotional mess with a family like hers, I feel sorry for her actually

[Pyramid*]

Originally Posted by Niamh.

It's no wonder she's such an emotional mess with a family like hers, I feel sorry for her actually

but she's clearly learning nothing though.

She's behaving in the way in which it appears she has been conditioned to: by berating him, critisising him, acting with him the way Jem acts with her.

You think she'd see the bigger picture here - but she doesn't - she seems to think only of when that type of behaviour affects HER - not how that same behaviour that SHE displays, affects him.

[Vicky.]

Originally Posted by Niamh.

It's no wonder she's such an emotional mess with a family like hers, I feel sorry for her actually

Yeah I know.

I'm glad I have a supportive family, rather than ones who just try to run my life. They dont agree with a lot of my decisions, but realise they are MY mistakes to make, and are just there to pick up the pieces if it all goes wrong. I thought most families were like this :/

[fruit_cake]

Originally Posted by Vicky.

Yeah I know.

I'm glad I have a supportive family, rather than ones who just try to run my life. They dont agree with a lot of my decisions, but realise they are MY mistakes to make, and are just there to pick up the pieces if it all goes wrong. I thought most families were like this :/

you're really lucky Vicky not all families are like that

[Pyramid*]

Originally Posted by Vicky.

Yeah I know.

I'm glad I have a supportive family, rather than ones who just try to run my life. They dont agree with a lot of my decisions, but realise they are MY mistakes to make, and are just there to pick up the pieces if it all goes wrong. I thought most families were like this :/

TBH Vicky, I'd have thought not only most families were like this: but most people who care for someone else, whether families, friends, other loved ones.

We can steer people on a path -but as adults, they are individuals, with their own thoughts, ideas, views, wants, needs and desires and that must be respected. One size does not fit all - that's what families/friends care about - them being there if adn when those times come, to comfort - not the 'be there to berate and make the person feel like crap and want to control'.

[Pyramid*]

Hard as I've tried, I cannot for the life of me see any replies that give solid, concrete reasons or evidence from anyone so far that Aaron has messed with Faye's head........ unless treating her like a responsbile adult when it's due, respecting her, not jumping on her bones when she's pissed, not falling out with her when she's blind drunk but looks after her and makes sure she's in bed before he falls asleep,, doesn't fall out with her or cause a scene when she's pissed & groping other men and trying to get them to kiss her, apologising to her when he feels he has hurt or offended her, and even discussing with other housemates that if it worked out on the outside, he would be able to work from her home town area - if it was serious enough - unless any of that can be regarded as messing with her head.

If anyone is messing - it's her. Not him.

[Tourmaline]

Originally Posted by Pyramid*

Hard as I've tried, I cannot for the life of me see any replies that give solid, concrete reasons or evidence from anyone so far that Aaron has messed with Faye's head........ unless treating her like a responsbile adult when it's due, respecting her, not jumping on her bones when she's pissed, not falling out with her when she's blind drunk but looks after her and makes sure she's in bed before he falls asleep,, doesn't fall out with her or cause a scene when she's pissed & groping other men and trying to get them to kiss her, apologising to her when he feels he has hurt or offended her, and even discussing with other housemates that if it worked out on the outside, he would be able to work from her home town area - if it was serious enough - unless any of that can be regarded as messing with her head.

If anyone is messing - it's her. Not him.

Well said ......I agree

[ibkaz]

Originally Posted by Vicky.

Seems to be the other way round to me.

Though I still like Faye and think shes just highly emotional rather than doing it on purpose.

This

I feel Faye is far to needy, and wants Aaron to express how he feels about her more and it is not happening. They are very awkward with each other when it comes to expressing feelings. I mean she beats round the bush in explaining how she feels and expects Aaron to guess what she is trying to say, and then gets a bit huffy when he not getting the vibes. When he has tried she like 'what you mean?, or oooooooo kaaaay.

I'm afraid the realationship is doomed now, and for anti Aaron fans he is in a no win situation. Faye is in the I don't know what to believe situation. Aaron is like what the .....?

[flamingGalah!]

Aaron has done NOTHING wrong to Faye at all...

And for those nominations to mention that he has, smells more fishy than Jay's fingers after his night with Louise... The friends/relatives have only seen the broadcast hi-lights that we have all seen, so either they were lying, were told to nominate him, or have had access to 24 hour live feed where Aaron has been treating Faye apallingly... Hmmm...

[jet]

Aaron has done NOTHING wrong to Faye at all...

Good Lord. You couldn't make this stuff up.

[flamingGalah!]

