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Old 01-07-2019, 09:25 AM #1
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Default Has anyone ever been obsessed with you?

Once, I was friends with a guy and we just chatted on msn after we met through a friend but as soon as we became Facebook friends he kept sending me my own profile picture, it was really weird. He would send it to our mutual friends too. Bizarre.

I think what he was doing wasn't scary or anything, it was just weird, but I ended up distancing myself from him.

There are also people who are obsessed with you in a paranoid way. They think that everything you say is related to them in a bad way somehow.

How do you guys deal with these types of people?
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...just exactly what you did Jess...just distance yourself ...’weird’ can be wonderful but it isn’t always wonderful and sometimes makes you feel uncomfortable...so backing away and distancing I think is the obvious thing...
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Thankfully he was a right soppy sod and had no violent intentions.
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Thankfully he was a right soppy sod and had no violent intentions.
I'm glad it wasn't someone scary, smudgie!
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...just exactly what you did Jess...just distance yourself ...’weird’ can be wonderful but it isn’t always wonderful and sometimes makes you feel uncomfortable...so backing away and distancing I think is the obvious thing...
Yeah, it's just frustrating sometimes when you have mutual friends with the person, you have to try not do things all together with them.
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Yeah quite a few people are obsessed with me, Douglas told me it's the same for him as well
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I get the feeling there's more going on here than meets the eye
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I've had this with someone at work. I'd only met them briefly twice and they suddenly thought we were best friends and called me up for a lift one late night.

Then on days I wasn't on shift my colleagues would tell me they'd been calling up to speak to me.

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I've had this with someone at work. I'd only met them briefly twice and they suddenly thought we were best friends and called me up for a lift one late night.

Then on days I wasn't on shift my colleagues would tell me they'd been calling up to speak to me.
That is so creepy!
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I get the feeling there's more going on here than meets the eye
Omg is she talking about you?

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What do you mean?
Well going by Staceys reply it sounded like a dig at you in which case I'm wondering if this thread was aimed at Stacey? I feel like this is some sort of offsite drama but of course this is all gut feeling/speculation on my part
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Well going by Stacys reply it sounded like a dig at you in which case I'm wondering if this thread was aimed at Stacy? I feel like this is some sort of offsite drama but of course this is all gut feeling/speculation on my part
Clock them....trouble rousers.
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Well going by Staceys reply it sounded like a dig at you in which case I'm wondering if this thread was aimed at Stacey? I feel like this is some sort of offsite drama but of course this is all gut feeling/speculation on my part
How does the op even correspond to this theory though?

Clearly Stacey is beyond fragile to think it’s about her if that’s what she’s getting at?
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