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Im_Juz_ChiLLin · 10-01-2014, 10:33 PM

According to Dappy if a women sleeps with 5 men she's a slut but if a a man sleeps with 5 women it's ok. According to Luisa he's being sexist and should be ashamed of himself. So who do you agree with? YOU DECIDE.

Benjamin · 10-01-2014, 10:34 PM

Agree with Luisa (and not just because she is my fave), it is sexist.

Jake. · 11-01-2014, 09:06 AM

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Originally Posted by Benjamin

Agree with Luisa (and not just because she is my fave), it is sexist.

Literally was going to type this, people need to forget who their faves are and look at the actualy argument in hand.

Jordan. · 10-01-2014, 10:34 PM

Luisa obvs

Kate! · 10-01-2014, 10:34 PM

Agree with Luisa

reece(: · 10-01-2014, 10:34 PM

Agree with Luisa, it is sexist bile. I'm sure the "lads" won't view it that way.

Scream · 10-01-2014, 10:35 PM

I prefer Luisa and I don't think it's right even though I agree with Dappy...there's something about a girl sleeping with a lot of people that seems quite disgusting whereas if it's a male it's not as bad.

Marsh. · 10-01-2014, 10:36 PM

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I prefer Luisa and I don't think it's right even though I agree with Dappy...there's something about a girl sleeping with a lot of people that seems quite disgusting whereas if it's a male it's not as bad.

I believe that something is called sexism.

It's like saying it's not right for a man to be in the kitchen as it's a woman's place. Both sexes are equal and should therefore be judged equally when it comes to their actions.

Whether you think it's good or bad to sleep with 5 people in one night, it should apply the same to both men and women.

Scream · 10-01-2014, 10:39 PM

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I believe that something is called sexism.

It's like saying it's not right for a man to be in the kitchen as it's a woman's place. Both sexes are equal and should therefore be judged equally when it comes to their actions.

I'm in no way sexist...it's just different events that in society are deemed acceptable or not acceptable depending on whether a male or female does it.

Marsh. · 10-01-2014, 10:41 PM

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I'm in no way sexist...it's just different events that in society are deemed acceptable or not acceptable depending on whether a male or female does it.

You are changing your opinion/judgement on the exact same actions on whether it's a male or female committing them. That is sexism.
Whether you want to be or not, you have just defined it.

Doogle · 10-01-2014, 10:41 PM

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Originally Posted by Scream

I'm in no way sexist...it's just different events that in society are deemed acceptable or not acceptable depending on whether a male or female does it.

sexism

Scream · 10-01-2014, 10:46 PM

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sexism

Hmm, not necessarily. It's probably because I have more respect for women and think of them as more respectable. I don't frown on women who sleep with a lot of men...I'm just saying, in today's society that's how it is and I kind of feel the same way. If I heard a guy slept with 5 girls in one night I wouldn't be surprised...if it was a woman it just sounds more dirty.

armand.kay · 10-01-2014, 11:14 PM

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Originally Posted by Scream

I'm in no way sexist...it's just different events that in society are deemed acceptable or not acceptable depending on whether a male or female does it.

It is still sexist.

sassysocks · 11-01-2014, 10:45 PM

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I'm in no way sexist...it's just different events that in society are deemed acceptable or not acceptable depending on whether a male or female does it.

Which is why such double standards have to be challenged, not pandered to.

Kate! · 10-01-2014, 10:38 PM

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I prefer Luisa and I don't think it's right even though I agree with Dappy...there's something about a girl sleeping with a lot of people that seems quite disgusting whereas if it's a male it's not as bad.

What!?!?

In the words of John McEnroe .... "You cannot be serious"

Redway · 12-01-2014, 12:03 AM

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Originally Posted by Scream

I prefer Luisa and I don't think it's right even though I agree with Dappy...there's something about a girl sleeping with a lot of people that seems quite disgusting whereas if it's a male it's not as bad.

Think it's worth dismissing something as more morally wrong than the other, just because one doesn't quite tickle your fancy? Does that 'argument' extend to gay people, because two men at it seems repugnant to you and find it natural that two members of the opposite gender have sex instead, so one rule for straights and another for everyone else?

Nonsense.

Doogle · 10-01-2014, 10:35 PM

It's disgusting to use that word towards a women and is never acceptable.

It's the person's choice - if they're safe who cares? It's not anyone else's business

smudgie · 10-01-2014, 10:37 PM

Sexist drivel from Dappy.

Lostie! · 10-01-2014, 10:38 PM

Team Neither.

It was a stupid thing to say from Dappy, but Luisa can hardly seize the moral high ground in regards to rude and small-minded comments.

coolface · 11-01-2014, 09:51 AM

doesn't matter if it's a man or a woman, it's gross either way

Natalie. · 10-01-2014, 10:39 PM

Agree with Luisa
Doesn't matter how many people either sex sleep with as long as they're safe and single
If you do think it's bad though, it should be bad for men to do it also

sampvt · 10-01-2014, 10:40 PM

I wanna know where these people get 5 women in one night. Id rather take one to paradise and back than 5 to the end of the garden gate. Hard to agree with either as they are both talking ****e. Personally I think that a woman must have self esteem issues if she does it and a guy has the morals of a twat.

How the world has changed since I was a lad. Im glad I am old and happy. Look at how it effects people like lee. They should be castrated and left on Prozac for the rest of their life.

Z · 10-01-2014, 10:41 PM

Luisa's right in the context of the debate; but I think Luisa's the kind of girl who thinks her own **** doesn't stink - Dappy clearly got on her nerves with the points he was making because she was being challenged for her behaviour. It's not okay to sleep around regardless of your gender, I think he just comes from the kind of upbringing where women are expected to be role models and he doesn't like what he sees in Luisa. That doesn't excuse his own flaws but I think that's why he was so passionate about what he was saying.