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View Poll Results: Would you date your Friends ex? | ||||||
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26-04-2011, 03:42 PM | #1 | ||
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Another question I want to discuss on TIBB.
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26-04-2011, 03:43 PM | #2 | |||
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If they're okay with it.
And as long as you feel okay with it. Depends on how the relationship ended I guess. |
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26-04-2011, 03:45 PM | #3 | |||
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No.
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26-04-2011, 03:45 PM | #4 | |||
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If they're ok with it then I dont see why not
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26-04-2011, 03:48 PM | #5 | |||
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Depends if you still want the friend.
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26-04-2011, 03:49 PM | #6 | ||
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I believe it is No.
I mean anyone can say "they are okay with it" but I would still believe that it would ruin a friendship. |
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26-04-2011, 03:49 PM | #7 | |||
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Yeah, I agree. People can claim they're alright but if they ever really loved the ex-partner it's going to be too difficult usually.
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26-04-2011, 03:51 PM | #8 | ||
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It would also be wierd.
Going out etc. as you whould be with their ex. |
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26-04-2011, 03:54 PM | #9 | |||
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Jessica Meuse was robbed.
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I think you would be betraying your friend if you slept with there ex partner.
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26-04-2011, 03:55 PM | #10 | ||
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26-04-2011, 03:56 PM | #11 | ||
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If the shoe was on the other foot I'd be fine with it, When a relationship ends there's no point in wallowing about it. I'd just be happy for my friend and wsh them the best. We don't live in some glossy American teen drama so why bother acting like we do?
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26-04-2011, 03:57 PM | #12 | ||
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I would feel backstabbed and it would cause me to become suspicious as if they had an affair when they where together etc. |
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26-04-2011, 04:01 PM | #13 | |||
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Umm after a while and, like others have said, if they're genuinely alright with it.
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26-04-2011, 04:02 PM | #14 | ||
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So if they said No they where not alright with it you would not continue with the relationship.
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26-04-2011, 04:03 PM | #15 | |||
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My answer to the poll question is no, I personally wouldn't date a friends ex partner.
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26-04-2011, 04:07 PM | #16 | ||
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What's the point of ruining someone else's happiness just because of a little unfounded and pointless paranoia? |
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26-04-2011, 04:10 PM | #17 | ||
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No, I would not. You would betray your friend and then the relationship would not work out. A friend would expect the other not to do that!!!!! |
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26-04-2011, 04:10 PM | #18 | |||
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You would always be wondering if they always fancied each other when you were together.
I definitely wouldn't be ok with it, an I'd never go with a friends ex either. |
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26-04-2011, 04:12 PM | #19 | ||
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26-04-2011, 04:13 PM | #20 | ||
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Why would you make it an ultimatum though? It's just stupidly irrational. It's not cheating so why would you waste your time getting upset over it? To me it's just projecting your own issues onto other people.
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26-04-2011, 04:17 PM | #21 | ||
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IMO if a friend did that to me then they were not a friend in the first place. How is that "projecting issues" onto others. |
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26-04-2011, 04:18 PM | #22 | |||
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Mr XcX is actually right on this one
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26-04-2011, 04:22 PM | #23 | ||
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If you so willingly throw away friendships because you don't like who your friend is going out with then you won't have many in the long run. What I mean by projecting is that your putting all your suspicion and paranoia on them to taint what they have for no reason other then jealousy. It's just very childish I think.
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26-04-2011, 04:23 PM | #24 | |||
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Jessica Meuse was robbed.
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Exactly Mr XCX.
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26-04-2011, 04:26 PM | #25 | |||
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Generally speaking no unless they weren't seeing them very long and had no feelings what so ever for them
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