[alex_front2]

I know they were too busy awaiting their own
fates when Deana topped votes but when Brian
said they 'd find out later and I switched to LF on
5* they didnt even grimmace a fake 'well done' smile
let alone look in her direction. All I saw was Conor
looking baffled and Arrob saying the public are mad etc.

[waterhog]

did you really think conor and arron would have the graciousness to admit defeat and see that they have behaved wrong ? i don't think so sunny jim.

[AshesonMars]

Given how vile they have been towards her and how much they've both slagged her off, I'm not really surprised they didn't. To be fair, it would have made them look two faced. Conor may be thick, but he's not that thick.

[joeysteele]

I think being made to wait for an hour before being told if you were staying or going after being up against 2 people you didn't care for,was likely the main thing on their minds at that time.
Turn this around and think how the women would have felt being made to wait an hour for the result had they been the last 2 and did any of you see either Deana or Becky go and give any thought or encouragemnt to Arron and Conor during that tense prolonged waiting time,no, the cap fits both ways.

I dare bet most on here would be hammering BB for making Deana and Becky wait for an hour for the result had they been the last 2, having said that we only got a single 'half hour' of live feed, so no one can have a clue really for certain that in that whole hour before the result was announced that either Arron or Conor or even both did not approach the women anyway.

[fruit_cake]

I guess they're too locked up in themselves to notice anyone else .

[alex_front2]

Originally Posted by joeysteele

I think being made to wait for an hour before being told if you were staying or going after being up against 2 people you didn't care for,was likely the main thing on their minds at that time.
Turn this around and think how the women would have felt being made to wait an hour for the result had they been the last 2 and did any of you see either Deana or Becky go and give any thought or encouragemnt to Arron and Conor during that tense prolonged waiting time,no, the cap fits both ways.

I dare bet most on here would be hammering BB for making Deana and Becky wait for an hour for the result had they been the last 2, having said that we only got a single 'half hour' of live feed, so no one can have a clue really for certain that in that whole hour before the result was announced that either Arron or Conor or even both did not approach the women anyway.

But you dont know that. However they were ungracious in defeat.

[joeysteele]

Originally Posted by alex_front2

But you dont know that. Howrver they were ungtaciois in defeat.

Well, you don't know it either, which is what I said, there was an hour between Deana and Becky being saved,then only half an hour of live feed, how do you know for instance that Conor and Arron or both didn't say anything to Deana or Becky in that other half hour leading up to the announcement of the results or are you able to watch bits of BB than the rest of us cannot?

Whether they did or not is immaterial, I said the cap fits both ways, if you were right and the guys didn't then they were ungracious in defeat but by the same token with more to celebrate,Deana and Becky were far from being magnanimous in victory either.

[alex_front2]

Originally Posted by joeysteele

Well, you don't know it either, which is what I said, there was an hour between Deana and Becky being saved,then only half an hour of live feed, how do you know for instance that Conor and Arron or both didn't say anything to Deana or Becky in that other half hour leading up to the announcement of the results or are you able to watch bits of BB than the rest of us cannot?

Whether they did or not is immaterial, I said the cap fits both ways, if you were right and the guys didn't then they were ungracious in defeat but by the same token with more to celebrate,Deana and Becky were far from being magnanimous in victory either.

But no disrepect but your cap fits arguement is a bit
bullshiney. Deana got saved the first yhing the two losers
should have done is said well done. Arron didnt even acknowledge
Deanas victory on exit. All he said was "Bye peeps". Loser.

[joeysteele]

Originally Posted by alex_front2

But no disrepect but your cap fits arguement is a bit
bullshiney. Deana got saved the first yhing the two losers
should have done is said well done. Arron didnt even acknowledge
Deanas victory on exit. All he said was "Bye peeps". Loser.

Fine, I am not going to waste my time conversing with you on this,if you think the cap fits is rubbish then that's sad.

When I beat someone at anything,like at Uni, I always go over and shake their hand as I have won. If you think it's good to win and just go off and ignore the losers but that the losers should then go and seek them out and congratulate them then I am glad I choose my way.

Also if you think people who don't see things all your way talk rubbish,(I won't use your term), then what is the point of trying to have a reasoned discussion with you.

