[Lister of Smeg]

Seriously I was tucking ito my chinese when that bit about Ashleigh came on on BOTS and while we all know she is a bit of a shameless tart up until this point last night biggin summed it up gthis woman is a ***** serious tossing guys off under tables possing wwith a dildo with a grin on her face that pic almost made me throw up a little .

Im all for being more open about sex andd sexuality in genral but Ashleigh is just down right disgusting when Bennedict talked about it he did it in a tasteful manner and not in a sleazy way like Ashleigh does .

[KingOfTheMods]

She's a crack *****, sucks c**k for rock.

[Saigon1]

Yeah she is.

[Lister of Smeg]

Originally Posted by KingOfTheMods

She's a crack *****, sucks c**k for rock.

As i ve said in other threads her destiny is to end up with 5 kids to 5 diferent men living on some cheap council estate next to her crack dealer which she needs to ease the pain of not becoming a z list celeb when she left the house .

[KingOfTheMods]

Originally Posted by Lister of Smeg

As i ve said in other threads her destiny is to end up with 5 kids to 5 diferent men living on some cheap council estate next to her crack dealer which she needs to ease the pain of not becoming a z list celeb when she left the house .

[Lister of Smeg]

Originally Posted by KingOfTheMods

Thats Ash another 7 years down the line .

[coolface]

I would say yes she is, brb talking about water sports within 10 minutes of someone

[Kizzy]

Can I just interject here please?...
Benedict has sex for a living, he does god knows what to god knows who for money.
That is more acceptable than a woman admitting to owning a sex aid and getting a bit fresh on a date?....

[calyman]

Originally Posted by kizzy

Can I just interject here please?...
Benedict has sex for a living, he does god knows what to god knows who for money.
That is more acceptable than a woman admitting to owning a sex aid and getting a bit fresh on a date?....

Benedict's activities are done in the best possible taste while the skanks
are done in the best possible taste (know what I mean?)

[joeysteele]

I don't care for Ashleigh and she may be rather forward in certain activities but I don't like such terminology and wouldn't use it myself to describe her or really any female.
I also doubt the guy she was with at the table lodged any complaint so it says a lot about him as well, not just her.
If such an action has her branded all sorts what does it mean as to him too.

[daniel-lewis-1985]

She likes sex.

Get over it prude.

[Kizzy]

Originally Posted by calyman

Benedict's activities are done in the best possible taste while the skanks
are done in the best possible taste (know what I mean?)

No, there is no comparison...
I will never understand why benedicts career choice is seen as acceptable, because he can articulate himself well?..
Because he writes articles for the Guardian?...
ashleigh may be a crude young woman is not very bright and has many insecurities.
I find it really hypocritical that her admittance has lead to a moral outrage, is it only ok to do those kinds of thing for money then like benedict would?

[glasstangerine]

I'm against slut shaming.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Slut-shaming

It's been used to control women since we discovered our genitals.

I think Ashleigh is trashy but I don't like the method. I try to make other people's sexual practices as neutral as possible in my mind so I know I am looking at them reasonably.

[Kizzy]

Originally Posted by glasstangerine

I'm against slut shaming.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Slut-shaming

It's been used to control women since we discovered our genitals.

I think Ashleigh is trashy but I don't like the method. I try to make other people's sexual practices as neutral as possible in my mind so I know I am looking at them reasonably.

Great first post
I agree, it seems ashleighs honesty regarding her sex life has met with revulsion wheras it seems benedict is fine to pleasure himself, give lectures on the same ..Odd
He is held up as some kind of hero for speaking of his sexploits, double standards.
Just because he has an air of respectability probably left over from when he had a legitimate career as a teacher, it does not make what he does for a living now socially acceptable.
Any way you dress up a turd...It's still a turd.

[calyman]

Originally Posted by kizzy

No, there is no comparison...
I will never understand why benedicts career choice is seen as acceptable, because he can articulate himself well?..
Because he writes articles for the Guardian?...
ashleigh may be a crude young woman is not very bright and has many insecurities.
I find it really hypocritical that her admittance has lead to a moral outrage, is it only ok to do those kinds of thing for money then like benedict would?