Originally Posted by jet

Good Lord. You couldn't make this stuff up.

Please give an example to what he has done wrong then??!!??

[fruit_cake]

he jumped into bed with Maisy after telling her he really liked her on that date thing..he ignore her the other day just after she told him how much she loved him.

but it's all ok now he's stood up for her and he's there for her! Faye and Aaron 4ever!

[alex_front2]

Originally Posted by fruit_cake

he jumped into bed with Maisy after telling her he really liked her on that date thing..he ignore her the other day just after she told him how much she loved him.

Let's break this down.

1. He jumped into bed with Maisy after date. Yes and Faye made it clear that she didn't fancy Aaron and that she saw him as a geek and bit of a joke. She also fancied Jay back then but he turned her down. After the date she mocked Aaron romantically, ridiculed him with Tom for not speaking dirty and even offered to help him come out as gay.

1. Ignored her when she declared her love - Aaron was deep in conversation with Tom and Faye was just jumping in like an attention-seeking toddler. He can speak to other people and she needs to realise that Aaron's life doesn't evolve around pleasing her. In the real world Aaron has a 6 year old, he doesn't need another one. That's not messing with her head, that's putting her in her place and telling her to grow the ******* up!!!

[Marmalite]

Faye's pretty emotionally immature and extremely high maintenance and I take my hat off to Aaron for lasting this long!

[Vicky.]

In my honest opinion...Fayes mother and sister have made her look more of a fool than Aaron could have ever done.

They have basically told the world that at 21 she is incapable of making her own decisions...still needing mummy and big sis' backing for everything. Fayes mum had to wait like 2 weeks to tell her daughter her concerns, not do it on TV where 1m ish people will see. Shes kinda made her a laughing stock :/

[Pyramid*]

Originally Posted by Vicky.

In my honest opinion...Fayes mother and sister have made her look more of a fool than Aaron could have ever done.

They have basically told the world that at 21 she is incapable of making her own decisions...still needing mummy and big sis's backing for everything. Fayes mum had to wait like 2 weeks to tell her daughter her concerns, not do it on TV where 1m ish people will see. Shes kinda made her a laughing stock :/

yep, hard not to agree with that.

the mother has also shown to the whole BB viewing audience: what type of family Faye has and their influence on her. (as well as Jem).

Let's be honest: it would be enough to send many a half decent bloke running for this hills....... Mrs 'Bates' clearly wants to control her daughters - and they are allowing her to do precisely that.

[Niamh.]

Originally Posted by Vicky.

In my honest opinion...Fayes mother and sister have made her look more of a fool than Aaron could have ever done.

They have basically told the world that at 21 she is incapable of making her own decisions...still needing mummy and big sis' backing for everything. Fayes mum had to wait like 2 weeks to tell her daughter her concerns, not do it on TV where 1m ish people will see. Shes kinda made her a laughing stock :/

Yep. You hit the nail on the head there. You can bet your life, her mothers nomination will have humiliated and hurt her far more than anything that's gone on between her and Aaron.

[jet]

Yes, Faye IS emotionally needy and insecure. Whether she is like this in the outside world I have no idea, but in the house Aaron unfortunately entered into a relationship with her and his odd behaviour towards someone he says he fancies IS messing with her head - and being the way she is, she is reacting to that.
This is only 1 example - when she burped, he rejected her and it almost ended the relationship. How normal is this? How could he possibly let something like that cause someone he cared for to feel disgusting? He goes around shaking his head and sulking over things she does that don’t please him. The overall impression is that he disapproves of her and is only with her because she perseveres. When she is open about her feelings, he is often cold and cagey. He refused to try and mend bridges with Jem, which he would have done if he really cared for Faye. All Aaron really cares about is himself and how HE feels.
He is certainly not aggressive towards her - his actions are subtle and manipulative. If Aaron really wanted her and made her feel cared for, Faye wouldn’t have any reason to be needy and Jem, her mother, the other mothers and many more of us who can see the true dynamics in this relationship would have no inclination to ‘pick’ on Aaron. He is playing her like a cat plays with a mouse - and stupidly she lets him and goes back for more.
I am not a fan of Aaron, obviously. I liked him the first week or two, then I was on to him. I don’t particularly like Faye either, but she is a young girl and Aaron has more experience of the world - he already has a failed marriage behind him. It seems to me that any woman entering into a relationship with him will have to mould herself to be what Aaron wants, or else she will be subjected to his moods and periods of aloofness. This is what people see who are not Aaron fans, and therefore more objective - from what I have observed on the net.