[Amy Jade]

So we have only been official for about 2 weeks and he only met my family last week at a friends birthday and my mum hates him she thinks he is cocky and she keeps saying don't bring him in when he drops me off at home.

I heard her on the phone to her friend aswell slagging him off and it's her house I respect her not wanting him in but to be so against him after meeting him only once has annoyed me. Should I talk to her or am I just baiting an argument?

[Zizu]

Originally Posted by Amy Jade

So we have only been official for about 2 weeks and he only met my family last week at a friends birthday and my mum hates him she thinks he is cocky and she keeps saying don't bring him in when he drops me off at home.



I heard her on the phone to her friend aswell slagging him off and it's her house I respect her not wanting him in but to be so against him after meeting him only once has annoyed me. Should I talk to her or am I just baiting an argument?

Maybe tell your boyfriend to try and win her over ??

Otherwise the next 60 years could be awkward ..


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[Wizard.]

Why did you get a cocky boyfriend then

[Denver]

Who takes a boyfriend to meet the family after 2 weeks?

[Amy Jade]

Originally Posted by Adam.

Who takes a boyfriend to meet the family after 2 weeks?

Known him ages, just been properly together a few weeks. Not like I've moved him in but not going to hide him either

[michael21]

Originally Posted by Amy Jade

Known him ages, just been properly together a few weeks. Not like I've moved him in but not going to hide him either

What the age gab and what dose he do (job wise)

Just trying to think why your mum don't like him

[Denver]

Originally Posted by michael21

What the age gab and what dose he do (job wise)

Just trying to think why your mum don't like him

Not Amy taking Nick Knowles home

[michael21]

Originally Posted by Adam.

Not Amy taking Nick Knowles home

Yes he going to build her a door so he can kick her out of it

[Marsh.]

Originally Posted by michael21

What the age gab and what dose he do (job wise)

Just trying to think why your mum don't like him

She already said. Her mum thinks he's cocky.

[Marsh.]

Originally Posted by Adam.

Who takes a boyfriend to meet the family after 2 weeks?

Well, it's not as if she's had an official "meet the parents".

I imagine they're going to meet him at some point. Just so happened to be at a birthday party everybody was attending.

Did you want her to keep them in separate rooms like Rachel does with her parents on Friends?

[Crimson Dynamo]

Your mum is probably a betterr judge of character

[RileyH]

Talk to her you might not get another boyfriend

[michael21]

Well if your happy your mum should be happy for you

My advice is wait 2 months if your still with him and you mum still dont like him then have a talk with your mum

[Marsh.]

Is he cocky?

I'd say it is a little judgemental after only one meeting, but he must have made quite an impression.

I'd say it's your mum and probably nobody will be good enough for her daughter, but if this relationship lasts the course there will come a time she'll give him more of a chance and get to know him better. Now, whether that will lead to better or worse results depends on your boyfriend.

[Amy Jade]

Originally Posted by Marsh.

Is he cocky?

I'd say it is a little judgemental after only one meeting, but he must have made quite an impression.

I'd say it's your mum and probably nobody will be good enough for her daughter, but if this relationship lasts the course there will come a time she'll give him more of a chance and get to know him better. Now, whether that will lead to better or worse results depends on your boyfriend.

Honestly no I wouldn't say so, confident yes but he makes me feel confident too so I don't see it as a negative at all.

My mums not normally like that she''s normally really interested in my dates and stuff we are pretty close.

[Marsh.]

Originally Posted by Amy Jade

Honestly no I wouldn't say so, confident yes but he makes me feel confident too so I don't see it as a negative at all.

My mums not normally like that she''s normally really interested in my dates and stuff we are pretty close.

Aww, it was probably just a bad first impression then. She'll come round if he is a nice bloke.

If that is the only time they've met then there's plenty of opportunity to fix it.

Even if it takes a bit of overdoing it like "Omg, LOOK what he's done for me for Christmas!!"

[Amy Jade]

Originally Posted by Marsh.

Aww, it was probably just a bad first impression then. She'll come round if he is a nice bloke.

If that is the only time they've met then there's plenty of opportunity to fix it.

Even if it takes a bit of overdoing it like "Omg, LOOK what he's done for me for Christmas!!"

I think she just wants to dislike him or something though it's frustrating and I heard her say to her friend she can't bare him and he's a knob and I just find her reaction extreme.

[Marsh.]

Originally Posted by Amy Jade

I think she just wants to dislike him or something though it's frustrating and I heard her say to her friend she can't bare him and he's a knob and I just find her reaction extreme.

SHE'S SLEEPING WITH HIM!!

[Twosugars]

Originally Posted by Amy Jade

I think she just wants to dislike him or something though it's frustrating and I heard her say to her friend she can't bare him and he's a knob and I just find her reaction extreme.

That is extreme
I'd tell her to mind her own business

[thesheriff443]

Probably tryed it on with her mum.

[DouglasS]

Is your mum homophobic?

[thesheriff443]

Originally Posted by DouglasS

Is your mum homophobic?

She said cocky not camp

[AnnieK]

Is he cocky Amy?

I ask because when I was younger I made an awful first impression on anyone I met, I was terribly shy and so everyone thought I was moody and a bit ****ty....I wasn't but thats how it cane across.

If you really like him and he's not a cocky arse, talk to your mum. Ask her to trust your judgement and try again, one on one he will probably be a different person than meeting him on a night out etc...

No boy is really worth falling out with your mum over....unless you're really serious about him but saying that...it's your life too.

God, I'm no help am I?

[Amy Jade]

Originally Posted by AnnieK

Is he cocky Amy?

I ask because when I was younger I made an awful first impression on anyone I met, I was terribly shy and so everyone thought I was moody and a bit ****ty....I wasn't but thats how it cane across.

If you really like him and he's not a cocky arse, talk to your mum. Ask her to trust your judgement and try again, one on one he will probably be a different person than meeting him on a night out etc...

No boy is really worth falling out with your mum over....unless you're really serious about him but saying that...it's your life too.

God, I'm no help am I?

I wouldn't say cocky. Confident yes but he's not arrogant, that would be a deal breaker for me. He's very chatty though. My step dad liked him but my mum is being quite toxic about him.

Example we went to see Creed ll and if I was with the girls she would have just said enjoy or whatever but she made a passive aggresive comment about it being a sports film and asked sarcastically if it was my choice.

[thesheriff443]

You are young it’s not going to marriage and babies is it Amy