[jaq7uk]

is nicky trying to get sympathy vote. talking tonight about it and only time put weight on

i think its awful what she has been through and wish her all the best, but is b b the place to do it????

[Mac Hiavellian]

Ofcourse it's a sympathy tactic. She just doesn't have Pete to cling on to this time so she's bringing her illness in to it

[stonedape]

If it is a sympathy tactic I'm glad Nikki brought it up, because I wasn't aware of her eating disorder from 9, social isolation from 9, etc. Nikki makes a lot more sense physically and emotionally to me now.

[ThisIsMarie]

I don't think it's tacticle at all.

I think she's much more grown up, is in a much better place with it all now and has a much better understanding of it. And therefore is able to talk about now and wasn't able to in such a way back in BB7.




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And btw, it's came up like twice, how exactly is than constant!

[Kerry]

She's anorexic. Her weight will consume her every thought. It's a mental illness.

[lou.85]

I think it is difficult for people that haven't suffered an eating disorder to understand how hard it is to overcome it. The fact that had such severe anorexia and has overcome it and has used her fame to help people and raise awareness is such an amazing thing to do. Whatever people might think of her she is an inspiration and i don't believe she would ever use that as a sympathy vote. You can tell she she is just very emotional about it but in a good way. I think she is finally happy and that is lovely too see as she could have died.

[Shardlake]

Originally Posted by stonedape

If it is a sympathy tactic I'm glad Nikki brought it up, because I wasn't aware of her eating disorder from 9, social isolation from 9, etc. Nikki makes a lot more sense physically and emotionally to me now.

Lots of people grow up with illnesses/things wrong with them/spending large parts of their childhood in and out of hospitals (me included), it does not automatically make you act like a spoilt child at nearly 30 years of age. She is just a manipulative, immature woman who is scared of having to face the real world when BB dies and she cant make a living from throwing tantrums anymore.

Her recent 'poor me outbursts' of which there have been two this week, were overly exagerated and fake. There was not one single tear, if she was upset she would be actually crying...its an act, same as everything else she does.

[ThisIsMarie]

I disagree completely.

Not lots of people! At all! Not in comparison to the amount that haven't. Which is irrelevant anyway, her experience is still the same.

While being obviously very awful, of course going through stuff like that can be done without being traumatized and deeply, deeply effected. But some times that is just completely impossible. And there are so, so many variables that determine that you couldn't possibly know to what level if affected her.
And can't possibly say that she is the way acts the way she does through choice and not as a consequence of her life.

[Jase.]

I like how some people type like they KNOW Nikki. What an absolute failure

[ThisIsMarie]

At no point did I even slighty indicate that.
I know the situation not her.

[Jase.]

Originally Posted by ThisIsMarie

At no point did I even slighty indicate that.
I know the situation not her.

I'm not talking about you

[Shardlake]

Originally Posted by ThisIsMarie

I disagree completely.

Not lots of people! At all! Not in comparison to the amount that haven't. Which is irrelevant anyway, her experience is still the same.

While being obviously very awful, of course going through stuff like that can be done without being traumatized and deeply, deeply effected. But some times that is just completely impossible. And there are so, so many variables that determine that you couldn't possibly know to what level if affected her.
And can't possibly say that she is the way acts the way she does through choice and not as a consequence of her life.

So you genuinely believe that she is the way she is purely because she was in hospital during her childhood?

I know grown adults who survived things like luekemia and cancer as children, who are perfectly well adjusted adults who cant stand Niki trying to use her childhood as a bloody excuse, essentially for being a twat.

This is what annoys me, so many of her 'fans' will lap this bull **** up and go awww bless her, so THATS why she acts like a child all is forgiven Niki.

bollox

[ThisIsMarie]

Originally Posted by Ja$e

I'm not talking about you

Oh, really?

Sorry then!

Originally Posted by Shardlake

So you genuinely believe that she is the way she is purely because she was in hospital during her childhood?

I know grown adults who survived things like luekemia and cancer as children, who are perfectly well adjusted adults who cant stand Niki trying to use her childhood as a bloody excuse, essentially for being a twat.

This is what annoys me, so many of her 'fans' will lap this bull **** up and go awww bless her, so THATS why she acts like a child all is forgiven Niki.

bollox

They are completely different I'm talking about psycological illnesses.

I do completly see your point but I don't think she behaves that badly and most importantly she's a nice, caring person, she's not nasty or malicous with it, she just likes to have things her way.

[Jase.]

How some people talk like what they are saying is fact is both cringe-worthy AND deluded. Wow. Awful. Just awful.

[Shardlake]

Originally Posted by ThisIsMarie

Oh, really?

