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Old 14-07-2013, 10:28 AM #1
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With Daley and Hazels story edging ever closer to an abuse storyline, is anyone else fascinated by this dynamic?

It's one we've never seen in BB before

Daley is quite clearly unhinged

Obv BB will never let it get out of hand but just the mere tinge of controlling Daley has displayed is unnerving and threatening IMHO
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I also look at you with an expression of exhaustion and ever so slight amusement

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With Daley and Hazels story edging ever closer to an abuse storyline, is anyone else fascinated by this dynamic?

It's one we've never seen in BB before

Daley is quite clearly unhinged

Obv BB will never let it get out of hand but just the mere tinge of controlling Daley has displayed is unnerving and threatening IMHO
You obviously don't recognise foreplay when you see it!
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Yeah, can't wait for him to start slapping her about the safe house.
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I hardly call it domestic abuse lol.
Anyway I've seen reality shows with proper domestic abuse storylines,this aint nothing.
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Obv it's not all out and out violence etc but domestic abuse can be emotional as well

It's very slight the way he's attempting to control her but its there and it's a dynamic we've never had on BB
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Obv it's not all out and out violence etc but domestic abuse can be emotional as well

It's very slight the way he's attempting to control her but its there and it's a dynamic we've never had on BB

Have you seen the clip? Watch her eyes. She was encouraging it. If it wasnt so obvious that she was, the omnipresent BB would have stepped in and stopped it.
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Obv it's not all out and out violence etc but domestic abuse can be emotional as well

It's very slight the way he's attempting to control her but its there and it's a dynamic we've never had on BB
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Obv it's not all out and out violence etc but domestic abuse can be emotional as well

It's very slight the way he's attempting to control her but its there and it's a dynamic we've never had on BB
It was more the fact that he * allows* his girlfriend to wear it out with her friends that speaks volumes.
The fact that Hazel may or may not have minded makes no difference at all.
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Obv it's not all out and out violence etc but domestic abuse can be emotional as well

It's very slight the way he's attempting to control her but its there and it's a dynamic we've never had on BB
I seem to remember that Aaron was accused of doing a similar thing with Faye on BB.
I dont believe this is abuse, its a guy telling a girl he prefers her without all the slap on that she wears.
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It was more the fact that he * allows* his girlfriend to wear it out with her friends that speaks volumes.
The fact that Hazel may or may not have minded makes no difference at all.


Exactly, she has no intention of being with him on the outside at any rate, he is far too thick and uncouth for her, she was letting him hang himself with his rather strange tirade.
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It was more the fact that he * allows* his girlfriend to wear it out with her friends that speaks volumes.
The fact that Hazel may or may not have minded makes no difference at all.
Er, I think it went a bit beyond Hazel "not minding".

She was positively enjoying and encouraging it. She could easily have told him to shut up and he would have just sulked and become withdrawn. She did not want that.
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He could have just kept it simple and said... Hazel you look great without makeup, stunning.
But no he went on and on and on and on and on.
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She could have just said "Your comments are noted" and proceeded with her shower.
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Think we will see a cooling from hazel now, they are already in a commited relationship in daleys eyes hence the lecture on how he likes his 'women' to look.
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He could have just kept it simple and said... Hazel you look great without makeup, stunning.
But no he went on and on and on and on and on.
Because he's thick nothing upstairs.
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Think we will see a cooling from hazel now, they are already in a commited relationship in daleys eyes hence the lecture on how he likes his 'women' to look.
The exclusive on BOTS suggests otherwise.
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Have you seen the clip? Watch her eyes. She was encouraging it. If it wasnt so obvious that she was, the omnipresent BB would have stepped in and stopped it.
Where is this clip ??
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