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BigBrotherfan4ever · 15-07-2012, 02:29 PM

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Originally Posted by ransom

He shouldn't of gone so soon.

Totally agree, I wish him & Lydia were still in the house.

sarakss · 15-07-2012, 03:06 PM

I'm not a Conor fan, but I tolerate him more than a few other housemates. As far as Benedict's revelations, these are NOTHING. Conor mentioned both the Hitler pubes and party trick in his VT.

Benedict needs to quit crying in his anal lubricant. If he were so clever and insightful, he would still be there. He thought the house was his personal wank room and forgot normal people don't want to hear about wank times.

You're not a teacher - you have sex for money.

joeysteele · 15-07-2012, 03:10 PM

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Originally Posted by Shaun

Not really destroying him if he can't respond.

I thought that, really good point, saved me saying it.

Vicky. · 15-07-2012, 03:12 PM

I seriously wanna see this wrap party

Jords · 15-07-2012, 03:27 PM

I obviously meant destroying as in ripping into Ill change it you fusspots

sarakss · 15-07-2012, 03:37 PM

I think without Conor saying a word, Benedict owned himself. The last 2 comments were on Conor's VT. Benedict says Conor looks like a neanderthal, yet B is the one with those under-bite teeth.

B talks about C's immaturity, yet this is a guy who thought masturbating in front of cameras was the mature thing to do. Yea, so by the nation watching you masturbate, we'll realize it's okay?

And he wants to teach the young kids of the nation about masturbation... Benedict, that's like teaching a fat person how to chew - trust me, they've got this one covered.

Jords · 15-07-2012, 03:38 PM

How is masturbating being immature?

sarakss · 15-07-2012, 03:44 PM

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Originally Posted by Jords

How is masturbating being immature?

I'm not sure if this was directed at me, but I did not say masturbating was immature - masturbating in front of cameras is. Anyone would know it's a private act and to think it's appropriate to do in front of the cameras shows a lack of maturity. We know he's in the sex industry, no one wants a free show.

Tym · 15-07-2012, 04:42 PM

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shows a lack of maturity. We know he's in the sex industry, no one wants a free show.

Nope, his reasoning behind it shows the highest maturity. Very heavy, ahem, handed, but not immature.

fruit_cake · 15-07-2012, 04:43 PM

good old Bene

sarakss · 15-07-2012, 04:45 PM

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Originally Posted by Tym

Nope, his reasoning behind it shows the highest maturity. Very heavy, ahem, handed, but not immature.

Can you explain how his reasoning shows maturity? Don't get me wrong, I'm not trying to argue with you, I'm just trying to understand your POV.

Tym · 15-07-2012, 04:53 PM

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Can you explain how his reasoning shows maturity? Don't get me wrong, I'm not trying to argue with you, I'm just trying to understand your POV.

Benidict did that as a part of his ideologie that the British public should be more comfortable with their sexuality, like the scandanavian countries. I think he's already said this, but Britain has one of the worst sex-eds, while the highest STIs and the reverse is true in places like Sweden and Norway. He did it on camera, on a show which has benifited from the viewing of many teens in the past few years as an example not to be ashamed of the various ways you can show your sexuality (be it gay, bi, or any other part of the community).

In my opinion he's mature becuase he showed the ability to think ahead, notice something he did not agree with in his society and try and tackle it, and also set up a platform to further his views. So, rather than focusing on the now he's planning for the far future, which is, in my opinion, the mark of maturity.

Sorry if it's a bit jumbles, I always get a little bit lazy towards the end of a reply:P

Tym · 15-07-2012, 04:55 PM

I'm kind of afraid of following him in case people think I'm following a pornstar. XD

sarakss · 15-07-2012, 05:05 PM

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Originally Posted by Tym

Benidict did that as a part of his ideologie that the British public should be more comfortable with their sexuality, like the scandanavian countries. I think he's already said this, but Britain has one of the worst sex-eds, while the highest STIs and the reverse is true in places like Sweden and Norway. He did it on camera, on a show which has benifited from the viewing of many teens in the past few years as an example not to be ashamed of the various ways you can show your sexuality (be it gay, bi, or any other part of the community).

In my opinion he's mature becuase he showed the ability to think ahead, notice something he did not agree with in his society and try and tackle it, and also set up a platform to further his views. So, rather than focusing on the now he's planning for the far future, which is, in my opinion, the mark of maturity.

Sorry if it's a bit jumbles, I always get a little bit lazy towards the end of a reply:P

No worries about jumbling, I perfectly understood what you meant. I'm in the US, so I'm not aware of the STI infection rate of the UK, but I believe the pregnancy rate in the US also quite high especially among minorities. My thought process is it's not necessarily a lack of sex education that makes it high, but the higher acceptance of casual sex from an early age. Anyway, that's another issue.

I heard him make the comments about STIs and such, but I guess I saw the disconnect with performing in front of a camera and then blabbing to your HMs about masturbating in the bath tub shared by all. Yea yea, he washed it but I felt it was a bit inconsiderate. No one wants to think about Benedict's little seed while they're taking a bath.

On that notion of being comfortable with sexuality, Benedict masturbated and it's was no big deal. Ashleigh and Luke engaged in petting and such (100% safe) and sometimes public (with Scott and Becky in the room). Why are they getting so much flack? It was not intercourse, so that's safe, and they showed they were comfortable with their sexuality.

Tym · 15-07-2012, 06:04 PM

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Why are they getting so much flack? It was not intercourse, so that's safe, and they showed they were comfortable with their sexuality.

The showmance puts people's backs up (lol, yeah pretty odd since they're doing the same as Benidicts day job). And they're quite unlikeable, and, I dunno, it seemed a bit more "Blegh" than benidict masturbating. I think it was their expressions:S

I think it was the wiping part that put people off...it was a bit...ugh.

And what Benidict did was perfectly safe, even without cleaning up. But I probably would clean the shower before using it (and feel slightly blegh).