Sorry then!


They are completely different I'm talking about psycological illnesses.

I do completly see your point but I don't think she behaves that badly and most importantly she's a nice, caring person, she's not nasty or malicous with it, she just likes to have things her way.

Which makes her selfish, self centered and not a very nice person. Women seeing this cow as some kind of 'inspiration' and role model is almost as bad as people looking up to Josie who just laid in bed for 10 weeks.

[Jase.]

Originally Posted by Shardlake

Which makes her selfish, self centered and not a very nice person. Women seeing this cow as some kind of 'inspiration' and role model is almost as bad as people looking up to Josie who just laid in bed for 10 weeks.

[Shardlake]

Originally Posted by Ja$e

I look forward to a world where you can argue a point and make a post worthy of someone over 5 years old.

You call me a troll, you want to take a look in the mirror.

If you have NOTHING to add to an argument then dont reply!

[Jase.]

Originally Posted by Shardlake

I look forward to a world where you can argue a point and make a post worthy of someone over 5 years old.

You call me a troll, you want to take a look in the mirror.

If you have NOTHING to add to an argument then dont reply!

You're SUCH a fabulous cure for insomnia!!

[Shardlake]

Originally Posted by Ja$e

You're SUCH a fabulous cure for insomnia!!

lovely

can you stop following me around on here now please and troll someone else

Danke

[Jase.]

Originally Posted by Shardlake

lovely

can you stop following me around on here now please and troll someone else

Danke

LMFAO. You are a PIECE of work.

Anyway...

[Shardlake]

Originally Posted by Ja$e

LMFAO. You are a PIECE of work.

Anyway...

you're on ignore


enjoy the final

[Jase.]

Originally Posted by Shardlake

you're on ignore


enjoy the final

And you're STILL replying? Go to bed or something.

[stonedape]

Originally Posted by Shardlake

Lots of people grow up with illnesses/things wrong with them/spending large parts of their childhood in and out of hospitals (me included), it does not automatically make you act like a spoilt child at nearly 30 years of age. She is just a manipulative, immature woman who is scared of having to face the real world when BB dies and she cant make a living from throwing tantrums anymore.

Her recent 'poor me outbursts' of which there have been two this week, were overly exagerated and fake. There was not one single tear, if she was upset she would be actually crying...its an act, same as everything else she does.

Yeah, I never said that because she had an eating disorder and was institutionalized from early on, now she's totally explained. Nikki looks and acts like a little girl and is so eccentric it's hard to believe. It's clear there is emotional and physical stunted growth, and an eating disorder helps explain just a little bit of that. Who knows what other circumstances caused what is now Nikki Grahame.

I don't really give two ****s about your hospital problems and how emotionally and physically recovered you are in comparison to Nikki: everyone deals with it differently, you aren't Nikki and I doubt you had an eating disorder, so quit playing expert just because you don't like Nikki. I say this as someone excessively neutral on Nikki.

[Shardlake]

Originally Posted by stonedape

Yeah, I never said that because she had an eating disorder and was institutionalized from early on, now she's totally explained. Nikki looks and acts like a little girl and is so eccentric it's hard to believe. It's clear there is emotional and physical stunted growth, and an eating disorder helps explain just a little bit of that. Who knows what other circumstances caused what is now Nikki Grahame.

I don't really give two ****s about your hospital problems and how emotionally and physically recovered you are in comparison to Nikki: everyone deals with it differently, you aren't Nikki and I doubt you had an eating disorder, so quit playing expert just because you don't like Nikki. I say this as someone excessively neutral on Nikki.

I dont give two ****s about her hospital problems either, and I find her using it to gain a sympathy vote offensive. A strong willed mature, intelligent adult who had been through what she apparently has would use her experience to show show how she came through it a stronger person and have a desire to help other people overcome similar issues.

But oh no it's all about Niki and what she wants, because she's so special, **** everyone else.

She's a self centred selfish bitch.

End.

[stonedape]

Originally Posted by Shardlake

I dont give two ****s about her hospital problems either, and I find her using it to gain a sympathy vote offensive. A strong willed mature, intelligent adult who had been through what she apparently has would use her experience to show show how she came through it a stronger person and have a desire to help other people overcome similar issues.

But oh no it's all about Niki and what she wants, because she's so special, **** everyone else.

She's a self centred selfish bitch.

End.

She is kind of special, I think it's her vocal delivery. And I fully admit she's self-centered and relatively bitchy, and as I've already admitted in both of my previous posts she has tons of emotional problems. I just don't care. If anything, it's a positive. I watch the show for entertainment, not witch hunts.

And ending your argument with "End." makes you look like a douche. Not that you are one, of course.