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Old 17-07-2010, 02:44 PM #1
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Every time anyone has a go at Ben they never let him talk, has anyone noticed that? People keep going on at him but I can't think of a single time he's randomly thrown out an insult for no reason at all.
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Every time anyone has a go at Ben they never let him talk, has anyone noticed that? People keep going on at him but I can't think of a single time he's randomly thrown out an insult for no reason at all.
My opinion is he does it in such a clever way, that it does not always come across as an insult. He patronises and tried to put words/thought in peoples head, beside once Ben gets the chance to talk he does not shut up!!!!!
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Every time anyone has a go at Ben they never let him talk, has anyone noticed that? People keep going on at him but I can't think of a single time he's randomly thrown out an insult for no reason at all.
its because if they are in the wrong over him they dont let him speak so they dont get told whats what.
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How dare people say all Ben does is bitch Keever and ratboy have been at it for ages in the bathroom on LF,lets see if that gets mentioned,i think Ben can talk to most people it's just the ignoramouses like ratboy that cannot stand the truth
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They shout him down because they can not equal his capacity for speaking. A lot of halwits really do believe that those who shouts loudest are in the right, when actually the opposite normally applies.
He is not aggressive or even very assertive, he really should walk away a little earlier than he does.
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Because they know if he starts talking he wont stop untill the next day
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I certainly don't get the impression that everyone talks over him. He would follow them around the house until he had his say.
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It may be because they have listened to Ben harp on in the past.

Ben employs two tactics when arguing, waffling on forever is a good tactic, the other person gives Ben a good listening to then loses the will to live in some cases.

However his best and most effective tactic is to ignore what the other person is talking about or at most giving it minimal acknowledgement then attack some facet of the person criticising him so as to put them on the defensive.

Both tactics divert the argument from the original issue and the criticism of Ben who walks off away from the argument with the other participant wondering what happened.
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Because they know if he starts talking he wont stop untill the next day
A fun glib answer tho Shasown gave a better analysis!
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A fun glib answer tho Shasown gave a better analysis!
Well to Shasown.

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Agree with the OP. I'm both a Ben and JJ fan.

But last night JJ kept interrupting when Ben was speaking during the row and then minutes later, Ben butted in just the once and JJ said...

"Are you gonna let me talk? Or you going to talk over me?"
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Ben stops talking and gives an innocent look every so often during the conversation. this makes the other person look like the bad guy
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Well to Shasown.

Not my fault Im not very smart
I never said that - think your answer was better my pal - short and to the point!
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My opinion is he does it in such a clever way, that it does not always come across as an insult. He patronises and tried to put words/thought in peoples head, beside once Ben gets the chance to talk he does not shut up!!!!!
Oh of course, that would be it It's not Ben's fault he's in the house with a bunch of morons.
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Because they know if he starts talking he wont stop untill the next day
At least he has something interesting to say, unlike the inane crap that comes out of the mouths of most of those ignoramuses in there.
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Agree with the OP. I'm both a Ben and JJ fan.

But last night JJ kept interrupting when Ben was speaking during the row and then minutes later, Ben butted in just the once and JJ said...

"Are you gonna let me talk? Or you going to talk over me?"
well i lol on that one.
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its because if they are in the wrong over him they dont let him speak so they dont get told whats what.
jedward beware of those 'GERMS'
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jedward beware of those 'GERMS'
yeah im gonna be attacked by them now lol.
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Hes just bored them all rigid with his story of Bette Davis
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see the germs are coming on to attack ben.
I hope the use of the word Germs isn't referring to fellow members on here who are fans of John James, because that's against the forum rules.
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really because people have had the piss took out of them for liking ben so no it cant be.
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At least he has something interesting to say, unlike the inane crap that comes out of the mouths of most of those ignoramuses in there.
How is it intresting know? Its the same crap all the time, Oh JJ is this, ooh mario is this, the guy needs to grow some bloody balls and tell them waht he thinks.

If you find his constant moaning intresting, you keep listening to him, me on the other hand would rather listen to steve snore.... now thats intresting
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How is it intresting know? Its the same crap all the time, Oh JJ is this, ooh mario is this, the guy needs to grow some bloody balls and tell them waht he thinks.

If you find his constant moaning intresting, you keep listening to him, me on the other hand would rather listen to steve snore.... now thats intresting
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