[Pete.]

no one really changes with age

[Black Dagger]

I had to force her to save my photos and make a MSN emoticon of me, that proves she's changed imo.

[Marc]

Fine.

[Gstar]

Ok, this needs to be said before the thread gets deleted

Jessica, you always have to be on the admins/mods side, sometimes a little bit too much, I think you are trying too hard to try and prove something or even get a tibb staff member job. (im not even being rude im just reading so let me continue), I was gonna PM you all of this but the post you just did wasn't really needed and it's a bit of a "haha" to Jordan.

Even when Salman was banned last week you were going on as if you were a tibb staff member and giving your opinions on his ban when nobody asked for it.

That is all

[Glenn.]

Originally Posted by Germyle

Ok, this needs to be said before the thread gets deleted

Jessica, you always have to be on the admins/mods side, sometimes a little bit too much, I think you are trying too hard to try and prove something or even get a tibb staff member job. (im not even being rude im just reading so let me continue), I was gonna PM you all of this but the post you just did wasn't really needed and it's a bit of a "haha" to Jordan.

Even when Salman was banned last week you were going on as if you were a tibb staff member and giving your opinions on his ban when nobody asked for it.

That is all

Zero relevance to the topic and immensely rude IMO

[Gstar]

Originally Posted by Good King Glennceslas

Zero relevance to the topic and immensely rude IMO

arrest me if i'm breaking the law

[Jessica.]

Originally Posted by Germyle

Ok, this needs to be said before the thread gets deleted

Jessica, you always have to be on the admins/mods side, sometimes a little bit too much, I think you are trying too hard to try and prove something or even get a tibb staff member job. (im not even being rude im just reading so let me continue), I was gonna PM you all of this but the post you just did wasn't really needed and it's a bit of a "haha" to Jordan.

Even when Salman was banned last week you were going on as if you were a tibb staff member and giving your opinions on his ban when nobody asked for it.

That is all

I was hated by loads of the mods for a really long time and also, I have never disliked James. Some of the mods are pretty great people who aren't afraid to have a laugh and a joke, so if you think I am going to treat them like superiors then you have got the wrong idea.

Salman deserved his ban and it was funny at the time, I don't understand why are you defending him for posting the picture, I don't dislike Salman but he probably knew something would come about posting something like that on the forum.

[Pete.]

I think that we are stupid to argue about something out of our control -- the mods and admins are the only people who can possibly do anything about this and they have made their position clear. This thread and others are annoying and should be gone quickly

[Marsh.]

No. Keep the stalkers out.

[Vanessa]

Yeah, it's not up to us.

[Jake.]

Still love how people sugar-coat 'Mollie' like some loving, adorable member. That was the avatar and posting style talking. Anybody who plans to meet with somebody, allows them to spend vasts amount of money and ditches them (sorry David, if you don't want this posted I can remove it), isn't a nice person. End of.

[Shaun]

The short answer is no.

The long answer is **** no.

[Jake.]

And as for Stacey, if she's a nice person now (she seems to be so this isn't me running her down), talk to her offline like you have been for the past two years, she was clearly banned on here for a reason.

[Cherie]

Originally Posted by Snowjakes

And as for Stacey, if she's a nice person now (she seems to be so this isn't me running her down), talk to her offline like you have been for the past two years, she was clearly banned on here for a reason.

As were other people who have had their bans overturned, people can and do change, and I think it is a shame to demonise a 15 year old girl.

[Vanessa]

Originally Posted by Cherie

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As were other people who have had their bans overturned, people can and do change, and I think it is a shame to demonise a 15 year old girl.

I agree with that.

[Pete.]

this is so disturbing

[Drew.]

So for those accusing myself, Leon, David or Andy for contacting her family that finally confirms it wasnt us.

[Jake.]

Originally Posted by Santi Claus

So for those accusing myself, Leon, David or Andy for contacting her family that finally confirms it wasnt us.

It was only a few, I wouldn't worry, I think most actually get what happened

[MeMyselfAndI]

Originally Posted by Snowjakes

It was only a few, I wouldn't worry, I think most actually get what happened

I hope you don't mean me, I know what happened, all I said is the group was not innocent & I have print screens too proove it, so I don't think you do actually get it

[Marsh.]

Originally Posted by MeMyselfAndLeona

I hope you don't mean me, I know what happened, all I said is the group was not innocent & I have print screens too proove it, so I don't think you do actually get it

You've got print screens?

Do you really take this forum so seriously?

Some people need to really get a grip. You're holding these print screens for what purpose?

[Me. I Am Salman]

Originally Posted by 08marsh

You've got print screens?

Do you really take this forum so seriously?

Some people need to really get a grip. You're holding these print screens for what purpose?

How is stalking members not a serious issue?

[Jake.]

Originally Posted by MeMyselfAndLeona

I hope you don't mean me, I know what happened, all I said is the group was not innocent & I have print screens too proove it, so I don't think you do actually get it

I meant the people who wasn't sure on the whole thing, if you are, great. Let me ask you something though, if the whole thing disgusts you so much to the point of blaming them for making 'Mollie' leave, why did you continue to talk to the member who actually carried out the actions? Don't answer if you don't want to and it's not me trying to put you on the spot, generally curious.

[MeMyselfAndI]

Originally Posted by Snowjakes

I meant the people who wasn't sure on the whole thing, if you are, great. Let me ask you something though, if the whole thing disgusts you so much to the point of blaming them for making 'Mollie' leave, why did you continue to talk to the member who actually carried out the actions? Don't answer if you don't want to and it's not me trying to put you on the spot, generally curious.

I was banned for 6 months from Feb - Aug
I didn't tallk too that member after the Mollie thing, I blocked them on skype for a few months

[Black Dagger]

Originally Posted by Santi Claus

So for those accusing myself, Leon, David or Andy for contacting her family that finally confirms it wasnt us.

[arista]

Posted by James today :

[What Stacey did was more than just saving pictures posted on the forum as the quoted posts above claim - she had a folder for virtually every active member on the forum, which the forum found out about when she then shared a screenshot with someone else. Not just one or two pictures taken from the Meet the Members thread on this forum, but pictures taken from members' social networking and image account profiles - of people who have never posted pictures on the forum or put a link up to their Facebook or other profiles - and also saved images from group webcam chats.

It was a big invasion of privacy. It involved lots of people - even ones have been on the site from way back and never get into dramas or involved in cliques or anything like that.

How can she be unbanned when so many people were creeped out by it? Even people who were active on the forum then but aren't now - what if they returned and saw that she was back posting. What kind of message does that send out?

Some of you don't seem to understand the harm stuff like this can cause to people.]



I say thanks for giving us the truth
"bigger and bigger
than many of us thought."
And keep up the great work you do here.