[ANTCOLONY]

Bea was wrong
Lisa got bullied into handing over her frosties
Glad hira left
she was just in there for the money

[Vicky.]

LOL at you reckoning lisa was bullied.

[SocietyIsRuined]

They weren't even proper Frosties(tm) they were the cheap Tesco rip off. Not worth having at all.

[Vicky.]

Originally posted by SocietyIsRuined
They weren't even proper Frosties(tm) they were the cheap Tesco rip off. Not worth having at all.

I said exactly the same thing.

Arguing over real frosties is bad, but arguing over 20p a box rabbit food is worse.

[ANTCOLONY]

Originally posted by VickyJ
LOL at you reckoning lisa was bullied.

she was
lisa likes frosties
freddy and the rest were ar**holes for backing up bea's finger pointing

[Twilight]

PMSL at lisa was bullied
But how weird is that i was eating some frosy's when they had that fight

[Vicky.]

Originally posted by ANTCOLONY

she was
lisa likes frosties
freddy and the rest were ar**holes for backing up bea's finger pointing

If you are serious, I pity you.

[ange7]

Originally posted by ANTCOLONY
Bea was wrong
Lisa got bullied into handing over her frosties
Glad hira left
she was just in there for the money

how was bea wrong? .... for sharing her cigs and then expecting selfish Lisa to do the same?
Lol@" Lisa got bullied" ..how ridiculous

[ANTCOLONY]

Originally posted by VickyJ

If you are serious, I pity you.

Bea EXPECTED the frosties
f** her

[Libra]

I thought that it showed everything about Lisa, she was quite happy to ponce fags off Bea all of the previous day, but then wouldn't consider a friendly gesture in return?

And her pitiful "But Bay..I raily loike Frostiz" was cringey.

As Siavash said, Lisa is one selfish woman and Bea was stupid to think she would get a favour from her.

I also loved the way Lisa went into the bedroom all smarmy "Errrmmm Bay, con I av a word in the gardin plays??

Then came out of the bedroom muttering.

Then when they were in the garden she offered Bea the Frosties, shook hands, called it quits, but then told David she's absolutely ripped seven bells out of Bea...

On the other hand, Bea made too big a deal of it and I think she realised that in the end when she said it was pathetic to be arguing over a packet of Frosties.

And it was.

Bea should just have shrugged and said fair enough, then next time Lisa was on the scrounge for fags she should have told her to go forth and multiply.

[Vicky.]

Originally posted by Libra
I thought that it showed everything about Lisa, she was quite happy to ponce fags off Bea all of the previous day, but then wouldn't consider a friendly gesture in return?

And her pitiful "But Bay..I raily loike Frostiz" was cringey.

As Siavash said, Lisa is one selfish woman and Bea was stupid to think she would get a favour from her.

I also loved the way Lisa went into the bedroom all smarmy "Errrmmm Bay, con I av a word in the gardin plays??

Then came out of the bedroom muttering.

Then when they were in the garden she offered Bea the Frosties, shook hands, called it quits, but then told David she's absolutely ripped seven bells out of Bea...

On the other hand, Bea made too big a deal of it and I think she realised that in the end when she said it was pathetic to be arguing over a packet of Frosties.

And it was.

Bea should just have shrugged and said fair enough, then next time Lisa was on the scrounge for fags she should have told her to go forth and multiply.

Yes that would be the best way to deal with it.

Wait for the next time lisa asks her for something and then say no, point blank.

See how she likes it.

[Vicky.]

Originally posted by ANTCOLONY

Bea EXPECTED the frosties
f** her

That still doesnt mean she bullied lisa

[BB22]

As I pointed out in another thread, a lot of people have simply started to lose their grip on what the word "bully" actually means. Bea was in the wrong but the idea that Lisa was bullied is utterly preposterous.

[Jordan.]

Lisa: But i love frosties.

[ange7]

Originally posted by BB22
As I pointed out in another thread, a lot of people have simply started to lose their grip on what the word "bully" actually means. Bea was in the wrong but the idea that Lisa was bullied is utterly preposterous.

why was bea in the wrong?

