[Vanessa]

Ah, it was lovely! But i do get the feeling he has issues about being accepted in his family. Or am i reading too much into it ?

[Daffodil]

Maybe he will get a proper job. That will be something to write home about.

[cassieparis]

Crying 'cos he knows she was lying.
Using Chloe as a sex object. What mother would be proud?

[rusticgal]

As a parent I would not be proud of his behaviour...just like I wouldn't be proud of Marnie.
It just goes to show what bad parenting does...it produces children that don't respect themselves, their parents and family and other people. They are selfish individuals who only care about themselves.
I'm a good parent and my boys would never behave like that...they would never embarress me and my husband because they have respect for our feelings and others..but more importantly themselves.

[RhysJones]

Fake tears. Anyway, who would proud of their son if he behaved that way with Chloe, James, Renee, Katie and Women in general

[Marsh.]

I'd cry too if that thing was my son.

[Firewire]

What a pussy

[Marcus.]

Originally Posted by MB.

Marcus for mod

nah
i just in this mood at the mo

[Ian Coke]

Originally Posted by Vanessa

Ah, it was lovely! But i do get the feeling he has issues about being accepted in his family. Or am i reading too much into it ?

Definitely not. But this is Bear's tragedy; he's not stupid, so he knows he's being a terrible guy, letting people (usually women) who care about him down, hurting their feelings, but he can't seem to help himself.After Bear's epic, month long display of poor behaviour, childish tantrums and so on, his mother, who seems like a nice lady, must be wondering what on earth she did wrong.

[letmein]

His mother is a dirtbag. She raised a loser.

[Clootie Dumpling]

She seemed rather downtrodden and fragile to me. No surprise really, living with Bear. I hear he's a chip off the old block (his Dad's), so I do wonder why she's still there!

[Ammi]

Originally Posted by Vanessa

Ah, it was lovely! But i do get the feeling he has issues about being accepted in his family. Or am i reading too much into it ?

..yes Vanessa, you are.....he's said how much he's missed his mum and they seem to have a close relationship..(he also didn't get the family/friend contact a little while ago that the others got...)...he knows that he's played a game/he knows that his game would bring controversy and negativity and was I suspect happy/relieved that in being how he has, hasn't in any way disappointed his mum etc....

[Ian Coke]

Originally Posted by Ammi

..yes Vanessa, you are.....he's said how much he's missed his mum and they seem to have a close relationship..(he also didn't get the family/friend contact a little while ago that the others got...)...he knows that he's played a game/he knows that his game would bring controversy and negativity and was I suspect happy/relieved that in being how he has, hasn't in any way disappointed his mum etc....

Eric Cartman's relationship with his mother is less complicated than what Bear and Mama Bear share, I fear.

[waterhog]

Originally Posted by Vanessa

Ah, it was lovely! But i do get the feeling he has issues about being accepted in his family. Or am i reading too much into it ?

he should have issues about being accepted in reality not just his family.

[Garfie]

Originally Posted by rusticgal

As a parent I would not be proud of his behaviour...just like I wouldn't be proud of Marnie.
It just goes to show what bad parenting does...it produces children that don't respect themselves, their parents and family and other people. They are selfish individuals who only care about themselves.
I'm a good parent and my boys would never behave like that...they would never embarress me and my husband because they have respect for our feelings and others..but more importantly themselves.

You are so right in all you say here. People like Bear, Marnie, Lewis, etc, are the result of bad parenting in terms of being over-indulged as youngsters- they have been brought up without any sense of responsibility, and behaviour that would be embarrassing and concerning to good parents are condoned and admired by theirs.

The lack of self-respect and respect for others is horrendous, but their parents don't seem to have any issue with it. And there's the problem.

[Garfie]

Originally Posted by Ammi

..yes Vanessa, you are.....he's said how much he's missed his mum and they seem to have a close relationship..(he also didn't get the family/friend contact a little while ago that the others got...)...he knows that he's played a game/he knows that his game would bring controversy and negativity and was I suspect happy/relieved that in being how he has, hasn't in any way disappointed his mum etc....

During a conversation about parents in the house, he did say something about being spoilt by his mum, and knowing he was his Mum's favourite. It sounded as if he had a close relationship with his Mum. It made me wonder if she 'babies' him, and this is why he is so often goes into child mode.

[Ian Coke]

Originally Posted by Garfie

During a conversation about parents in the house, he did say something about being spoilt by his mum, and knowing he was his Mum's favourite. It sounded as if he had a close relationship with his Mum. It made me wonder if she 'babies' him, and this is why he is so often goes into child mode.

I'd have thought Bear was an only child, but apparently, he has a brother who works in The City. God knows what the guy makes of Stephen's antics.

[hijaxers]

Originally Posted by Ian Coke

I'd have thought Bear was an only child, but apparently, he has a brother who works in The City. God knows what the guy makes of Stephen's antics.

Oh he's a chip off the old block too ! He's been on bbots more than once singing his praises ! he also sounds exactly the same as Bear - vile.

I thought his mother looked less than overjoyed to sit and say how wonderful her son was, i thought she looked depressed at the thought of it coming home.

[Kazanne]

Who cares ? the less I see of him or his mother the better,but how can any parent be proud of that.

[Vanessa]

From what I heard on live feed Bear also has a sister

[Clootie Dumpling]

Originally Posted by Vanessa

From what I heard on live feed Bear also has a sister

Oh, no! I can't imagine a female version of Roger Daltry look-a-like, Bear!

[cfromhx02]

Originally Posted by Vanessa

Ah, it was lovely! But i do get the feeling he has issues about being accepted in his family. Or am i reading too much into it ?

Not sure. His Mother said that she was proud of him.How you can be proud of him, I don't know.But I believe someone as nasty as Bear cannot just be created on their own.

I believe he has to have been brought up by his parents with such an enjoyment of mentally torturing others and of having no empathy towards others.I believe the s c u m bags that are his parents should have been grilled over how they could bring someone up to have such an enjoyment of torturing others and such a lack of empathy towards others.

Because they have to have been involved in creating a s c u m bag like him I think he must have very much been part of that family.

If there is any justice he will not have his behaviour further approved by winning the show because he has already said he thinks there is alright,as is usual from most s c u m,

who wont admit when they are wrong.So the thing to do here is let him be used as entertainment for some as his behaviour deserves that but dont justify his behaviour as we add further to his wrong analysis that he is alright by giving him the prize money .

[Paula D]

Originally Posted by Clootie Dumpling

She seemed rather downtrodden and fragile to me. No surprise really, living with Bear. I hear he's a chip off the old block (his Dad's), so I do wonder why she's still there!

I thought that too, thought she looked very worn out by it all. I certainly would be if I was his mother. She must spend so much time defending him.

[azi]

she was payed

[Vanessa]

His mum made me laugh when she said the house was quiet since he left And can they keep him for another two weeks?