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Old 17-01-2012, 08:49 PM #26
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I never found a problem being sober in a social situation. Even as a fairly heavy drinker every so often I'll end up out dry for the night and to be honest it's more of less the same. You get to be the quickest person in the room and you'll wake up far easier than everyone the next morning and remember all their filthy, retarded secrets they told you the night before.

I'd go stir crazy if I stayed in all the time. I'm a total nerd at heart and could easily stay in watching telly all day, every day but it comes with this nullifying sense of going absoloutely nowhere.
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A good read, something a lot of people here could probably relate to. Nicely done
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A good read, something a lot of people here could probably relate to. Nicely done
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social situations do get easier as you get older, when I was a teenager I used to be absolutely terrified of everything, now I'm just rather nervous
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Your blog is pretty awesome. That's really smart of you to start a blog to overcome it.

I think I have a mild form of social anxiety. I will do anything to avoid situations in which I have to go somewhere with new people or something similar to that. I hate meeting new people too and being left alone with them. I just try to avoid situations that have any potential to be awkward. It's hard to explain.
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Your blog is pretty awesome. That's really smart of you to start a blog to overcome it.

I think I have a mild form of social anxiety. I will do anything to avoid situations in which I have to go somewhere with new people or something similar to that. I hate meeting new people too and being left alone with them. I just try to avoid situations that have any potential to be awkward. It's hard to explain.
im glad you like it im surprised how many people have had it, i thought i was he only weird child! aha!

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bit of a pointless post, but had to get it off me chest: updated blog entry: http://anxiousandawkward.blogspot.com/
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That was a good read Andrew.
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New post - 'I Have Lost Myself' please read x

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and thanks once again for the support, it means a lot!
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If you're not happy, and it sounds that you're not, it's natural that you will 'go back' or retreat to a time when you did feel happy, which is when you we're younger. But it's important to keep a perspective too, you can't remain a child forever. You have to deal with who you are now and work out how to adapt to the present and your present difficulties. I know that might sound obvious, but it's important to take what you have learned in the past and use it to help yourself now
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If you're not happy, and it sounds that you're not, it's natural that you will 'go back' or retreat to a time when you did feel happy, which is when you we're younger. But it's important to keep a perspective too, you can't remain a child forever. You have to deal with who you are now and work out how to adapt to the present and your present difficulties. I know that might sound obvious, but it's important to take what you have learned in the past and use it to help yourself now
yeah you have a point there, i dont deal with change very well :/

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stop listening to lady gaga i think that will help

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