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Old 24-09-2021, 12:21 PM #1
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My partner just sent me a text

A woman that works at the college just came up to her and said I’ve looked at you and I must say you have really perky boobs and a lovely family figure you look like brown haired baby doll
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My partner just sent me a text

A woman that works at the college just came up to her and said I’ve looked at you and I must say you have really perky boobs and a lovely family figure you look like brown haired baby doll

There was a time when people would just palm it off as a compliment...which it is in a way....BUT....those comments can be deemed offensive and demeaning.
Personally I would not be happy about it...
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There was a time when people would just palm it off as a compliment...which it is in a way....BUT....those comments can be deemed offensive and demeaning.
Personally I would not be happy about it...
My partner put wtf in her text.
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My partner put wtf in her text.


Its one of those situations where she was probably taken by surprise at the time and then walked away feeling almost violated...
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Whats a family figure...yeah it’s a bit weird to come out with that
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Whats a family figure...yeah it’s a bit weird to come out with that
The word family was a mistake by me
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I think that there's nothing wrong with complementing someone's looks, and I get that everyone expresses themselves differently.

However there is a line between complimentary and creepy, to me if I got a message like that and I was a woman I'd be a bit creeped out tbh. Just like I would be creeped out if a woman said to me "I saw a photo of you yesterday, I can't wait to play with your Penis" it'd be like "okay, stay away from me."

A funny thread though.
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