[ange7]

Originally posted by SPIDERPIG!
Lisa: But i love frosties.

lol

[ANTCOLONY]

Originally posted by BB22
As I pointed out in another thread, a lot of people have simply started to lose their grip on what the word "bully" actually means. Bea was in the wrong but the idea that Lisa was bullied is utterly preposterous.

Lisa got bullied because they all ganged up on her
Bea shared her cigarettes but its the height of bad manners to expect **** in return for SHARING something
and then to bang on about it and get your stupid mates to back you up
lisa WAS bullied

[Twilight]

ANTCOLONY are you drunk?

[BB22]

Originally posted by ange7

why was bea in the wrong?

If you gift someone something of your own free will then I feel it is inappropriate and impolite to openly demand a repayment and to complain when, having put them on the spot, someone says no. If one feels very strongly about it then one might discuss it with the person in private but I think the most appropriate course of action is simply to keep one's own counsel and take the sequence of events into account in one's further dealings with the person.

I think Lisa is vile quite generally but Bea simply behaved inappropriately, in my view.

[ANTCOLONY]

Originally posted by Twilight
ANTCOLONY are you drunk?

im just saying what happened and showing up the popular gang for being ar**holes

[BB22]

Originally posted by ANTCOLONY

Lisa got bullied because they all ganged up on her
Bea shared her cigarettes but its the height of bad manners to expect **** in return for SHARING something
and then to bang on about it and get your stupid mates to back you up
lisa WAS bullied

I am afraid your recollection of events seems somewhat clouded. And I stand by my original post. As I said, people are losing their grip on the meaning of the word quite generally.

[Vicky.]

Originally posted by BB22

If you gift someone something of your own free will then I feel it is inappropriate and impolite to openly demand a repayment and to complain when, having put them on the spot, someone says no. If one feels very strongly about it then one might discuss it with the person in private but I think the most appropriate course of action is simply to keep one's own counsel and take the sequence of events into account in one's further dealings with the person.

I think Lisa is vile quite generally but Bea simply behaved inappropriately, in my view.

Quite depends on the circumstances i think. did we see bea giving lisa the tobacco? I mean, lisa MAY have said something like 'Il give you anything if you give me summit to smoke'

In this case, bea was in the right expecting something back.

And in general, it is common courtesy...though people dont ask outright usually.

[BB22]

Originally posted by VickyJ

Quite depends on the circumstances i think. did we see bea giving lisa the tobacco? I mean, lisa MAY have said something like 'Il give you anything if you give me summit to smoke'

In this case, bea was in the right expecting something back.

And in general, it is common courtesy...though people dont ask outright usually.

I kind of agree, it is common courtesy to make some return. However, I just don't think it is appropriate to make such a blunt demand. If she had asked me for the bloody frosties I personally would have taken into account her earlier behaviour and given them to her, But if I would prefer to pay her back in some other way, perhaps in kind with tobacco, I would feel it within my rights to say so and I would feel that it was inappropriate of her to keep pressing the issue and definitely inappropriate to make a fuss about it with other people.

[shash]

I could not help laughing at the surrealism of the conversation every time they mentioned Frosties. Now, if only they had been arguing about Coco-Pops

[ange7]

Originally posted by BB22

If you gift someone something of your own free will then I feel it is inappropriate and impolite to openly demand a repayment and to complain when, having put them on the spot, someone says no. If one feels very strongly about it then one might discuss it with the person in private but I think the most appropriate course of action is simply to keep one's own counsel and take the sequence of events into account in one's further dealings with the person.

I think Lisa is vile quite generally but Bea simply behaved inappropriately, in my view.

yeah agree that it's poor form to expect a fav returned but in the bb house there's an understanding that it can be a house of sharing or a house of people looking out for number one. Lisa likes the "sharing" house when she is receiving but not when she has a chance to give. Bea didn't demand anything...she just said she was surprised that Lisa could be selfish after Bea gave her a whole bunch of tobacco to make her cigs. Anyway I can't see why Bea is wrong here.