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I kind of agree, but there are problems - please state what | 3 | 25.00% | ||||
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07-02-2018, 05:06 PM | #51 | ||
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Might be fair if it also only applied to those who say something along the lines of leftie wanker. Waste of time when the mods still want to practice double standards. Last edited by Brillopad; 07-02-2018 at 05:14 PM. |
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07-02-2018, 05:14 PM | #52 | ||
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Make a separate elite subforum for the cream of the crop and make it that you have to earn your way in there by consistently making insightful posts,and after a while there will be one small but excellent little SD subforum. The promised land, so to speak, where the riff-raff may never tread. Every member there will have mod privileges and the ability to edit each others posts - but will never do so, on a trust based system.
I will obviously be the first member because A) we all know I'd get there quickly anyway and B) I don't really need anyone else to reply to my posts, I can just have discussions on my own... And then eventually others will reach a high enough level to join me there. Just a thought. |
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07-02-2018, 05:17 PM | #53 | ||
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07-02-2018, 05:18 PM | #54 | |||
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There's no way to end disputes, that's part of the job. |
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07-02-2018, 05:20 PM | #55 | ||
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That is your opinion not fact. So if someone finds someone’s view snowflakey or hard left but give an explanation why that is okay? You are not willing to change your stance one iota. Nothing will change clearly.
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07-02-2018, 05:23 PM | #56 | ||
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Thinking that someone's post is racist, in itself, is not an insult, especially if they explain why. |
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07-02-2018, 05:23 PM | #57 | ||
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What you are basically saying when you say "they are snowflakes!" is; "In my opinion, those people are being too sensitive" ... And the latter would be totally fine to say. You can see the difference, surely. |
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07-02-2018, 05:24 PM | #58 | ||
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To make a couple of direct comparisons;
"I find this over-sensitive" "I find this a bit racist" Both fine. "You are a snowflake!" "You are a Nazi!" ... Not fine. |
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07-02-2018, 05:28 PM | #59 | |||
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I have seen that on the forum I think. My idea of insult I try to keep pretty simple... if I can make someone 0-60 super pissed by saying they are XYZ, then that's a pretty good indicator it will be taken as an insult. Most people where I come from would be livid if you called them racist. And it's said to bait others to get them to throw a punch in a non-criminal/criminal environment. |
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07-02-2018, 05:29 PM | #60 | ||
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There is a huge difference between using baity terms for people, and actually stating that you find them/the post/whatever a bit oversensitive or something. I have now changed my mind on the snowflake thing actually. I supported it earlier in the thread but of course you are right...'I think you are being oversensitive on this issue' V 'you are a being a snowflake'...of course the former is much better and more grown up
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07-02-2018, 05:29 PM | #61 | |||
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I disagree purely because I think it would be hard to implement and VERY subjective depending on the moderator in question at the time. It's not as simple and black and white as normal forum rules. People could be posting things which they deemed perfectly fine and a moderator could take issue with it etc.
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07-02-2018, 05:30 PM | #62 | ||
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Random 'you are racist'. No good. IMO. I guess again, with this stuff a lot of it is context and personal opinion.
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07-02-2018, 05:33 PM | #63 | ||
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07-02-2018, 05:35 PM | #64 | |||
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And that's as far as I'd take it really. I think picking and choosing words is a bad way to go about crafting any policy. It's better to go with context... and I think some need to let up off the moderators if they get it wrong. We're human beings with completely different subjective realities. Perception is not an exact science.
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07-02-2018, 05:36 PM | #65 | ||
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However, I think quoting something and saying "This is kinda racist", or "I think you're being racist" is quite different from "You ARE A racist". Mainly because I don't think most people are racist, but I do think pretty much everyone is capable of being racist at times, whether intentionally or not. |
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07-02-2018, 05:38 PM | #66 | |||
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07-02-2018, 05:39 PM | #67 | ||
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07-02-2018, 05:52 PM | #68 | ||
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It doesn't work because what you essentially want to do is neuter someone's right to reply, you can use a different word to snowflake and still say the same thing but you can't do the same if you find something racist and if someone finds something racist or sexist or homophobic then why can't they say so as long as it's not a one line response or done as an insult? |
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07-02-2018, 05:53 PM | #69 | |||
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07-02-2018, 05:54 PM | #70 | ||
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Racist may have a valid meaning but is also used as a silly jibe - you honestly think you can say it isn’t. I have been called racist based on my opposition to mass migration and/or Burkha wearing on many occasions by the very same people who claim it isn’t used to insult or shut-down when it clearly is - long before the flag-waving of the Muslim mother and son who had to wash dishes thread. |
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07-02-2018, 05:55 PM | #71 | ||
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07-02-2018, 05:59 PM | #72 | ||
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I am closing my own thread as its now quite clear that no matter what we do, we will be in the wrong. I did think that maybe we could sort something out, but it is clear that this is not possible tbh. I don't know what I was thinking making this thread and being optimistic about it all. Also closing as I can see the direction this is now going to go, in exactly the same direction as most other threads.
Moderating is always going to be subjective. And context is important also so no 'set rules' would really work. So I guess, I will be doing the same as usual, but I may also be reminding people that they need to be ontopic, and also intervening/deleting when appropriate. This will be my last attempt to sort out this section, and tbh, I am sure it won't work either but it has to be tried. If people do feel victimized, so be it. Its the nature of the job really isn't it.. So yeah, closed as its already going the same way as usual, tbh. People may PM me if they disagree with this being closed, but I am sure most can see exactly why it was.
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