[InOne]

Well if anyone has had the pain of love they will know what this thread is about. It's not good. Getting you heart broken makes you think love does not exist, do you not think?

[Niamh.]

aawww, poor you

[bansheewails]

A heart break hotel thread for the love bereft!

[Novo]

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[Niamh.]

'tis better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all................

[MassiveTruck]

[rquote=2594347&tid=147926&author=Niamhxo]'tis better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all................[/rquote]

Yeah...

Don't you look back at your relationships with fondness? I do.

I guess it's different from person to person and what they aim to find in a relationship but I look back with fondness over all.

[Niamh.]

Every broken relationship teaches you something to make your next one better

[Jackie]

Thanks for starting this thread only this week i've decided to seperate from my husband after 21 years loads of issues that i won't go into i have one song on my mind which is "Too late to apoligize"

[Niamh.]

[rquote=2595076&tid=147926&author=jackie46]Thanks for starting this thread only this week i've decided to seperate from my husband after 21 years loads of issues that i won't go into i have one song on my mind which is "Too late to apoligize"[/rquote]

wow, 21 years! That's got to have been a tough decision to have made

[arsenalforever]

Especially when your still in love with the person who did the dumping
My last Gf who broke up with me was in my Film Studies class and damn i saw her everyday and she got with another guy in class. That was a killer

[Niamh.]

[rquote=2595118&tid=147926&author=arsenalforever]Especially when your still in love with the person who did the dumping
My last Gf who broke up with me was in my Film Studies class and damn i saw her everyday and she got with another guy in class. That was a killer[/rquote]

aaww, thats terrible, you can't get over someone if you have to see them everyday

[arsenalforever]

[rquote=2595125&tid=147926&author=Niamhxo][rquote=2595118&tid=147926&author=arsenalforever]Especially when your still in love with the person who did the dumping
My last Gf who broke up with me was in my Film Studies class and damn i saw her everyday and she got with another guy in class. That was a killer[/rquote]

aaww, thats terrible, you can't get over someone if you have to see them everyday[/rquote]

especially when you can't stand each other and its so uneasy ut loking back on it, it's funny.

[Niamh.]

Yeah, I suppose so, my parents have to work together and they are separated 4 years after being married 30, a bit uncomfortable at times....

[arsenalforever]

[rquote=2595146&tid=147926&author=Niamhxo]Yeah, I suppose so, my parents have to work together and they are separated 4 years after being married 30, a bit uncomfortable at times....[/rquote]

thats tough

i wouldn't be able to do it
its uncomfortable to be in the middle of people who broke
sometimes they want you to pick sides

[Niamh.]

[rquote=2595161&tid=147926&author=arsenalforever][rquote=2595146&tid=147926&author=Niamhxo]Yeah, I suppose so, my parents have to work together and they are separated 4 years after being married 30, a bit uncomfortable at times....[/rquote]

thats tough

i wouldn't be able to do it
its uncomfortable to be in the middle of people who broke
sometimes they want you to pick sides
[/rquote]

well, it was very easy to pick sides in my case!! Though I wasn't expected to!

[arsenalforever]

[rquote=2595169&tid=147926&author=Niamhxo][rquote=2595161&tid=147926&author=arsenalforever][rquote=2595146&tid=147926&author=Niamhxo]Yeah, I suppose so, my parents have to work together and they are separated 4 years after being married 30, a bit uncomfortable at times....[/rquote]

thats tough

i wouldn't be able to do it
its uncomfortable to be in the middle of people who broke
sometimes they want you to pick sides
[/rquote]

well, it was very easy to pick sides in my case!! Though I wasn't expected to![/rquote]

my parents have been happily married for 35 years so i'm happy i didn't end up been in that situation.

i had a bad situation when my best friend's wife left him for my cousin.
i tell you that was real bad

[Niamh.]

Really?? Oh, that must have been very awkward for you. My dad had an affair with a girl the same age as my younger brother, so, needless to say, I took my moms side

[arsenalforever]

[rquote=2595177&tid=147926&author=Niamhxo]Really?? Oh, that must have been very awkward for you. My dad had an affair with a girl the same age as my younger brother, so, needless to say, I took my moms side[/rquote]

That must of been tough for your mum. i wouldn't blame you feeling like that. what age was your brother?

My cousin didn't feel sorry either did my best friends wife
christ they always come for christmas dinner we have with the whole family. we always try very hard to avoid one another. Its funy but so uncomfortable

[Niamh.]

Very tough, but she's such a strong woman, I have unbelievable respect for her. My dad was 51 and this girl was 24. They're living together now (though he did try to get back with my mom after but she wasn't having any of it).

I don't understand people like that, I can't imagine how people can be so cruel to not even seem to feel bad afterwards

[arsenalforever]

[rquote=2595191&tid=147926&author=Niamhxo]Very tough, but she's such a strong woman, I have unbelievable respect for her. My dad was 51 and this girl was 24. They're living together now (though he did try to get back with my mom after but she wasn't having any of it).

I don't understand people like that, I can't imagine how people can be so cruel to not even seem to feel bad afterwards[/rquote]

For older men having a young woman chase after them makes them feel young again and they think they have to relieve their youth again. Some of those young girls are usually with them cause

a) they have daddy issue's
or
b) they want a sugar Daddy

i was shocked thast his mum seemed okay with it but it spilt the family in terms of inviting him and her to family functions.

[Niamh.]

[rquote=2595198&tid=147926&author=arsenalforever][rquote=2595191&tid=147926&author=Niamhxo]Very tough, but she's such a strong woman, I have unbelievable respect for her. My dad was 51 and this girl was 24. They're living together now (though he did try to get back with my mom after but she wasn't having any of it).

I don't understand people like that, I can't imagine how people can be so cruel to not even seem to feel bad afterwards[/rquote]

For older men having a young woman chase after them makes them feel young again and they think they have to relieve their youth again. Some of those young girls are usually with them cause

a) they have daddy issue's
or
b) they want a sugar Daddy

i was shocked thast his mum seemed okay with it but it spilt the family in terms of inviting him and her to family functions.[/rquote]

Well, I have my hubby warned that if he decides to have a mid-life crisis, buy a sports car ffs!!! Course I always tell him that he's waaaaay older than me anyway so he doesn't need a younger girl haha!

[arsenalforever]

your hubby is right about the Sports car

It seems less rare these days seen older guys with younger girls
cause they take these older guys clubbing with them. I'm shocked cause here in Dublin a few years back it was so shocking but now everyones cool with it

[Niamh.]

[rquote=2595215&tid=147926&author=arsenalforever] your hubby is right about the Sports car

It seems less rare these days seen older guys with younger girls
cause they take these older guys clubbing with them. I'm shocked cause here in Dublin a few years back it was so shocking but now everyones cool with it[/rquote]

haha, my hubby is only 5 years older than me really. I do think 27 years (in my dads case) is a bit much. My dad is a grandad ffs!!

[arsenalforever]

[rquote=2595221&tid=147926&author=Niamhxo][rquote=2595215&tid=147926&author=arsenalforever] your hubby is right about the Sports car

It seems less rare these days seen older guys with younger girls
cause they take these older guys clubbing with them. I'm shocked cause here in Dublin a few years back it was so shocking but now everyones cool with it[/rquote]

haha, my hubby is only 5 years older than me really. I do think 27 years (in my dads case) is a bit much. My dad is a grandad ffs!![/rquote]

my Gf is 19 and i'm 26 but its not a big matter for us

i wouldn't like to know my dad was with a girl i was older then

[Tom]

relationships are just stupid