[Beso]

Originally Posted by SherzyK

Why is that any of your business?

It's not, which is why I asked.

[Marsh.]

Originally Posted by parmnion

That sounds like you would still have sex with a woman. .

And be able to!!


That's what I don't get.

It's like being able to enjoy cheese and onion crisps and salt and vinegar, but you far prefer salt and vinegar. If given the choice between the two you have a far bigger desire for salt and vinegar.

[Beso]

Originally Posted by Marsh.

It's like being able to enjoy cheese and onion crisps and salt and vinegar, but you far prefer salt and vinegar. If given the choice between the two you have a far bigger desire for salt and vinegar.

That's bi sexual.

[Marsh.]

Originally Posted by parmnion

That's bi sexual.

No, it isn't. If given the choice, he goes for a man every time, that is not bisexual.

[SherzyK]

Originally Posted by parmnion

It's not, which is why I asked.

You’re trying to impose and frankly it’s a bit creepy. Try to speak like that to someone outside of TiBB and they’d knock you sparko

[Beso]

Originally Posted by Twosugars

Parmnion, you seem to underestimate or even ignore the power of mind.

People can do things even against their nature if they believe they should.
Eventually the nature wins but you can fool yourself and others for a time.

A bit like marriage and the love felt I suppose.

[Twosugars]

Originally Posted by parmnion

That's bi sexual.

But for some it's like being able to eat something you don't enjoy.
If everybody around you expected you to enjoy something you'd do your best to convince yourself it's ok to eat. Bc if you dont you will be discriminated against. You want to have trouble free life so you grin and bear and do as others expect you to.

[Glenn.]

Originally Posted by parmnion

That sounds like you would still have sex with a woman. .

And be able to!!


That's what I don't get.

I probably could. But I wouldn’t enjoy it as much so why should I force myself to have sex with women if I don’t enjoy it as much as I do with men?

[Marsh.]

Basically, sexuality is a PREFERENCE. Doesn't mean you are repulsed by everything else.

[Beso]

Originally Posted by Twosugars

But for some it's like being able to eat something you don't enjoy.
If everybody around you expected you to enjoy something you'd do your best to convince yourself it's ok to eat. Bc if you dont you will be discriminated against. You want to have trouble free life so you grin and bear and do as others expect you to.

I get what you are saying, but hang your head in shame the way you described it

Cause I'm having lemon chicken and chips no matter what anyone says.


I.still.don't get what marsh is saying about.given the choice


What if there is only one choice?

Do you have another bite knowing how bad the taste is at the end of the night?

[Beso]

No malice btw.x

[Marsh.]

Originally Posted by parmnion

I get what you are saying, but hang your head in shame the way you described it

Cause I'm having lemon chicken and chips no matter what anyone says.


I.still.don't get what marsh is saying about.given the choice


What if there is only one choice?

Do you have another bite knowing how bad the taste is at the end of the night?

Well, no, because now we're back to not enjoying it at all.

He didn't say he didn't enjoy it. He said he has a PREFERENCE for what he enjoys more.

A preference does not eliminate you being able to enjoy anything else.

[Beso]

Typical men by the sounds of it.

[Twosugars]

Originally Posted by parmnion

I get what you are saying, but hang your head in shame the way you described it

Cause I'm having lemon chicken and chips no matter what anyone says.


I.still.don't get what marsh is saying about.given the choice


What if there is only one choice?

Do you have another bite knowing how bad the taste is at the end of the night?

What if lemon chicken was seen as perversion and all your mates and family looked at you in disgust and didnt want to know you? Bc that's how it was for gays. Would you still tuck in openly?

Not sure I know what you mean about another bite.
I'd imagine women married to closet gays do not enjoy passionate or fulfilling sex life. For those men sex with their wives will be a chore. So infrequent and uninspiring.

[Beso]

Originally Posted by Twosugars

What if lemon chicken was seen as perversion and all your mates and family looked at you in disgust and didnt want to know you? Bc that's how it was for gays. Would you still tuck in openly?


I would tell them all to **** off.






Not sure I know what you mean about another bite.
I'd imagine women married to closet gays do not enjoy passionate or fulfilling sex life. For those men sex with their wives will be a chore. So infrequent and uninspiring.

Ask her to do you, ffs.

[Twosugars]

Missing the point.
Gays want sex with men not with women. The configuration of holes is not the biggest difference between sexes. The whole "feel" is different. You cant swap them like that. It is injustice to both.

Do me? not everyone is a bottom.

[GoldHeart]

Originally Posted by parmnion

They cost money to hide.

Are you going to ignore the fact you said 87 years?!!! , he hasn't been alive that long .

[Cherie]

Originally Posted by Marsh.

Basically, sexuality is a PREFERENCE. Doesn't mean you are repulsed by everything else.

What! I’m really confused now I thought you were born with your sexuality

[Cherie]

Originally Posted by GoldHeart

Are you going to ignore the fact you said 87 years?!!! , he hasn't been alive that long .

It was either a typo or a joke, not to be taken seriously

[Cherie]

Parm, your sig

[Crimson Dynamo]

Originally Posted by Twosugars

I'd imagine women married to closet gays do not enjoy passionate or fulfilling sex life. For those men sex with their wives will be a chore. So infrequent and uninspiring.

infrequent and uninspiring sex is my speciality

[thesheriff443]

Originally Posted by LeatherTrumpet

infrequent and uninspiring sex is my speciality

Ever considered you might be gay?

[Cherie]

Originally Posted by thesheriff443

Ever considered you might be gay?

[thesheriff443]

Gay men can and do have sex with women the same way gay women have sex with men.

So the question is are they bi sexual or going through the motions to keep there secret.

I will also throw in the mix, women faking orgasms.

Basically you are not being honest with the person you are with and they deserve better than being someone’s alibi, you are using a person to hide who you really are.

[Crimson Dynamo]

Originally Posted by thesheriff443

Ever considered you might be gay?

Im coming out when i reach 57 in 2037