[Retroman]

I think the main point to make is, you may "fancy" someone for the way they write towards you...

But that's only because they're giving you attention.

The fact of the matter is, once you receive a picture you may realise you really don't fancy them, thus making the words they type pointless.

You also haven't a clue who they are, so you could be "fancying" the words of someone twice your age, or someone who is lying about their gender [which has happened here I believe?] and so on.

So in my opinion people may convince themselves they "fancy" someone for what they write, when in reality they're just fond of the positive attention they receive off that person. And as unshallow as you might like to think you are, there's always someone ugly enough out there that you'd never consider going near them =] no matter how charming they are.

[MarkWaldorf]

Originally posted by Sam

I disagree. I think there is a difference between liking some as a friend and fancying someone.

Personally I find it weird fancying someone youve never seen a picture of. There are people on this forum I fancy, but thats because i've seen pictures of them, i couldnt just fancy someone by the way they write.

I believe you can, because then it's admiring their personality and the way they are around you, rather than basing it upon looks. If you know a lot about them, and you're comfortable chatting and being close to them, then that's OK imo.

[Lauren]

I was just going off picture & looks.

[Callum]

Does anyone know the link to the members picture thread?

[Mrluvaluva]

I have tried looking for it, but it seems to have mysteriously disappeared?

[Sunny_01]

Originally posted by MarkChap?!

I believe you can, because then it's admiring their personality and the way they are around you, rather than basing it upon looks. If you know a lot about them, and you're comfortable chatting and being close to them, then that's OK imo.

Nothing weird about it at all, if you meet someone face to face you base your initial thoughts on how they look, then you grow to like them more by what they say and things they do for you.

[GiRTh]

I agree. I fancy Sunny.

[Ann]

Originally posted by Callum
Does anyone know the link to the members picture thread?

callum ive looked through and i can,t find the thread but they have made a new one lol

[Conor]

Only 1...

[:)tom:)]

nope i dont realy know people on here that well

[supernoodles!]

I couldnt really fnacy anyone without getting to know there personality a little bit as well as actually knowing what they look like.
Saying that though I have celebirty crushes,such as Matt Di Angelo who I am actually secretly engaged to but we choose to keep our love life private so thats probably why you have never seen us out together or anything.

[Kate..]

wow intersesting conversations i've been reading lol
i spose i havn't been on here long enough to really get to know people properly lol
I used to think i did but i dont :tounge:

[Captain.Remy]

You can't fancy someone only by some posts ! You have to know the person properly !

[Sam!]

Originally posted by sunshine30
You can't fancy someone only by some posts ! You have to know the person properly !

lol thats what i think

[Captain.Remy]

Message original : Funky Sam

lol thats what i think

Thanks for agreeing !

[Ann]

very well pointed out there Remy i totally agree with you there

[Captain.Remy]

For me, even if you think you do it's just an impression, you think you do but you don't. Some mixes respect/friendship with love or fancying.

[SairBabi92]

Originally posted by Callum
I don't fancy anyone really but Sairbabe is attractive, I must say.

Thanks Callum

[SairBabi92]

Originally posted by Billy
I agreee with Callum, Sairbabe is nice loookin

Thanks Billy

[jamesh]

maybe... lol

[Sam!]

Woop go Sexy Sarah! (Thanks for the comment in the sig

[SairBabi92]

lol. Thanks Sam

I love your banner...how did you make it?

[Sam]

Originally posted by sunshine30
For me, even if you think you do it's just an impression, you think you do but you don't. Some mixes respect/friendship with love or fancying.

Exactly what I think.

There are attractive members on this forum of course. I dont wanna to embarrass anyone by saying members who I have soft spots for

[Sunny_01]

Originally posted by GiRTh
I agree. I fancy Sunny.

mwah xxx

[Loukas]

ok this is going to sound stupid

but i have been talking to members and they explained stuff to me..
anyway i dont fancy anyone i dont think i can i mean i dont no anyone here (apart from kate)

im sorry for acting well wired tonight hormones and stuff

when i get up tomorow morning im going to be different

MAN SOMETIMES I HATE BEING A TEENAGER