[OPL73]

Ash and Nikki opinion-Discuss

For the record, everyone wants to be liked. Nobody wants boos.

Ash is no different. I like Ash (although she needs to bloody cheer up a bit), I liked Nikki. However, Nikki acted like the 'poor little me paranoid victim' all week, to the point where she irritated me. In a way I'm glad she's gone.

I think you will notice that people want to be liked by Ash. She's one of those people where they just naturally gravitate towards her. A fire sign. They are always centre of attention. It's not intentional, it's just the way it is. She has never once courted attention (i'm not talking about lack of clothes here), people like being around her. People have a problem with her, and argue with her. But have you noticed she really isn't an instigator? Yet she is the one who always tries to make things up. The girl doesn't like tension and wants to get on with everyone.

Classic example with Jenny the other day who said I'm not going to speak to Aisleyne anymore, next minute they are friends after Ash sorted it out.

Same with Spiral. He can't keep away from her. One minute he says that is it between them, the next minute he's talking to her. Obviously she didn't kiss him during 'Spin The Bottle Gate' because she would have given him the wrong idea.

And believe me he is the type of person to get the wrong idea. Can you imagine if she had kissed him? The repercussions could have been far worse if she had said she didn't see him that way or fancied him. He probably would have said. 'Why did you kiss me then?' in his whiny hard done by way.

Even Nikki liked Ash's attention. When they made up she was fine. It was Jayne who fed on her paranoia, making thngs worse. When Nikki has had arguments with people before i.e Mikey, Grace, Richard, Lea, she often backed down and apologised because she was wrong, and got on with it.

This time Jayne agreed with everything she said, thinking she was right in her opinions on Pete and Ash, instead of being told she was being paranoid. That was her downfall. Blame Jayne. If Nikki can't be accountable for her own actions.

Lastly watch, and you will notice people graviate towards Aisleyne. Not the other way around...

[samira_latifah]

jayne wanted to get close to nikki coz she was the most favourite housemate b4 she went in

[ronnorthnorfolk]

Aisleyne draws people to her with her constant attention seeking behaviour! she will cry stomp and yes make herself the centre of attention
sorry she just gets on my wick! stroppy princess!

[samira_latifah]

she dont though, she is just emotional and im sure you would cry if you thought you was enemy number one

[ronnorthnorfolk]

Sorry she is enemy number one!

[amuseme]

asleiyne obviously wants to be the centre of attention its blatant. she blows most things out of proportion and she cries too much over nothing. i cant wait til she goes

[Lil-Lindz]

Ash has allways wanted to be centre of attention

She just couldn't get it when nikki was there

[OPL73]

Originally posted by amuseme
asleiyne obviously wants to be the centre of attention its blatant. she blows most things out of proportion and she cries too much over nothing. i cant wait til she goes

Can you add anything else to this already weak argument?

[OPL73]

Originally posted by Lil-Lindz
Ash has allways wanted to be centre of attention

She just couldn't get it when nikki was there

Yawn, I reckon you're about what? 12?

[OPL73]

Originally posted by ronnorthnorfolk
Sorry she is enemy number one!

With whom? And if you say the public/fans, what percentage?

[amuseme]

Originally posted by OPL73

Can you add anything else to this already weak argument?

if you want. she cries for nothing to get attention, she wears next to nothing to get attention and she plays the victim as much as possible to get attention. Basically shes an attention seeker

[OPL73]

Originally posted by amuseme

if you want. she cries for nothing to get attention, she wears next to nothing to get attention and she plays the victim as much as possible to get attention. Basically shes an attention seeker

Sounds like you are describing Nikki. She did the exact same thing.

[Eloise]

Originally posted by OPL73

Sounds like you are describing Nikki. She did the exact same thing.

The difference being that Nikki made you laugh when she had tantrums, etc this one just does it to be - as everyone is correctly pointing out - the centre of attention. I mean that blue dress that she wore when she was sent to the second house (also wore it on Friday) not to mention the idiotic way she kept pinching herself that night - if she ever sees that she's gonna be soooo embarrassed- and is she isn't just proves the point doesn't it - attention seeker!

[OPL73]

Originally posted by Eloise

The difference being that Nikki made you laugh when she had tantrums, etc this one just does it to be - as everyone is correctly pointing out - the centre of attention. I mean that blue dress that she wore when she was sent to the second house (also wore it on Friday) not to mention the idiotic way she kept pinching herself that night - if she ever sees that she's going to be soooo embarrassed- and is she isn't just proves the point doesn't it - attention seeker!

Rubbish, there isn't a difference. If you were an Ash fan or a neutral you would see it differently. You are blindsided by your Nikki obsession.

Nikki's knickers (oops sorry shorts) she had on eviction night wasn't for attention? The outfit Nikki wore going into the house? Was that or was that not for attention?

Her downward spiral into paranoia, was caused by her jealousy, and wanting to be centre of attention. Why is it different? Just because Nikki had child like qualities? She was a grown woman and her constant need for attention became rather grating and tedious toward the end. Most of the women in there want/wanted attention in some way.

Since Nikki has come out of the house, she seems...almost normal. No tantrums or anything. She was asked the question (on BBLB) if she had tantrums outside of the house. she said no, not really. Hmmm........

Don't get me wrong I liked Nikki in the beginning, yes she was entertaining. However, I laughed at her not with her. I also didn't favour Nikki or Ash, (I like them both) so I am not influenced by the hysteria surrounding either one.

Take a step back love and you will see that Ash and Nikki were as bad as each other. Your argument is flawed.
If you don't have anything constructive to say. Keep quiet.