[Jamie.]

True, Sam

[Andrew.]

Poor Scott! but if he was distant with his family maybe its not affected him... YET. He did say no one in his family knew he was gay so... he kept alot from them, grew apart?

[Halfwit]

Originally Posted by Andrew.

Poor Scott! but if he was distant with his family maybe its not affected him... YET. He did say no one in his family knew he was gay so... he kept alot from them, grew apart?

playing devils advocate here: what IF his family wasn't very welcoming? we don't know **** what happened in the two hours he wasn't in the house.

[erinp5]

BB have a duty of care and need to be watching Scott closely.Scott must have his reasons for continuing with the show ,I only hope he doesn't end up regreting it.

[Vladimir]

I hope he's gonna talk about it at some point, I would really like to know if they were close, because it's really strange that he decided to stay.

[smeagol]

no way his family didn't know he was gay i mean comon hello lol

[Fenn]

Do we definitely know for a face it was his sister? What was the source?

[pepper2012]

Poor Scott

[spitfire]

Unbelievable. His sister died just a few days ago and he is back in the house perving over Aaron. What a heartless monster.

[Redway]

How did she die, by the way?

[buckfast67uk]

Originally Posted by spitfire

Unbelievable. His sister died just a few days ago and he is back in the house perving over Aaron. What a heartless monster.

100% agree with you. He is a despicable, disgusting inhumane person. Really don't like him, he has a face like a turtle

[Jarvio]

Originally Posted by spitfire

Unbelievable. His sister died just a few days ago and he is back in the house perving over Aaron. What a heartless monster.

But people deal with grief in different ways

[Redway]

Originally Posted by buckfast67uk

100% agree with you. He is a despicable, disgusting inhumane person. Really don't like him, he has a face like a turtle

Originally Posted by spitfire

Unbelievable. His sister died just a few days ago and he is back in the house perving over Aaron. What a heartless monster.

So you're both saying that because people deal with grief in different ways they can be called 'heartless monsters' and 'disgusting'? Is that what you're saying? We cannot have people dealing with grief in the same way - it affects different people in different ways.

[spitfire]

Originally Posted by Redway

So you're saying that because people deal with grief in different ways they can be called 'heartless monsters'? Is that what you're saying?

Yes.

[Redway]

Originally Posted by spitfire

Yes.

That's complete nonsense. Just because you would react a certain way to something doesn't mean that everyone else should and if you're seriously passing that across then I cannot take you seriously. How dare you.

[spitfire]

Originally Posted by Redway

How dare you.

[spitfire]

Originally Posted by Redway

That's complete nonsense. Just because you would react a certain way to something doesn't mean that everyone else should and if you're seriously passing that across then I cannot take you seriously. How dare you.

If you don't want to hear my answer, don't ask me a question.

[Tregard]

Good lord, some of you people obviously have a gross misunderstanding of how grief works. Just because you'd suffer immediately doesn't mean everyone does. He could still be in shock or denial, it can last for days, or weeks, or months. Maybe staying in will help distract him, maybe shifting his focus is how he deals with problems, maybe his family suggested he stay in the house. You don't know how he deals with it, you can't know how he deals with it, and you should be insulting someone like that for dealing with death differently.

[joeysteele]

Originally Posted by Tregard

Good lord, some of you people obviously have a gross misunderstanding of how grief works. Just because you'd suffer immediately doesn't mean everyone does. He could still be in shock or denial, it can last for days, or weeks, or months. Maybe staying in will help distract him, maybe shifting his focus is how he deals with problems, maybe his family suggested he stay in the house. You don't know how he deals with it, you can't know how he deals with it, and you should be insulting someone like that for dealing with death differently.

A very informed and true statement, I recall when My Grandmother died,I was in pieces completely immediately,however some of my family just carried on as if nothing had happened,as you say grief hits people in different ways and also belatedly too.
One member of my family started looking for who was having a party to go and even organised some and still went on holiday, however after a year had passed nearly,it all came to a head and they were crushed and really upset then at that time.

As you pointed out, grief can hit a long time after the event.I hope Scott is okay,he may seem like he is smiling and at ease but none of us can really know the pain he may be feeling inside as he tries to appear to be strong on the outside.

[Jords]

I dont know how he can be tagged a "heartless monster"?

As people have said we all deal with grief differently, but more importantly we do not know the circumstances. Maybe he hated his sister? Maybe she had a long-term illness and they were ready for it and her last wishes were for him to continue?

Nobody knows anything so lets not batter these harsh words about. He seems a nice guy to me and funny and Im glad hes still in there.

[erinp5]

I wonder if he will leave the house for the funeral .

[spitfire]

Originally Posted by erinp5

I wonder if he will leave the house for the funeral .

Not if Aaron is walking around in his boxers.

[erinp5]

Originally Posted by spitfire

Not if Aaron is walking around in his boxers.

[armand.kay]

How do you people know its his sister that died. It was not mentioned in the hls, on bots or by Scott himself.

[spitfire]

Originally Posted by armand.kay

How do you people know its his sister that died. It was not mentioned in the hls, on bots or by Scott himself.

http://www.dailystar.co.uk/playlist/...ister-s-death/