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Old 28-02-2015, 04:31 PM   #1
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There's been a lot of talk about how all the "weaves" are vile people or w/e and I've seen lots of discussions saying bad things about people, but I've never actually had someone take the time to message me and address a problem or issue they have with me.

Ever since the unbannings I've been doing my best to rebuild bridges and try and get along with people again, and I've tried to avoid any sort of dramas that could happen involving me, but I feel like there is still lots of people who are not being upfront or honest and idk, I just want people to be honest with me and settle it out tbh so it can all be done and dusted. I guess the whole being labelled a "bully" thing just doesn't feel good when I've tried hard to restore things back to normal, and I don't like the feeling that I'm being secretly judged because of who I'm friends with
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no of course not! you know that! you're one of my favourite members

we had our differences but that was like E10. we get on a lot better now
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Old 28-02-2015, 04:35 PM   #3
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You personally? no, the people you associate with? Yes
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Hayden you are a great poster and contribute a lot to this forum. If a few people can't take the time to get to know you because of the actions of a few of your friends then it's their loss
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You personally? no, the people you associate with? Yes
Thank you for being honest and keeping it 100 with me.

I understand the latter half of your post, but personally I feel I shouldn't be judged because of who I talk to/get along with because I try and get along with everyone Is it just certain individuals or the "group" as a whole? Because there genuinely are some funny, friendly people who I have never seen do anything directly malicious or rule-breaking.

I would hope the mods would not lock this thread as this is a genuine question and I think it's better to beef out the issues rather than ignore them.
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You should know I don't think any less of you LOL if I didn't like / trust you I wouldn't have added you on the PSN. If this is just about the Simpsons thread it really wasn't meant as shade I just forgot you the first time and tried to think of another major character

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Pretty sure it was Salman and a couple sheep/new members that were twats so no problem with you personally.
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You should know I don't think any less of you LOL if I didn't like / trust you I wouldn't have added you on the PSN. If this is just about the Simpsons thread it really wasn't meant as shade I just forgot you the first time and tried to think of another major character

oh hello Spenton
It's not directly about the Simpsons thread, I know you were just saying everything in a joke-y manner, I just thought it kinda brought up and underlying point which I feel would be better to be adressed rather than ignored... if that makes sense...?

Thank you though, and I need to come on GTA more
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There's been a lot of talk about how all the "weaves" are vile people or w/e and I've seen lots of discussions saying bad things about people, but I've never actually had someone take the time to message me and address a problem or issue they have with me.

Ever since the unbannings I've been doing my best to rebuild bridges and try and get along with people again, and I've tried to avoid any sort of dramas that could happen involving me, but I feel like there is still lots of people who are not being upfront or honest and idk, I just want people to be honest with me and settle it out tbh so it can all be done and dusted. I guess the whole being labelled a "bully" thing just doesn't feel good when I've tried hard to restore things back to normal, and I don't like the feeling that I'm being secretly judged because of who I'm friends with

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Thank you for being honest and keeping it 100 with me.

I understand the latter half of your post, but personally I feel I shouldn't be judged because of who I talk to/get along with because I try and get along with everyone Is it just certain individuals or the "group" as a whole? Because there genuinely are some funny, friendly people who I have never seen do anything directly malicious or rule-breaking.

I would hope the mods would not lock this thread as this is a genuine question and I think it's better to beef out the issues rather than ignore them.
Yeah in a perfect world you wouldn't be, but as the saying goes, if you lay with dogs you're gonna catch fleas
As for what i don't like, it's the majority of the people's attitudes towards other members, feeling the need to be so awful and spiteful towards people they don't know just to get a laugh, i know it's not all of you because like i said, i happen to like you, but if you openly associate with said people who do those things, it will obviously give the wrong impression of you, whether you think that's right or wrong.

And whenever we do 'beef it out' it causes havoc on here with certain people coming on and derailing discussions that could be had maturely and rationally
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I've kinda noticed you've toned down with the sassy talk loads since you've returned and haven't caused any drama which is a good thing but before your ban you were on the verge of becoming ridiculously annoying with it all. Idk, it's just acting one way one minute and than being someone else another minute its kinda hard to get involved with someone that acts different all the time. I've got no complaints about you since your ban though.
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You are a lovely person btw, just be careful who you hang out with and I appreciate how you've been a bit calmer and kept the 'sassiness' down, you are a very nice member
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