[Patricia4]

I would of said the same because what I can see with who's left "Bye peeps". Loser is a good saying I cant even see a winner among that lot.

[Brother Leon]

Surely Deana and Becky were meant to hug them and THEN The boys would congratulate them??

[DoM-h]

They've made it clear they don't like her, why would they congratulate her? I wouldn't expect Deana to congratulate them either. They don't get along, they know they don't get along and everyone else knows they don't get along.

[sofialady]

Well I know Arron went up to Deana and said "give us a hug" he said something to her and she said "I know i'm surprised" and he wen't "don't be"

You can't see it but you could hear their exchange during LF .. Conor however, I don't think could even look in her direction. His whole front was shot to pieces in front of all the housemates. Deana was top!

[Jake.]

Originally Posted by Brother Leon

Surely Deana and Becky were meant to hug them and THEM The boys would congratulate them??

No.

[Gizmo]

They're weren't brave enough to accept defeat. Bad sports.

[Brother Leon]

Originally Posted by JH95

No.

Lol at "no"

In any form of competition this is the case. Deny it all all you want

[Vicky.]

Wouldnt expect them to tbh

And if they had everyone would be screaming about how two faced they were

[MrWong]

Originally Posted by Brother Leon

Surely Deana and Becky were meant to hug them and THEM The boys would congratulate them??

I'm suprised anyone tried to approach them. Conor rudely shrugged off Sara's attempt.

Imagine how he would have reacted if Deana had approached him.

[fitz2k2]

Is that really a question?You do realize they both don't like deana

[Jake.]

Originally Posted by Brother Leon

Lol at "no"

In any form of competition this is the case. Deny it all all you want

Real men would be gracious and congratulate the woman. But these are not men
, these are children. Therefore they should be treated as such.

[Brother Leon]

Originally Posted by JH95

Real men would be gracious and congratulate the woman. But these are not men
, these are children. Therefore they should be treated as such.

It's not a case of men or women though bro.

In any competition/battle whatever the winner should be the one to approach the loser and offer a couple words before the loser then congratulates them. If Arron topped the votes and didn't approach Becky or Deana after then there would be outrage.

[joeysteele]

Originally Posted by JH95

Real men would be gracious and congratulate the woman. But these are not men
, these are children. Therefore they should be treated as such.

Real men?,I hate sexisim on any front but what should in the name of 'equality' should Real gracious women do too.

There really shouldn't be this that men should act any differently to women, the Women here were the victors and didn't approach anyone either,they jumped for joy and moved away, you are calling that gracious are you?
that is really though to you them being gracious and real Women.

Or to you also does equality mean that despite men and women having equal status that it is also the men who 'still' have to run up to the women and bow down to them.
Unbelievably dinosaur thinking, that is how things were, not now and I doubt many women would want to return to expecting that either, no feamle I know expects men to treat them as special or above them.

Human beings should act graciously towards each other, whether male or female.
Neither sex appeared to in this instance so I would say all is equal as to all the actions of all 4 of them, not any one is particularly worse than the other.

[Doogle]

I don't think they should've. It would have seemed out of character and weird, especially as they obviously weren't happy with the result. I dislike them but it was no use pretending to be happy.

[joeysteele]

Originally Posted by Brother Leon

It's not a case of men or women though bro.

In any competition/battle whatever the winner should be the one to approach the loser and offer a couple words before the loser then congratulates them. If Arron topped the votes and didn't approach Becky or Deana after then there would be outrage.

Totally agree with you.
I always do that, if I beat anyone on anything I always put my hand out first to the person I have beaten that is what I see all with near all others I see win as well.

Just as last night although I intended to anyway, I was championing Arron, another member I like was championing Deana, after all BB was over, he approached me as I was the one beaten. Naturally I then responded.

I don't get this men should do this for women etc, both sexes should just treat each other as equals not expecting anything special from one side to the other. In this case, neither side did that so why only condemn one side, the men. and not the women.

[MrWong]

I take it nobody saw Conor's reaction to Sara's attempt at a hug then.

Why on earth would Deana approach the aggressive twat?