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Old 04-07-2019, 06:41 PM #1
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Default 19yr old girl gets body shamed at church ‘Fat girls don’t wear shorts’...

A 19-year-old girl from Swansboro, N.C. was fat-shamed at church on Sunday, when a congregation leader followed her to the bathroom and told her, “Fat girls don’t wear shorts.”

The teen, who goes by Jenna on Twitter, took to her social media to share a video that she captured when a woman named Bonnie Sue confronted her in the bathroom of Swansboro United Methodist Church. When the clip starts, Sue is seemingly referring to another churchgoer when she says, “She’s a chubby girl. She’s got a dress on that’s appropriate.”

When Jenna responds, “So you’re sitting here calling me fat?” Sue counters, “Oh, you don’t think you are?”

Jenna is heard breaking down into tears, while Sue continues to taunt and threaten her.

“Don’t come back on that stage with those shorts,” Sue said. “I’m warning you.”

According to an explanation included in Jenna’s Twitter thread, the teen is a member of the contemporary band at her church, but writes “I will never get back up on the stage to sing again.”

“I’m honestly shocked and upset that this happened at church,” she wrote. “I should feel accepted and loved and now I don’t want to go back to that church.”

The pastor of Swansboro United Methodist Church, G. Kevin Baker, provided Yahoo Lifestyle with a statement that was sent to the community on Tuesday. Jenna also added the letter as an update to her thread

“It has come to our attention that great harm has been done in an incident that occurred this past Sunday where a faithful and very gifted young lady and worship leader was body shaming for her appearance,” the statement reads. “We are shocked and saddened by this act. The Church is supposed to be a place of safety, love and acceptance.”

According to Jenna’s thread, the pastor told her that Sue won’t be working in any sort of committee or in any leadership role at the church ever again. In an email to Yahoo Lifestyle, Baker also noted that Sue and is a church member and not an employee.

Beyond the pastor’s support, however, Jenna has received an outpouring of love from thousands of Twitter users — including actress and body positive activist Jameela Jamil.



https://uk.news.yahoo.com/girl-bodys...213456596.html

...and a vid in the link as well...the older lady is relentlessly cruel and horrid to the young girl...
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Lol, the lady wasn't exactly tiny either.

It looks like it has been addressed though and appropriate action taken
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Adam goes by Sue at the weekend?
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Horrible story though, shows perfectly that nastiness goes through every generation
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Saw this a couple of days ago and whilst it's horrible, I couldn't help but think the girl was waaaaaaaaaaaaaaaay too quick to turn aggressive and screamy. Something about her voice and reaction just really irked me.
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Reminds me of something i saw today actually in a car park.
A very large lady with formidable (to say the least)thighs wearing a white tennis player style skirt.
She was bending over to get something from the floor of her car.A light breeze then blew her skirt right up.
That could not be unseen.

However I would never go and start ‘fat shaming’ her.
That is rather cruel.
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While there are plenty of things no-one wants to see, as long as she was following public decency etiquette she has no obligation to be visually appealing
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This happened in the US

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Lol, the lady wasn't exactly tiny either.

It looks like it has been addressed though and appropriate action taken
Not Annie body shaming Sue



very strange carry on in that video
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Its the USA Church Older Lady
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Saw this a couple of days ago and whilst it's horrible, I couldn't help but think the girl was waaaaaaaaaaaaaaaay too quick to turn aggressive and screamy. Something about her voice and reaction just really irked me.
I would agree with this, it escalated extremely quickly and honestly, seems the ott reaction was solely for the benefit of those she was planning to show the video to. Mind, the woman insulting her was a twat of course, so rude and for no reason at all seemingly, also was not exactly skinny herself so seems a bit rich to be calling others fat. From the pictures of the girl posted, she seems to be like..half the size of the woman insulting her
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