The difference has just been explained by yourself. Benedict sells sex as a career choice. He wants people to understand sex is a perfectly normal human function, by challenging the prudish regard that sex should be something no one talks about.He does not foist sexual innuendo down others throats, whereas this awful crude and malignant young woman does. She uses sex as a tool for her lack of intelligence, acuity and desire to shock. So you are right, there is no comparison. He is an intelligent decent human, she is not.

[Razor]

I believe she has been a ***** but couldn't make a decent living off it as she is so ugly.

[Kizzy]

Originally Posted by calyman

The difference has just been explained by yourself. Benedict sells sex as a career choice. He wants people to understand sex is a perfectly normal human function, by challenging the prudish regard that sex should be something no one talks about.He does not foist sexual innuendo down others throats, whereas this awful crude and malignant young woman does. She uses sex as a tool for her lack of intelligence, acuity and desire to shock. So you are right, there is no comparison. He is an intelligent decent human, she is not.

If it is such a normal human function why does is offend you when this woman speaks of it?
He forced many of his views down the throats of his fellow HM's, who squirmed uncomfortably throughout as I recall.
Yes he is intelligent, it is a shame he chooses you use his body rather than his mind to make a living...
Ash is not intelligent which the last time I checked was not a crime.

[Petershaw1984]

Originally Posted by KingOfTheMods

Wow. Thats ash if she used the crack me app similar to age me

[calyman]

Originally Posted by kizzy

If it is such a normal human function why does is offend you when this woman speaks of it?
He forced many of his views down the throats of his fellow HM's, who squirmed uncomfortably throughout as I recall.
Yes he is intelligent, it is a shame he chooses you use his body rather than his mind to make a living...
Ash is not intelligent which the last time I checked was not a crime.

To answer your question, please reread my previous post. I thought I had made quite clear the difference i how they talk about sex. To use an analogy, consider Benedict as a Sex Education teacher and consider Ashley as a sniggering, salacious fool. There is your distinction.

As for selling his body for sex, that is his choice, I do not share your shame about this.

[halfacrown]

I think Ashleigh is a horrible person who is nasty, jealous and suffers because she wants to be beautiful and she isn't. She looks like she's had a poor nose job in pursuit of her dream to be conventionally pretty and she won't stop there.

I wish Benedict had won, for many reasons, including his direct approach about sex. However, if I'm honest, I think he was a little coy about how much he's into men.

Notwithstanding, Benedict is the one involved in the sex industry for profit, not Ashleigh.

[Lister of Smeg]

Originally Posted by halfacrown

I think Ashleigh is a horrible person who is nasty, jealous and suffers because she wants to be beautiful and she isn't. She looks like she's had a poor nose job in pursuit of her dream to be conventionally pretty and she won't stop there.

I wish Benedict had won, for many reasons, including his direct approach about sex. However, if I'm honest, I think he was a little coy about how much he's into men.

Notwithstanding, Benedict is the one involved in the sex industry for profit, not Ashleigh.

I thought there was something funny about her nose lol its arches out like a boat hook

[Kizzy]

Originally Posted by calyman

To answer your question, please reread my previous post. I thought I had made quite clear the difference i how they talk about sex. To use an analogy, consider Benedict as a Sex Education teacher and consider Ashley as a sniggering, salacious fool. There is your distinction.

As for selling his body for sex, that is his choice, I do not share your shame about this.

I would have considered benedict a sex education teacher when he was employed as one, now he works in the porn industry.
And there we have it, 'that is his choice'
He can do and say whatever he likes, ashleigh can too...She may be monosyllabic but she is as entitled as benedict to her say

[halfacrown]

Originally Posted by Lister of Smeg

I thought there was something funny about her nose lol its arches out like a boat hook

Don't want to seem obsessed with noses but Ashleigh's mum has a nose and a half and I think that's where Ashleigh may have got her original nose from.

Not that there's anything wrong with big or unusual noses, unless you are obsessed with being 'beautiful' like Ashleigh!

[coolface]

Originally Posted by KingOfTheMods

meth

[coolface]

Originally Posted by Lister of Smeg

I thought there was something funny about her nose lol its arches out like a boat hook

dat nose