[Videostar]

If he gets that wound up and threatens to hit a 70 year old simply because he didn't like being jokingly called "gay" then he clearly has problems.

It was James that started that whole nonsense off in the first place.

[Denver]

Homophobia is not acceptable

[JoshBB]

He never threatened to hit him? What the ****?

[Heaven = Winner]

He didn't threaten Gary though.

I don't like how offended and aggressive James got during that little misunderstanding, though. It's good to watch as a viewer, but it shows that he has some attitude issues imo.

[LukeB]

Originally Posted by adamski94

Homophobia is not acceptable

[Pete.]

Gary's the one that has problems tbh

[Nell_McCoy]

Originally Posted by adamski94

Homophobia is not acceptable

What homophobia are we talking about - the bending over joke by James in front of Leslie? or Gary's vulgar continuation of it ? - either could be construed as homophobic. Now I've seen the whole think I think both were out of order but James was also arrogant and unfairly self-righteous about how the whole incident which HE started panned out.

[Marsh.]

He did it on purpose. He laughed about it at first and joked about a "cheeky finger" and then decided to get all butt hurt.

[Shaun]

Originally Posted by Marsh.

He did it on purpose. He laughed about it at first and joked about a "cheeky finger" and then decided to get all butt hurt.

should've used that vaseline then

[Sophiee]

james never threatened anybody?
gary was clearly at fault here in my opinion; homophobia or signs of are taken seriously nowadays and I think james was right to call him out on it because whether he's homophobic or not, his comment could have come across offensively so it was a future warning for him.

[daniel-lewis-1985]

Oh ffs it wasn't homophobic. I agree that James has some issues.

[Shaun]

Originally Posted by Sophiee

james never threatened anybody?
gary was clearly at fault here in my opinion; homophobia or signs of are taken seriously nowadays and I think james was right to call him out on it because whether he's homophobic or not, his comment could have come across offensively so it was a future warning for him.

a) no it couldn't, because
b) it wasn't
and c) if James is so sensitive to these issues then perhaps refrain from crude "ooh I'm bending over how gay loool x" jokes in the first place, and also refrain from immediately grunting "**** off" in response to questions of his sexuality.

[Videostar]

Originally Posted by adamski94

Homophobia is not acceptable

Agreed.

James needs to be picked up on that.

[Livia]

James wouldn't stand up because he was afraid Gary was going to hang one on him. I'd have quite enjoyed that.

[bitontheslide]

Originally Posted by Marsh.

He did it on purpose. He laughed about it at first and joked about a "cheeky finger" and then decided to get all butt hurt.

Agree, james made the homophobic comment in the first place

[Liam-]

Originally Posted by bitontheslide

Agree, james made the homophobic comment in the first place

What homophobic comment would that be?

[Sophiee]

Originally Posted by Shaun

a) no it couldn't, because
b) it wasn't
and c) if James is so sensitive to these issues then perhaps refrain from crude "ooh I'm bending over how gay loool x" jokes in the first place, and also refrain from immediately grunting "**** off" in response to questions of his sexuality.

I don't think it was meant to be an offensive comment either but the fact is that it has offended some people and I can see why despite not being personally offended. I think it was more to do with gary's choice of words; james did nothing wrong here.

[Ammi]

Originally Posted by Shaun

a) no it couldn't, because
b) it wasn't
and c) if James is so sensitive to these issues then perhaps refrain from crude "ooh I'm bending over how gay loool x" jokes in the first place, and also refrain from immediately grunting "**** off" in response to questions of his sexuality.

..yep..you can't make jokes about something and then take offence when someone does the same and follows on with it...

[Shaun]

Originally Posted by Sophiee

I don't think it was meant to be an offensive comment either but the fact is that it has offended some people and I can see why despite not being personally offended. I think it was more to do with gary's choice of words; james did nothing wrong here.

Fact? Where are these offended people? I don't see any.

And except overreact and proceed to bitch and whine about it all day before actually talking it out with Gary, but OK

[Denver]

Even lesley took offence and said he ran quick

[Samm]

Originally Posted by Sophiee

james never threatened anybody?
gary was clearly at fault here in my opinion; homophobia or signs of are taken seriously nowadays and I think james was right to call him out on it because whether he's homophobic or not, his comment could have come across offensively so it was a future warning for him.

This, I have strangely warmed to him more tonight

If James was the one who said the butt hurt thing he would be getting hate from everywhere..

[Heaven = Winner]

Originally Posted by adamski94

Even lesley took offence and said he ran quick

No I think that's just when the confrontation kicked off.

[Shaun]

Originally Posted by adamski94

Even lesley took offence and said he ran quick

Avoiding an argument is a sign of offence now people really overuse the 'offended' word.

[billy123]

Neither of them came out of that well.
And James did threaten to hit Gary he said "I have never hit a 70 year old before but..."

[mizzy25]

James totally over reacted, Gary asked him if he was gay? All he had to say was no im not, instead of going into some kind of rant about it. yes after that I think Gary said the but finger joke or whatever he said, and it was kind incomfortable but then james just made it worse and looked like a bloody idiot tbh. What made me lol was ricci in the background oblivious to it all checking himself out in the mirror.