[Smithy]

Are you setting any goals or targets for yourself this year?

Post them and every time you complete one bump the thread

[Ninastar]

my main one is to come out to my family... but i dont want to do that till i have a gf. so probably never

[Smithy]

I think some of my own (i'll probably add more)

Gain weight (seeing as i'm finally in a place where i can do it properly/healthily (5 - 10kg))
Finally learn to drive
Read 52 books
Go on holiday abroad (seeing as i haven't been since 2010 )

[Smithy]

Originally Posted by Urwreatha

my main one is to come out to my family... but i dont want to do that till i have a gf. so probably never

you'll find someone soon, you're an amazing person

[Shaun]

pass my driving tests (booking my theory as we speak)
get money~
maybe travel a bit (once #2 is accomplished)
read more

think that's about it

[Ninastar]

Originally Posted by Smithy

you'll find someone soon, you're an amazing person

lmao, n'awww thanks!

i really hope I do

[Mystic Mock]

1. Have a girl fancy me.
2. Try not to get so worked up over Reality TV Shows.
3. Be nice to the girl that fancies me.(if they exist lol)
4. Get a job, hopefully not something too hardworking though as I'm quite lazy and I have a low attention span.

[Princess]

I want three things this year, one of which I have no control over. I also want a literary agent and a girlfriend(or boyfriend if I meet a really nice guy).

[BigSister]

Just to carry on being healthy really and maybe get a job if one comes along that's the right hours and looks ok.

[Beastie]

A shag. Not had one since the summer. (I shall not count the quickie I had 2 months ago!)

[Beastie]

Maybe to be a big brother housemate

[Braden]

Originally Posted by Urwreatha

my main one is to come out to my family... but i dont want to do that till i have a gf. so probably never

This is exactly how I feel.

The annoying thing is that I know I have a family who will accept it, but it's such a difficult thing to do.

I said to myself that I would come out to my family before 2014, but the whole things makes me feel uneasy whenever I even think about it.

I hope we both find courage to do it at one point.

[Cal.]

I want to go abroad, I haven't been since 2007 I don't think

[Ninastar]

Originally Posted by Princess

I want three things this year, one of which I have no control over. I also want a literary agent and a girlfriend(or boyfriend if I meet a really nice guy).

omg WHHAAAAT?

[Ninastar]

Originally Posted by Braden

This is exactly how I feel.

The annoying thing is that I know I have a family who will accept it, but it's such a difficult thing to do.

I said to myself that I would come out to my family before 2014, but the whole things makes me feel uneasy whenever I even think about it.

I hope we both find courage to do it at one point.

n'aww i didn't know that you weren't out!

but yeah this is the same for me. I know my family will be fine with it, but its the whole coming up with the right words to say and the time to say it

i'd rather just be with someone and say 'oh yeah this is my bitch btw'

but that doesnt seem to be happening any time soon.

good luck to you <3

[mizzy25]

1. to try and get some more work of my own, had some but lost it so need more, rather than the agency although like the ones I do for there.

2. to have a successful year racing with my dogs and hopefully a few wins with tinsel (tibbs) lol

3. to get on the chase (have applied again)

4. eat more healthy (after my birthday weekend like so anytime from 12th jan) lose a bit of weight. continue with my fitness classes and the gym (been there today for an hour)

5. get that elusive six pack

6. take loads and loads of pic with me new camera

7. be more organised especially in the house, its a tip @ the minute

8. when im bored...do something, whether its tidy up, go to the gym., take some pics, just do something

9. not let people get to me, say for instance @ the whippet racing club that I somehow end up running every year. why is it up to me to tell people things like, there dog has had a go, or people arguing over who won a race. why is it up to me to sort it out? its flippin well not im sick of firing the bullets for other people and its not gonna happen this year

10. have my happiness jar, anything good that happens will get wrote on a bit of paper and put in it, so @ the end of the year I can look back @ all the awesome things that happen to me, hopefully there will be some lol

[BigSister]

Mizzy regarding number 8 I need to do that even if its just going out of the house just do something then im not stuck at home. Also another point for me when I get my toe sorted get some sort of volunteer work then at least im doing something. I was in the process of doing that then my stupid toe happened

[Brother Leon]

- To keep working on my body. Progress from a skinny twig is slowly being made.

- To go to Brazil in March. Not much of a goal as it will be booked this week, but whatever lol

- To move out. It is time I think

- To be the best Son,Brother and Boyfriend I can be to Four women who helped me through a tough 2014. I feel like I owe them that at least .

[Mystic Mock]

Originally Posted by Ninastar

n'aww i didn't know that you weren't out!

but yeah this is the same for me. I know my family will be fine with it, but its the whole coming up with the right words to say and the time to say it

i'd rather just be with someone and say 'oh yeah this is my bitch btw'

but that doesnt seem to be happening any time soon.

good luck to you <3

You can't force yourself to out yourself, you can only do it when you're ready to.

I give the same advice to Braden as well.

[Gstar]

Drive
Leave Bristol
Become wealthier
Not get kicked out of a club

[armand.kay]

Get money
Get a hot bod
Get driving licence
Get car

[Niall]

A few:
-Stick with the whole 'not giving a fuck' aesthetic because it's working wonders thus far
-Be more assertive, and not to let asshats walk all over like they used to
-Work out more often and more consistently
-Get good grades at uni
-Save some money here and there
-Go on holiday abroad (Florida 2k15 actually looks like it's happening rn

[Glenn.]

Originally Posted by Beastie

A shag. Not had one since the summer. (I shall not count the quickie I had 2 months ago!)

I feel this

[Princess]

Originally Posted by Ninastar

omg WHHAAAAT?

Yeah hey I'm bi.

Speaking of coming out, I came out to my parents a couple of months ago and I knew they wouldn't care at all, that they'd just be all 'As long as you're happy' which they were but it was still way harder than I thought it was going to be.

[Jay.]

Learn how to drive
Make sure every post/text message I send isn't a flop and is iconic in each and every way
Lose 20 stone