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19-10-2021, 10:41 AM | #76 | |||
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20-10-2021, 09:50 AM | #77 | ||
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20-10-2021, 09:53 AM | #78 | ||
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All this said, on Friday when he turns up to get wrecked with me when the kids are at Gavins, I imagine things will change again. But who cares really. (I am aware this post makes me sound a total bitch also) Edit. Also agree with the attacks on her appearance thing though and think you are better off without each other really.
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20-10-2021, 09:55 AM | #79 | |||
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Do you moderate whilst wrecked vicky?
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20-10-2021, 09:57 AM | #80 | ||
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Edit. Though no physical chemistry is needed in my imagined situation of course. We are not planning an orgy
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Nope. Barely moderate at all these days but its always been a rule of mine, if under the influence in some way, stay the hell away from the admin side
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20-10-2021, 10:13 AM | #82 | |||
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10-01-2022, 02:54 AM | #83 | |||
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Basically, i dunno if im looking for advice, still a bit baffled even though things are pretty clear now.
So we went no contact, she reached out a month a go, we've been going back and forth arguing (both don't wanna be with each other anymore, both can't let go). She is with this dude playing online, chatting, whatever almost every waking second they're not working/sleeping. 3 months, every day, 4-12 hours a day. Texting when at work. That's THEM, not me and her. She wants to be friends with me, i said ok, and of course asked if she was in a relationship with him yet, she say's no, but that they are very close friends. She is at his beck and call 24/7, i know that much. And as most people said before, yeah she really likes him, she admitted that. She does wanna be with him, but wonders (kinda hinting for me to answer) why yes, he's with her all the time, but hasn't made a move yet. She said he's never brought up sex, and is never flirty. She tries to flirt sometimes, he just brushes it off. Also, they met ONCE in person before she went to Hull (where he lives) with her friends, they met for a morning, this was 3 months ago. He's a very, very outgoing person i know that much, and he's good looking, anyone can see that. I told her it was strange, and my honest opinion to her was (and this killed me because i still have feelings for her) that he obviously does like her, he spends so much time online gaming with her, and that maybe he's just taking his time. She just said 'thanks' and we argued more as to why we didn't work out. Anyway, i dunno, it means nothing to me in the sense that she's admitted she wants to be with him, but is being with someone sometimes 12 hours a day, for 3 months, and NOT making a move too long? Has she been friendzoned? I dunno what to think. He knows she likes and wants him fwiw. I dunno what to tell her because i can only base on how i would act. And i know it's never taken me 3 months, when spending so much time with them, to know if i like them, like that or not. I've always known in the past.
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10-01-2022, 06:53 AM | #84 | |||
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Jeez just let it go Swan, far too much drama
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10-01-2022, 08:59 AM | #85 | |||
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Swan you need to just move on , and you probably won't like this but I think staying 'in contact' or whatever odd dynamic you still have with her is unhealthy . I think it's best to not engage anymore , it's her business what she wants to do with this guy whether they eventually date or not. There's no point arguing with them , just wish them the best and carry on with your life. I think you got way too invested in this person, and you will never get over them if you continue to hold onto them . You have an inspiring quote on your sig by Bruce Lee ,I think you should practice it . That's my advice anyway. |
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10-01-2022, 09:02 AM | #86 | |||
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10-01-2022, 09:34 AM | #87 | |||
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it sounds like this guy just wants a gaming mate tbh and she is hoping for more, but that is not your problem, your problem is that she is not into you at all and is just using you, so delete her, and move on
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10-01-2022, 11:16 AM | #88 | |||
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Yeah all sound advice, i know you're all right. Thank you. Letting go was a lot harder than i thought, but it really is the only way forward i know.
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30-01-2022, 07:22 PM | #89 | |||
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Boring i know, me and her are just friends now, she's asked me for advice, dunno what to tell her?
4 months, not flirting or move. Maybe he's taking his time? Sorry, it's confusing to me. Im not interested in her, we realised we are better ad friends. I think he's interested, and that's what i tell her.
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30-01-2022, 07:27 PM | #90 | |||
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She was being silly and jokey during a game, and he said "im gonna have to turn your volume down in a min"
Sounds like a wanker.
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30-01-2022, 07:33 PM | #91 | |||
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30-01-2022, 07:34 PM | #92 | |||
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Nah, she was being silly and jokey, and HE said he had to turn her down because it was annoying him.
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30-01-2022, 07:37 PM | #93 | |||
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30-01-2022, 07:39 PM | #94 | |||
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Nah he's really 'straight' and she said he said it in a serious tone, and that she was on eggshells after that.
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30-01-2022, 07:48 PM | #95 | |||
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I think he's interested so i tell her that, she's not so sure....
4 months, no flirting or sex and they game together daily. He messages her a lot. She is at his beck and call 24/7 But he met hr IRL and since then he's been 'cold' but with her daily gaming (he has nothing else) I think he'll go for it, don't want her hurt. I did like her, but we were friends before, and are friends now, and she comes to me as a bloke for advice. I dunno what to tell her? She tries to flirt and he shoots her down, she flirted/made a joke about sex and he said "im trying to talk to you normally" I dunno, it's all mixed.
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30-01-2022, 07:50 PM | #96 | |||
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30-01-2022, 07:51 PM | #97 | |||
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Solid advice, very, very solid X
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30-01-2022, 07:59 PM | #98 | |||
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05-02-2022, 08:51 AM | #99 | ||
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This is still ongoing? Cut the ties man. Not that I can really talk on that subject anymore as I am very hung up on some guy who is ghosting me like ****
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05-02-2022, 01:32 PM | #100 | |||
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I think you still really like her and can’t let go….but you need to and move on
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